Annull Now!

[The Greatest Is LOVE]

hello there. meron po ba dito na kakahiwalay nyo lang sa asawa nyo, say 3months pa lang, nagfile na nang annulment yun kabilang party?

coz in my case, iniwan nya ko 3 months ago due to my insensitivity, no-plans, and pride issues. accepted ko naman my fault kaya i let her go na rin...

pero now she is filing it, 3 months pa lang nakakalipas, agad-agad???

meron na kaya s'yang bago? tama po ba?
and please share if meron na kayo ganitong issue at kung nagprosper ba? salamat po

[momentum]

^ I have not experinced that yet pero hiwalay narin ako sa husband ko tho not annulled yet

Bro, if you have let her go, then why suddenly po bigla kang nabigla na nag file na siya? Were you still expecting po ba na magkakabalikan kayo? Kasi if not eh talaga naman po na yan ang next step para officially maging hiwalay na ang couple, lalo kapag may means naman ang isa to do so

Filing an annulment doesnt always mean may iba na kagad na bf. Most of the time it means the other person has 100% decided to move on na and that means gusto narin niya mawala lahat ng ugnayan between you both - one of those is having to carry your surname. For others naman, usually delayed mag file ng annulment kasi wala pa budget plus gusto pa mag heal.. And then after some time eh nakahanap na ng iba na they are sure na that gusto nila magpakasal. For me kapag ready na ako with my finances, magpapa annul narin ako, and I will do it for myself, not for anyone. Maybe yan din ang perspective niya - she is doing it for herself, to have peace of mind and be officially single again.

3 months na nakalipas and I doubt naman na that fast eh nakahanap na siya ng iba which gave her the urge to annull your marriage. It doesn't usually happen that way, that fast

Ang tanong, ano ba gusto mo mangyari? Gusto mo ba at inaasa mo bang maayos ninyo pa marriage ninyo? Or nagulat ka lang coz you never expected that she'd decide on this quickly?. I have read your posts before pa.. Although I feel sad for you, parang tanggap mo rin naman na eh na ayaw na niya kasi wala ka naman ng ginawa to get her back. Wlang follow-up na ngyari after you left the house (or maybe wala ka kinuwento dito)  So bro, kung ganun parin ang nararamdaman mo now eh just let her do it na and cooperate nalang.. She deserves to be happy too.

[Girltalker2]

^ Tingin ko, gusto lang malaman ni TS kung niloloko na pala sya all along nang di nya alam.

And therefore, baka mabait pa si TS sa wife nya in giving his share of the conjugal assets.
In which case, his decision would have been different kung totoo nga na niloloko sya.

Naalala ko kasi shared ang pagbili ng house nila pero si TS kumusa umalis para may matirahan in laws nya at wife pero sya kawawa. Yun pala baka sya na ang niloloko.

Masasabi kong it is a rare case makipaghiwalay bigla (I remember TS post before na clueless pero hiwalay agad ang gusto ng wife without trying).
All the more rare case ang hiwalay at annulment na bigla in a span of 6 months or so, especially sa mga Pinoy.

Normally may period na cooling off iyan e. unless atat ka talaga for whatever reason.

My case naman ako nagfile after a long time. Years na same house but di kami ok. Then mga 3 years din siguro na hiwalay na house. And it was the time I realised na baka mistress lang nya at mga anak sa labas makinabang ng pinaghirapan ko.

TS, as suggested before, hindi ka dapat umalis sa tirahan nyo since sayo rin iyon. I'm not saying gatasan mo sya, pero I just believe on what's fair. Gaya samin, despite sa pagloko sakin ng ex ko, pera nya is his but I make sure what's mine is mine. Kaya wala syang masa sabi sakin na taking his money. At the same time, feeling ko walang katumbas na pera yung ginawa nya. Kahit no support din for my kids.

Anyway good luck nalang sayo TS, be strong. Whatever it is, just make your decisions objectively at huwag mo pairalin ang damdamin. Yung tama lang. Take what's yours and move on.

