Author Topic: How to stay positive while TTC (Read 11727 times)

jonahh08 · « **on:** May 01, 2015, 12:30:00 am »

We've been TTC for months now and talagang may mga times na nawawalan na ko ng pag asa and it came to a point na ayoko na bumalik sa doktor.
Actually walang nakakaalam samin na I'm struggling to conceive nahihiya ako. They didnt know na pabalik balik ako sa doctor at andami ko iniinom na gamot..even my husband dont know. So I was alone with this struggle until this afternoon hindi ko napigilan mag confess sa mama ko and I was shocked when my mom told me na my OB was also her OB when she was pregnant with me at yun ang nagpaanak sa kanya kaya andito ako ngayon sa mundo. What are the odds right? Magkaibang lugar but with the same doctor! 27 years apart! Sobra kong nabuhayan na parang bigla akong naging excited na bumalik ulit sa OB ko. I think this is a clear sign from heaven.hehe Basta this revelation is keeping my spirits high. Parang God is telling me everything will be ok. STAY POSITIVE.
Hindi naman tayo mag ttc nalang forever. Remember, this too, shall pass.

barbillie · « **Reply #1 on:** May 04, 2015, 09:05:49 am »

Bakit hindi mo sinasabi sa husband mo? I think you should tell him. You need all the support you can get and I think your husband can provide it the most. TTC journey nyo ito together, hindi one-way lang.

Joyce27 · « **Reply #2 on:** May 05, 2015, 08:34:33 pm »

Ako din need ko ng lakas ng loob 1 and half year na kami ttc ng asawa ko his 26 and im 28 pero wala pa din naiinggit ako sa friend ko na newly wed. Nabuntis honeymoon baby asawa nya is in early 40's si girl 31 so i think may pag asa pa din ako kaya lang palagi ako natatanong ng mga kasama ko sa work bkit daw ang tagal ko magbuntis hayst

itsnikimendoza · « **Reply #3 on:** May 06, 2015, 01:38:53 pm »

^sis wag kayo mawalan ng pagasa. Ganun talaga, minsan naiisip ko din yung iba ang bilis makabuo. Yun ngang mga hindi daw sinasadya nabubuo agad. pero yung mga gusto na talaga nahihirapan. ganun talaga sis, samahan lang natin ng prayers. ibibigay ni God yan sa tamang panahon.

Scubadoobidoo · « **Reply #4 on:** May 06, 2015, 04:02:48 pm »

Yup dont give up hope talaga. Kami more than 1 yr TTC tapos 45 na ako and si wifey 38 pero this year naka buo na kami. Stay positive talaga. Bata pa nga kayo. Visit st clare din. Sa dinami ko itlog inalay dun pwede na ako mag tayo ng poultry. 😄. We visited padre pio too.

jonahh08 · « **Reply #5 on:** May 06, 2015, 06:22:58 pm »

Salamat sa mga encouragements. I try to stay positive talaga hindi lang talaga maiiwasan yung mga tao na laging nagsasabi "bakit ngayon wala pa rin?" "Hindi ka pa rin buntis?" "May laman na ba yan?" Kahit pabiro nasasaktan ako. Kaya i feel you sis joyce. Sa dasal lang talaga gumiginhawa yung pakiramdam ko.

momofchamp · « **Reply #6 on:** May 06, 2015, 06:25:54 pm »

Hi! 3 years na kami ttc ni hubby, and i think for that time upto now i should be thankful to my hubby kasi ang tatag nya and more positive than me...im on the verge of giving up and stop this journey...but at the back of my mind we should win this journey together. This is hard and definitely heart breaking but Let us trust the power of prayers, in His perfect time...

jonahh08 · « **Reply #7 on:** May 06, 2015, 06:33:28 pm »

Quote from: barbillie on May 04, 2015, 09:05:49 am

Bakit hindi mo sinasabi sa husband mo? I think you should tell him. You need all the support you can get and I think your husband can provide it the most. TTC journey nyo ito together, hindi one-way lang.

Actually sis sinabi ko na sa kanya yesterday..sobrang relief yung naramdaman ko. My pinagdadaanan din syang ibang problema kaya hesitant ako nung una kung sasabihin sa kanya. Hindi sya masyadong worried sabi nya in God's perfect time lang talaga. Tapos sinabayan ko agad kung ok lang magpa sperm analysis aba pumayag agad game daw sya hehe.

jonahh08 · « **Reply #8 on:** May 06, 2015, 06:45:30 pm »

Sis momofchamp ang isipin mo lang lagi hindi ka nagiisa sa journey na toh marami tayo na same lang ng pinagdadaanan. I had my worst din, came to a point na sabi ko kay lord kunin nya na lang ako kung hindi rin lang ako magkakaanak pero naisip ko ang selfish ko dahil andito naman husband ko yung family ko and they're all worth living for. saka yung husband mo sis..napaka swerte mo to have him kasi hindi lahat ng asawa ganyan

momofchamp · « **Reply #9 on:** May 07, 2015, 02:30:04 pm »

@sis jonahh08-yup sis most treasured gift ko si hubby, narealized ko din na kaya pala sya binigay sakin ni Lord na partner in life coz he's that strong and supportive para sa journey na to...
I will include you to my prayers sis...hopefully magBFP na tayo...
Babydust to all!

kim28 · « **Reply #10 on:** May 11, 2015, 04:09:30 pm »

TTC since 2012

hirap ng pinagdaraanan natin mga sis and bro. Lalo na hindi lahat sensitive sa problema natin. Kami ni DH parang sinasadya ng pagkakataon na napapaligiran ng mga buntis at may baby. Syempre blessings yun kaya masaya kami para sa kanila pero hindi mo maiiwasan na mainggit at tanong mo sa sarili bakit sila bigyan na tayo hanggang ngayon wala pa din. Btw, bfp ako last december pero na D & C February this year no hb na si baby 12 weeks.

