Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 7)

[amethyst028]

do you block your exes on your phones, viber messages social media etc? why would you do that if youre over with her right?

hi sis! why does it matter kung naka block ka sa phone/ viber/ social media ng ex mo? ako kasi naka block sa akin yung mga exes ko and ang alam ko naka block ako dun sa isang ex ko. and i don't care kasi hindi naman ako affected. wala naman nang paki alaman kasi exes na. no need to keep in touch or be nice to each other. i'm over them and i'm sure they are over me too. i guess some people are like that.

[iam_me]

deleted lang, no plan to get in touch na rin sa kanila pag nag message deadma lang di ko na replyan para hindi na rin humaba yun usapan

[badw33d]

do you block your exes on your phones, viber messages social media etc? why would you do that if youre over with her right?

don't have to block. but its a courtesy to delete the contact (phones, viber, fb, etc)

[VannyVanvan]

Why do some men cheat? Why can't they stop lying?

[jtansanco]

^ I've seen this question over and over again... Haha. Probably because you don't give him the attention he seeks. Maybe you don't give him small compliments. Maybe you don't make him feel wanted. Maybe when he wants sexy time, you're in no mood. Maybe when he needs you, you're too busy for him. Maybe... You always have doubts and don't trust him that he decided to be the guy you "think" of him to be.

[slickchick]

"You always have doubts and don't trust him that he decided to be the guy you "think" of him to be."

^ bro, this caught my attention. so may bearing pala talaga sa inyo mga guys yung trust level namin mga girls sa inyo. i mean, when i was younger, i used to have the notion that when i trust my guy so much, he might take advantage of it and magloko sya. kaya grabe ako magselos nun. buti na lang naa-outgrow ko na.. hahaha! thanks for the insight bro.. 

[young_maiden]

^^ Kahit naman walang pagkukulang ang girl, pwede pa din mag cheat si guy. Another reason for cheating ay para maboost ang ego. Pakiramdam ni lalaki napakagwapo o hot niya pag madami siyang babae.

[dismembered]

Why do some men cheat? Why can't they stop lying?

Ulitin natin... Same reason kung bakit nag cheat at nag lie din ang girls. Lahat ng tao may tendency mag cheat. Walang super uber clean and holy. Commitment lang talaga at pagiging maingat ang kailangan.

[Girltalker2]

^^ Kahit naman walang pagkukulang ang girl, pwede pa din mag cheat si guy.

In fact, it is a convenient excuse na hanapan ng mali yung girl kasi no one is perfect. Meron at Meron ka mahanap na Mali.

Another reason for cheating ay para maboost ang ego. Pakiramdam ni lalaki napakagwapo o hot niya pag madami siyang babae.

Di ba ang totoong reason ay sinungaling at bagsak sa integrity/honesty yung guy? Insecure at walang tamang prinsipyo. Selfish, sarili lang ang iniisip nila. Not man enough to face the issue kaya sa easy way out nalang sila, Kung makalusot di ba? Walang hiya at manloloko at walang kwentang tao sya. Iyan para sakin ang totoong reason why they cheat. Nasa pagkatao nya yung capability to lie.

[Miss Taken]

Why do some men cheat? Why can't they stop lying?

I think some people (yes not just guys) are just born a$$holes.

Most of the time, the issue has something to do with yourself and not with your partner when you cheat.

[jtansanco]

^^ Kahit naman walang pagkukulang ang girl, pwede pa din mag cheat si guy. Another reason for cheating ay para maboost ang ego. Pakiramdam ni lalaki napakagwapo o hot niya pag madami siyang babae.

I can't deny that but I don't think it's for his ego booster. In my opinion, some guys has to go through a phase in their life that they have to be a player first before being the loyal man that they can become. I have friends who are surprisingly super good and loyal. But to be honest, I fall in the "play first" category. It has come to a point that I have "played long enough" that I'd rather be loyal to one girl than to play around. Maybe it comes with maturity too. What you're describing is probably a guy who has a girlfriend but haven't had the opportunity to play around so he's tempted to cheat because it's "exciting". But if you accuse a guy of cheating "even before he cheats" (or will he even cheat?), makes things worse and will add fuel to the fire.

@slickchick - You are welcome.

[badw33d]

Why do some men cheat? Why can't they stop lying?

Cheating and lying are two different things in a relationship.

1, cheating - he's doing it with some other.
2. Lying - just making sure everything is alright.

But both depends on the situation. and it depends on the relationship. why?

A relationship has different levels, and you will have to establish this first. e.g..... relationship is just a bf/gf thing, means, no future plans and come what may. Sometimes a relationship is more on maturity, like gf/bf but focused like a husband and wife thing. That means you understand the dos and donts.

So, before entering a relationship, establish your marks. yeah i know, sasabihin natin yung... masyadong aggressive or pwede bang bf/gf muna then lets see what comes after? atleast you will know the level of relationship you are getting into. so when he lies, its not that bad, or when he sleeps with other women, well... bf/gf lang naman diba? nothing in the future?

But maturity is a killer :-)

[TomHansen]

Why do some men cheat? Why can't they stop lying?

Because they're weak..

[bizarrelove]

Just a question for you guys,
What do you mean by "secret"?

The convo goes like:
G: Namiss kita *******
B: Umamin ka din haha
G: Baket hindi mo ba ako na miss?
B: Hehe... secret!
G: Eh di hindi!
B: Joke lang
G: Ayos lang
B: Namiss din kita

[TomHansen]

^ "oo naman namiss kita pero gusto ko kulitin mo pa ako bago ako umamin.."

[jtansanco]

^^ TomHansen's answer is accurate. He wants you to be flirty and then kiss sabay hug.

[tomatostellar]

^ tawang tawa ako sa mga sagot nyo TomHansen jtansanco

[bizarrelove]

@TomHansen hahaha! ganon ba yon? pakipot pa? meron parin palang lalake na kahit ganon lang yung tanong, nahirapan pang sagutin? Pero sa tototo lang din, sana miss rin nya talaga ako. Hindi ko nga alam baket biglang hirit siya na "Umamin ka din hahaha" after ko sabihin na namiss ko siya which I really mean it naman talaga. 

@jtansanco Wahaha! Flirty ba kamo? Naku, nakikipagbiruan lang ako sa kanya. Wala kaming relationship. parang naloka naman ako dun sa kiss sabay hug.

@tomatostellar kung ikaw sis tawang-tawa. Ako naman, naloka! 

[jtansanco]

^ Friendly flirty answer by the guy. I mean, ang awkward naman kung sabihin niyang I miss you too. And then what? Ligawan ka na niya? Hahaha of course, he gotta put some jokes in the convo to liven up the mood. 

[badw33d]

@bizarrelove - i bet he'll try that again