[The Greatest Is LOVE]

nagulat lang naman ako kasi why would you file an annulment ng ganun kabilis kung wala kang pinaghahandaan..?

i want her to find the happiness na hinahanap n'ya coz its really my fault kung bakit nagfail yun marriage namin. doon ako nakafocus sa mali ko kaya i let her go na rin. pero with this filing medyo nagdalawang isip ako sa motibo nya ng paghihiwalay sa akin. i will be honest with you, medyo dumumi yun utak ko na baka mayruon sya iba right after iwan nya ko or during kami pa...

i know it's not right to think na meron sya iba pero bakit agad-agad ang pagfile ng annulment kung ang sabi nya sa akin nun naghiwalay kami na focus nya family nya...ayoko at hindi ko talaga iniisip may third party...

[momentum]

^para kasi sakin bro, parang 10% chance lang na yung reason bakit ganun kabilis is because may 3rd party. kasi it takes some time rin for a married woman to finally decide to annul and get married again to someone else..knowing na may uncertainty na maglalast din yung 2nd marriage at isa pa is napaka mahal ng annulment dito

not unless may iba na nga siya at matagal tagal na sila..ayaw ko naman din dumihin isip mo pero may ganyang instance din kasi.

tingin ko rin baka nagkaroon na siya ng budget for the annulment and bago pa niya magastos ito for something else eh gagamitin na kagad niya for that purpose..maybe also she found a good lawyer and mababa singil sa kanya..ang daming possibilities eh..

may lakas ka ba ngloob bro na tanunging siya why ganun kabilis? and prepared ka ba sa magiging sagot niya?.. ano pala naging reaction mo when she told you this?

really sorry bro with what happened sa inyo kaya mo yan, makaka move on ka rin..there's a reason for everything

[The Greatest Is LOVE]

salamat po a. okay na naman ako halos hindi ko na rin sya naiisip before. pero with this latest news from her, parang nag-iba tagpo ng utak ko sa dahilan ng pakikipaghiwalay nya. medyo dumumi ang mga naiiisip ko...haaayy..sayang..hindi pa naman ako galit sa kanya before...now? i don't know, speculation pa lang naman ako e...

[fastlove]

Bro, ok na rin yan  mahaba naman ng  process ng   annul..  so pwede naman  magbago pa  kayo..
mabuti na yan  alam nya [textspeak!]  gusto nya.. save  time and effort..

[glamorosa_09]

Hi bro,

Who knows, maybe that's your intuition telling you something. If you have the will to confirm it, you'll certainly find a way. But one thing's for sure, you're not paranoid, since never in your thinking did it occur that there could be a third party - ngayon lang.

On the other hand, hindi rin naman malayong mangyaring she wants to completely cut her ties with you as soon as she can, lalo na kung matagal nang nawala na ang pagmamahal nya sayo and she has the means (meron ba syang means?)

But then again, it could be your gut which is worth investigating, kung gusto mo.

[Ms.Cacao70%]

ang tanong, kelan pa ba sya na fall out of love sa yo? yes, maaaring kakahiwalay nyo palang pero hindi naman yon ang point, ang point dito kelan ka pa nya gustong hiwalayan? lets say 2 years na kayong may problema or the relationship may have turned sour way before the separation happened. what i meant is matagal na syang naka move on sa utak nya. hindi naman ibig sabihin may kapalit ka na agad, pwede namang determinado lang syang magsimula muli ng buhay nya on a clean slate. life is short, if she realized that you were not meant to be together, i'm not surprised if she wanted to file the annulment right away. bakit pa nya patatagalin pa di ba? i will do the same thing! siguro kanya-kanya tayong pananaw about paghihiwalay.  it maybe hard to accept lalo na kung alam mong nasa yo ang fault pero this is the consequence you have to endure.

[twenty5]

Kmusta ka na pala?
san ka na nag stay?

Na follow ko pa yung thread mo before. Anyway, better wag mo na lang isipin kung meron siyang bago or wala. I really don't know about filing annulment dahil hindi naman ako kasal.

Masasabi ko lang, you'll find out naman siguro once naka file na yan. Sa tingin ko kasi you're still in the process na para maka move in. In time I know you can move on.... I pray for you brother!

I know gaano kasakit yan. Pero kung talagang yan ang solusyon ni girl na maka hiwalay sayo. Let her be. I think ipag pray mo din na maka move on ka na din..

Teka, alam na ng parents nyo?

[fastlove]

Bro  on the other side of the   story..

baka  naman  ikaw rin may problema... pre..  hindi  ganun kadali magkipag  hiwalay ang babae..

[j.adore]

Wala naman length of time ang pag-file. It's a matter of wanting out, totally out.

