Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 7)

[Girltalker2]

^ Good question. Sana may guy na sumagot. Pag GF siguro puede pa. pero Wife mo icompare sa ibang girls? That's very insulting. Why don't you tell him that he shouldn't do that, what would he feel if you do the same na icompare mo sya sa ibang guys?

But then again, in what aspect ba? If say maganda bag nya oh kesa sa bag mo. Ok lang. Pero Yung sabihan si xxx ay Mas malambing kesa sayo, ibang usapan na yun!

[sportygurl]

sinabi ng guy kay girl "gusto ko sayo kasi simple ka lang. seloso kasi ako. kapag maganda kasi maraming kaagaw?"

dapat ba mainsulto ang babae sa sinabi ng lalake???

[TomHansen]

is it normal for a husband na icompare ka sa iba like mas maganda siya and all? Ano gusto niyang palabasin?

No it's not normal, your husband is a jerk and insensitive at yun ang gusto niyang palabasin. Next time kapag nakakita ka ng mas gwapo sa kanya gawin mo rin yan. Wag kang maainsecure sa mga sinasabi niya sis..

sinabi ng guy kay girl "gusto ko sayo kasi simple ka lang. seloso kasi ako. kapag maganda kasi maraming kaagaw?"

dapat ba mainsulto ang babae sa sinabi ng lalake???

^ nakakainsulto nga yun and you cant blame the girl kung magagalit siya.. You should be the most beautiful person for him kung bf/asawa/nililigawan ka niya..

[j.adore]

is it normal for a husband na icompare ka sa iba like mas maganda siya and all? Ano gusto niyang palabasin?

Was he like that nung BF-GF pa lang?

sinabi ng guy kay girl "gusto ko sayo kasi simple ka lang. seloso kasi ako. kapag maganda kasi maraming kaagaw?"

dapat ba mainsulto ang babae sa sinabi ng lalake???

Apples and oranges naman yung simple sa maganda

But I've been told he didn't want me at first because I was "too pretty". Di siya seloso pero ayaw daw niya ng problema pag maganda agaw pansin daw sa ibang lalaki.
I guess meron talaga mga ganun na lalaki pero off yung pagkakasabi niya hehe.

[jtansanco]

sinabi ng guy kay girl "gusto ko sayo kasi simple ka lang. seloso kasi ako. kapag maganda kasi maraming kaagaw?"

dapat ba mainsulto ang babae sa sinabi ng lalake???

I think that's a compliment. He sees you as a "hidden gem". Some guys may not find you attractive but he thinks you are very attractive. Plus, it's less competition for him once he starts courting you.

is it normal for a husband na icompare ka sa iba like mas maganda siya and all? Ano gusto niyang palabasin?

Not sure if I get the question right but if he's comparing you to other girls and he says that you're prettier, then he's implying that "you're my girl and you will always be the prettiest in my eyes". But if it's the other way around, that's kinda offensive.

[pretty_B]

well, what if ganito naman ang sinabi sayo..."patatabain kita ng patatabain, para wala ako kaagaw sayo" hahaha.

ang sagot ko..."sure kang wala?" 

[snowhite_12]

I'm a bit of confused. I've been dating this  guy. we meet online last month so wala kami common friends talaga. wala akong ma ask kung who he really is. he introduced me all of his friends and i can say all of his friends are professionals and matured. they even told me good things about him yung tipong binibenta na bibilihin ko. now the problem is si Guy, hindi naman nag pa ramdam na I miss you or flirting. he doesn't even hold my hands or touch me or maybe nahiya lang siya or takot.
now while his friends are teasing us.why is he blushing.kung pwede lang sana i would ask how he felt about me. but its too early.

[TomHansen]

How long have you been dating na ba? And if ever you ask him ready ka ba sa magiging sagot niya? Hindi kaya nafa-fall ka na at siya hindi pa? Kung hindi niya hinahawakan ang hand mo maybe because he is a gentleman or ayaw niyang iassume mo na gusto ka na niya. Give him time baka like you collect and select din siya lalo you met him online. Kilalanin mo pa snowhite no need to rush things lalo na relationship..

[snowhite_12]

^actually i met him a month ago.5th date pa lang kami.i know its too early to ask him and i know its too early to like him. I guess,i have to guard my heart again as of the moment and get to know him. Ang hirap kaya ang dami mo dinedate then you would grade after if pwede ba e date uli or x mark na to. Hehe.

[dismembered]

^ Online mo lang nakilala, wala kayong common friends et al... I guess you have to give it more time. Wag ka magmadali or else, ikaw din ang magsisisi.

[TomHansen]

^^ oh 5th date na pala kayo ibig sabihin may something na kayo sa isat-isa. But yes guard your heart especially hindi mo pa alam what his real intention sayo. Can we ask ilan ba yang din-date mo ngayon? Baka kasi masyadong marami at naooverwhelm ka, huwag mong sabihing may log book ka pa hehe.

