Epal na Girl

[gharz412]

hello again everyone, I just don't know how to react with this issue. hubby had a f**k buddy before pa kame maging bf/gf and I was aware about that before pa kame nagkita. Now it's been two years now.That girl and my other friend are common friends in FB. My other friend told me na nkapost padaw yung old pictures nila ni hubby ko and this girl to think na engaged na sya and we are now happily married. Actually matagal ng pictures yun but I just don't understand bakit di pa niya binubura. Sabi nga ni hubby don't mind it anymore. Okay given na yun na matagal na pero tulad niyan may makakita baka icipan pa nila niloloko ako ng asawa ko. I want to message that girl and asked her to delete their photos. You think makakatulong ba tong naiicip ko? kelangan paba gawin yun?

[aquacharly]

Don't.

Your husband said it's over.
Give everyone the benefit of the doubt.
Why do you mind what people may think?  Some people, will "think", regardless. Most may "think" if they see the photos -- for 3minutes -- then drop it. Coz really, people are just absorbed with their lives.
Plus, if pansinin mo yan -- you get grrrr -- you just give that person power.
The Past is past, it cannot be unwritten though valuable lessons can be gained from it.  Better, IMO, to ignore (ang in uupakan with big blows mga current kab1tch, ganon)

Now, if talagang gusto mo react -- IMO, yang kausapin sya to delete -- pitik pitik lang yan and will make her feel she has power over you and your hubby.
Why don't you  have your friend comment on her old photos: Throwback "F.B."  hahaha. 

Don't let her "engagement" problems spillover to your "happily married". Misery loves company.
Engaged people are forward-looking. They try to clean their slates.  They don't  parade their dirty laundry or "tinuhog/bbq resume". 
(Engaged nga ba yan? Baka hindi na!  I don't regard anyone as out of circulation until their Marriage Contract is in the NSO files)

[princessrio]

why would you even want to communicate with her just because of the pictures? baka nakaligtaan lang or nalimutan na yung mga pictures. your hubby even told you na wala na yun and don't mind it anymore.

wala kayong problema sis. so please don't make one. 

[quinone]

it's been 2 years na pala, bakit biglang naging issue ito? diba kapag lumang pics na nasa pinaka-ilalim na at hindi na basta-basta nakikita unless hinanap?

[la_pinay]

you have to let this go sis. mine's worse. i found out that he's still friends with his ex fubu. i found out on the messages that they were dirty talking years ago, but we were already together that time. and i saw on the messages that they talk from time to time casually. mas masakit yata yun but had to give him the benefit of the doubt that he has changed.

as long as you dont have trust issues with your partner, let go mo na yan.

[gharz412]

it's been 2 years na pala, bakit biglang naging issue ito? diba kapag lumang pics na nasa pinaka-ilalim na at hindi na basta-basta nakikita unless hinanap?

kase sis nag add daw ng new pictures dun. My friend even sent me the picture...

[gharz412]

as long as you dont have trust issues with your partner, let go mo na yan.
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[/size]Actually wala naman talaga sis I even thought na mas lalu nya pinapahiya sarili niya

[Chili1113]

Let it go sis! If you message the ex-fubu of hubby she will view you as an insecure wife, or worse, think that your marriage with hubby is weak with doubt and mistrust.

Anyway if the pics posted are years old, she might have just forgotten to take them down. OR there are some people kasi who just simply leave all their pics with ALL their exes on their FB.

Actually kung meron dapat maasar diyan it is her current fiance. Otherwise, it should not affect you and hubby. Makikita naman ng tao na sobrang tagal na yung date na na post yung pics.

[purple.strawberry]

Bakit naman sis pinoproblema mo pa fb ng ibang tao? As long as tapos na yung whatever relationship they had okay na yun. IMO sis isa yan sa mga bagay na dapat di na pinapansin.

[gharz412]

Thank you sa mga advices niyo I've come to realized na Yes I have to let it go. I'm happily married now so no worries.