Whether there is another guy or none, ending is you're still broken up. Pwede mo lang siya kasuhan in case the third party was there while you were still together. But at what cost? More pain and suffering and gastos.

Though I still think you should be compensated kasi may share ka din naman sa house and lot, di ba? Other than that, this is a step to move on.

[aquacharly]

Important pa ba kung may iba sya now, or while married kayo?
The Reality is, ayaw ka na nya  in her life.  She has moved on, mag move on ka na rin. 

You say she left kasi kasalanan mo:  insensitive ka, ma pride etc etc
Alam mo pala your faults; pero wala kang ginawa.  Sabi mo - you accepted fault mo kaya you let her go na rin.  In effect, ayaw mo na sya in your life 3 months ago.
Now, ayaw ka na rin nya in her life.
So, why ask about the timing of a 3rd party?  You think she will admit kung pinendejo ka man? 

Hindi mo pinaglaban ang marriage nyo.  No effort. Parang sinabi mo: Take me as-is, where is. Take it or leave it.  So, na leave it ka -- why are you asking now if may bago or na pendejo ka? 
Kung hindi nag file for annulment --  or nag file after whatever to you is a reasonable length of separation time --  will it matter pa ba to you if may Bagong love or pinendejo ka? 
Hindi issue yang fidelity nya. Ang issue eh yung pinanindigan mo it's your way or the highway. So hwag ka mag reklamo if hina-highway ka nya now.  You know, IMO, for most wives -- mahaba ang tinitiiis na Calvary bago iwanan ang husband.

You do soul searching. If you want her back -  commit to change.  Ligawan mo uli.    Sya naman ang mag decide to take it or leave it.  Panapanahon lang yan.  Sabi sa House of Cards, when you want something desperately:  Carve out your heart & give it.  So, give it your all and best.

Kung ayaw mo naman to get her back, hwag mo na patagalin pa.  Cooperate ka na lang.  Why delay what you both want to happen?
Kung pride mo umiiral kaya nagulat ka sa timing --  isa tabi mo na lang. Remember your happy days & the good intentions you had when you got married. Those are reasons enough to get annulled & resume a friendly relationship. 

May another angle to the speedy filing of an annulment: she wants to protect her share of the conjugal properties.
She wants her share asap. It is but fair. 

[three8one]

unang una TS, inamin mong sa kabilang banda may fault ka din kaya pinayagan mo na lang? yun ba talaga ang tamang solusyon dun? ni hindi ka na gagawa ng effort sa mga sinasabi ng ex wife mo na baguhin mo man lang for consideration?

palagay ko makipag cooperate ka na nga lang. kasi mukhang gusto mo rin naman talaga ang nangyayari eh. may pa gulat gulat ka pa sinasabi? echos mo!

tama lahat sinabi ng poster above me.



 

[crzysxycl]

Bro TS, ilang months/years ba dapat lumipas bago magpa annul? Naisip ko lang, baka naman binigyan ka ng deadline ng misis mo - baka yung lumipas na 3 months, she was waiting for you to act. Eh malamang wala kang ginawa kaya ayan. True yung sinasabi ng ibang nag post dito, mahaba ang pasensya ng mga babae. Baka matagal na rin sya nagtitiis sayo. Sana kinonsider mo rin na magbago kahit pakonti-konti. I know hindi naman madaling baguhin ang sarili, pero sana kahit konting effort pinakita mo, yun eh kung ayaw mo talaga syang mawala sayo.

[momentum]

curious kung kamusta na kaya si TS

[sensi]

nawala na si TS

[momentum]

naiba title?

active pa naman si TS..sana mag update

[imprincessfiona]

^Kamusta na kaya si TS?

[yn061515]

hello there. meron po ba dito na kakahiwalay nyo lang sa asawa nyo, say 3months pa lang, nagfile na nang annulment yun kabilang party?

coz in my case, iniwan nya ko 3 months ago due to my insensitivity, no-plans, and pride issues. accepted ko naman my fault kaya i let her go na rin...

pero now she is filing it, 3 months pa lang nakakalipas, agad-agad???

meron na kaya s'yang bago? tama po ba?
and please share if meron na kayo ganitong issue at kung nagprosper ba? salamat po

I DID NOT BACKREAD the other comments ha.
Atleast sinunod nya yung "three month rule." lol
Kidding aside, masyado mabilis. May iba na kaya? I think so.