[momlory]

Was he like that nung BF-GF pa lang?

Sis hindi siya ganyan nung mag bf-gf palang kami. Nagulat nga rin ako sa sinabi niya and confused ako kung meron ibig sabihin yun.

[gharz412]

Naku sis! Baka balak ka lang i friendzone nyan ingat lang. Take it easy baka kumukuha lang ng tyempo seize the moment but just make sure na di ka hehe hirap nun pero basta enjoy lang kung anong meron kayo...

[tigerlili]

naku snowhite medyo parehas tayo ng case although yun saken 3rd date palang and met him through common friend. Ganyan din yun tipong di masyado kagaya ng ibang guys na will try to get near you tyaka yun mahuhuli mo tinitignan ka. Yun mafeefeel mo talaga na type ka at di mo na kelangan mag guess. Nagulat naman ako nun 3rd date binigyan ako ng small stuff toy. Pero feel ko di nagproprogress kase yun texting di masyado masipag on and off and yun tipong di mo feel na gusto nya i-prolong yun conversation...so isa lang ang basa ko: NOT INTERESTED or NOT SO INTERESTED. Kase he doesnt ask me personal question din parang pahirapan di pa naman ako sanay mag Boy Abunda mode dahil usually yun mga guys na nagbibigay saken ng 411 nila and then sila yun tanong ng tanong saken ng kung ano ano. charge to experience na lang.

[introvertpixie]

I think I don't trust my boyfriend.

We're together for more year now, he never cheated on me (or at least i think he didn't)
dati, naopen ko yung facebook nya, he'd given me his password, i given him mine din.

it's never right to open his facebook at dig thru it kaso ginawa ko.
Akala nya deleted na yung mga messages and nakita ko sa archives nya yung paglalandi nya sa mga babae dati. before he even knew me and noong hindi pa kami.

sobrang nasasaktan ako kahit past na yun, I know i shouldn't be kasi nga past na yun but i am.
nakikita ko how easy for him to go around girls. malamang sa malamang kung pano nya ko nakuha ganon din yung way pano nya nakuha yung girls, some for sex, some for flings, i don't know if for relationship yung iba. Up to now nasasaktan parin ako pag naiisip ko.

ngayon nga may newly hire siya na babae, and sa totoo lang natatakot ako (sige, the better term is insecure) nakita ko kasi sa messages nya dati na naghhire siya ng babae sa company nila and binibiro na stay in and ikakama nya. sobrang natatakot ako ngayon na baka gawin nya.

ayaw at hindi ko naman siguro dapat bantayan siya palagi. pero sobrang nakakatakot kasi nga nakita ko dati na ganun siya.

i know most people would just say leave the guy kasi you can't trust or accept his past. but just like any other people would say, i can't kasi mahal ko.

i love him so much and it's scaring me kasi i know people don't change.

[jtansanco]

^ Let's think of it this way. I would like to assume that he is not your first bf. So, WHAT IF he dug through your past and found your past flirty messages with your ex, what would he feel? So come on, past is definitely the past. And you're saying there's a new hire and there are gossips that he will sleep with her. I think those gossips will do you good. The more those gossips flow around the less likely he will sleep with her. TRUST your man and stop worrying unless you see him cheating on you first-hand. If you continue to stay the same, sad to say, I think you're not the right girl for him. Sometimes, it's not about him being the "player" but you who "may" become the paranoid girlfriend. Let his past go and enjoy the moments with him. Plus, why don't you do some "activities" that will make sure that he won't cheat on you? 

[Girltalker2]

^^ have you discussed it with him? Maybe not the digging of messages sa FB, but how is he with the opposite sex?

It seems you're also stuck in your situation. Kasi either you accept him or leave. What do you want to happen ba?  And what can you do about it?

Just imagine having that feeling throughout your life, lalo pa if magkatuluyan kayo. Habang buhay.

[argento]

. malamang sa malamang kung pano nya ko nakuha ganon din yung way pano nya nakuha yung girls, some for sex, some for flings, i don't know if for relationship yung iba. Up to now nasasaktan parin ako pag naiisip ko.

Most likely eh tama ka.
Password should never be given to your partner.

[alamak]

^ I agree password is your own privacy. you should not give this to anyone else.

[dismembered]

Truth hurts. The reason I opt not to tell about past. What you don't know won't hurt you. Otherwise, bago ka makipag commit sa tao, alamin mo muna mabuti ang history nya and saka ka magdecide if you can live with it. Pero kung committed ka na, better to focus on the present na lang.

I also knew a guy... Oks naman sila ng GF nya, but he keeps on asking questions about her past. Minsan parang too much information na. Ayun, napraning si guy at di nakatagal... eventually naghiwalay na din sila because hindi kaya tanggapin ni Guy ang past ni Girl.