SEAMAN-SEMANLOLOKO DAW?TOTOO BA YAN PARA SA INYO?

[simang]

You become who you surround yourself with. So I guess as much as the character of a person matters in being a cheater, factor din kung nakukunsinte sila ng tao sa paligid nila. That's the sad part I guess in being a seafarer, pare parehas kasi sila na experience, malayo sa family, di namimeet ang needs, so ang daling gawing excuse if they had an affair, ang daling idefend. And if ganun ang araw araw na kwentong maeencounter mo habang nasa barko ka, eventually it becomes natural to you too. It becomes easy to do, lalo na kung suportado ka ng mga tao around you. But again hindi lang naman sa seafarers nga exclusive yan. Wala sa profession talaga. So depende talaga sa values ng tao, at sa values ng mga tao sa paligid nila.

[fionnah325]

^ well said sis..thanks

[B2B2016]

i personally dont believe in this. my fiance is also a seaman. we have known each other since high school. noon pa man alam ko na may feelings siya saken kasi nararamdaman ko kahit hindi niya sinasabi directly. umalis siya at sumakay ng barko without saying kung hihintayin ko ba siya o hindi. i was quite dissapointed so i ended up seeing other guys and unfortunately fell into a big big big mess. didnt know they guy i fell into was a psycho. he harrassed me and forced me to get married. nagkatrauma ako because of the abused i experienced from him but one day i woke up and realise that i need to fight. to cut the long story short i finally got away from that man. after that i just decided to move on without any intention to be in a relationship again. it all happened in a matter of 4 months. after 11 months of being on board, he (my fiance now) got back and meet me. he finally said the words ive been waiting to hear from him but instead of being happy, i was super sad and cried. i told him that we cant be together anymore because i am already married. he was shocked but it didnt took him too long to think if he would still pursue me. he said he still accepts me and still want to be with me despite everything. to cut it all short, we are still together now and its been more than 3 yrs. he helped me with my anullment. ive never been any happier in my life because of him. i never felt that i am less of a woman. he always make me feel loved and happy despite of the distance because of his work. next year we are getting married

[B2B2016]

pasensya na mga sis kung napahaba ang kwento ko. nadadala kasi ako kapag najajudge ang mga seaman. i love my bf very much. he is a lot more better than other man i know na andito lang sa lupa nagtatrabaho. i think it is unfair for them na ganun ang tingin sa kanila kahit di pa sila kilala. yung mga tao kapag nalalaman nila seaman bf ko lageng negative ang reaction. they dont know how much he sacrificed for me. he saved me from my distress.

[fionnah325]

^ i understand you sis...bf ko ganyan din eh...hindi naman ako naniwala din na lahat ngs eaman manloloko..kasi mga friends ko most of them are seaman eh and they are all loyal to thier [partner

[purple_leigh97]

Depende yan sa tao. Mayron talagang faithful pero hindi din maiiwasang mayroong mga manloloko talaga. Nagkataon lang siguro talaga marami akong kilala na seaferers na sumasideline talaga.

[angeleigh]

Depende sa tao yan at sa maturity ng lalaki. My bf is a seaman and he is faithful to me. He was not faithful to his ex though.

Ang brother ko seaman din, and he is very faithful to his gf. Pero mga kwento niya sakin about sa mga kasamahan niya sa barko walang bahid ng faithfulness hehe.

Hindi madedefine ng profession ang faithfulness ng isang tao.

[fionnah325]

^ tama sis wala anamn sa profession daw yan eh kung manloloko ka talaga na tao manloloko ka talaga ...parang attitude na yata yan

[purple_leigh97]

Nagkataon lang siguro na may nakaimbento ng term na seamanloloko haha

[fionnah325]

^ OO NGA EH

[brendzy]

Agree, wala sa profession, kung gusto manloko, manloloko! kahit mga OFW, madami din na parang binata / dalaga kung umasta at mkipagrelasyon pero mga pamilyadong tao na pala.

[purple_leigh97]

^madami talagang issue na ganon kahit na anong propesyon, ang mahirap kasi merong mapagbalat kayo o hindi kaya may matitigas talaga na pumapatol kahit alam ng may relasyon na o pamilyado

[fionnah325]

^ well sais sis..tama ka

[pan.ian4ever]

Haha.this is what my ex told me regarding that seamanloloko issue...


"manlo2ko kme kc d nmin cnsabi [textspeak!] 22ong kalagayan nmin s brko, manlo2ko kme kc khit malalaki [textspeak!] mga alon n halos d n kme mkpgtrbaho pero cnsabi nmin malaki [textspeak!] barko kya d masyadong mauga..manlo2ko kme kc khit ngkkasakit n kme dun s hirap ng trabaho pero pg2mawag kme ssbhin nmin ok n ok kme pra mymaipadala [textspeak!] s mga pamilya nmin... kya [textspeak!] seamanlo2ko kme...."

Kawawa din pala sila sa barko.

[fionnah325]

^ well said sis tama ka kawawa nga talaga nga sila pag nasa barko..ang alon pa lang eh sobrang nahihilo na sila taz yong malayo sa pamilya sobrang nakaklungkot talaga yan para sa kanila

[purple_leigh97]

^^true! Pero anong kinalaman non sa pambabae ng mga seaman na talagang nanloloko ng mga asawa nila? Hehe

[teal_rayy]

It usually depends on the environment a person finds himself in. If the wife or gf is not around, the man would really look for someone else temporarily.  Marami na rin nagsabi na marami talaga umaangkas pag nag dock ang barko. 

[fionnah325]

^ dati yan pero ngayon wala na...

[pan.ian4ever]

Nasa guy na seaman na din talaga siguro yan. Kahit naman hindi seaman,nagloloko din.

[teal_rayy]

^ Yes, they just have more temptations kasi they are far away from their loved ones and sabi nga nila malungkot daw.