Pag may nakikita ako na baby paghabang nag byahe sinasabi ko sa sarili ko magkakaron din ako nyan

. Prayer and support from our families and friends yun ang need natin. Katulad din ng forum na ito, nalaman natin na marami pala tayo na TTC.

Nalaman ko na ang ttc journey namin ang lalong nagpatibay sa relasyon namin. Baby dust to all <3

momofchamp · « **Reply #11 on:** May 11, 2015, 04:35:30 pm »

@kim28-tama ka sa mga sinabi mo, like yesterday everybody on social media is in spirit for the mother's day, while (ME) asking when i will celebrate this day that im the MOTHER?
madalas dito ako sa forum na to and avoided social media muna kasi dito alam ko marami nakakaintindi sakin, and more encouragements from other sis and bro...Lets keep our faith high and STICKY BABY DUST TO ALL...

jonahh08 · « **Reply #12 on:** May 11, 2015, 04:43:43 pm »

Sis kim I'm sorry to hear about your angel

I'm sure soon tuluyan ka na ring mgkakababy, promise. Atleast you're sure na you're capable of conceiving diba ako hindi ko talaga alam kung may kakayahan mag buntis. I'm going to undergo hsg tomorrow, hindi ako kinakabahan sa pain na mararamdaman, i'm more nervous sa magiging result. Pray for me.

jonahh08 · « **Reply #13 on:** May 12, 2015, 04:09:33 pm »

Thank God patent both tubes ko..another reason to be hopeful.

kim28 · « **Reply #14 on:** May 12, 2015, 04:37:01 pm »

@jonahh08 good news yan sis

makakabuo din tayo. May mga tao talaga na alam na nga na ttc ka kung ano ano pa tinatanong. Minsan hindi na lang ako sumasagot lalo na yung mga chismosa lang ang peg.

@momofchamp oo sis social media fb/ig lahat na puro babies. 4 kaming pregnant (asawa ng brother ko, asawa ng pinsan ko at yung pinsan ko) silang 3 nakapanganak na this feb, march and april. Habol sana ako for August this year din kung hindi nawalan ng HB si baby. Sa ngayon hinihiram ko na lang yung babies nila. Mahilig din kasi talaga ako sa baby at bata.

Ewan ko parang na jinx yata pagbubuntis ko nun hehe kasi si hubby excited ayun mega announce sa social media before Christmas. Kaya kapag nabuntis ako ulit - kinausap ko na sya na hindi kami mag announce hanggang makapanganak ako.

Scubadoobidoo · « **Reply #15 on:** May 12, 2015, 06:43:15 pm »

@kim next time you get pregnant load up ka na sa vitamins na and much better bed rest ka nalang. Just came from our OB and she was telling us na meron pag dating ng 3 months nawawala heart beat ng baby. Reason for that daw hindi kaya sustain ng uteros ng girl. She had some patients like that na. Dapat daw complete bed rest for the whole pregnancy and mega dose daw ng vitamins talaga. Otherwise daw mawawala ng heart beat yung fetus. Safe talaga before getting pregnant load up na ng vitamins and healthy lifestyle yung girl.

kim28 · « **Reply #16 on:** May 13, 2015, 10:00:57 am »

^ thanks bro
Yup sa next pregnancy ko mega bed rest talaga ako. Nataon kasi na audit season ang january to february kaya may time na stress at late na ako nakakauwi. Umiinom na ako ko nun ng duphaston, obimin plus and folic.

Sana yun lang nga dahil sa stress at pagod. February nagpa test ako 50g ogtt medyo lumampas ako sa limit.

Scubadoobidoo · « **Reply #17 on:** May 13, 2015, 02:27:25 pm »

@kim ask your ob abt prescribing both duphaston and duvadilan. Wife was prescribed that when she git pregnant. Safe naman for the whole pregnancy to take everyday.

Marlachua · « **Reply #18 on:** July 01, 2015, 01:24:45 pm »

Hi sissies. i know im not the right person to say this, since im not yet married.. engaged pa lang. hihi. I just want to share na, wag nyo masyadong isipin na gusto nyo na magkababy. naprepressure kasi si brain. if you'll notice, yun mga gustong mga magkababy, yun nahihirapan then yun ayaw sila yun nabibigyan.. kasi di nila iniisip na gusto nila magbaby. they do it because of love.. without expecting anything.. i have friends kasi na naprpressure dahil sa sinasabi ng iba, because they're in thier early 30s na.so need ng magbaby. they're doing it for the sake na magkababy. so live a healthy lifestyle, do it because you both want it not to have a baby.

deadmakels sa sinasabi ng iba, meron ngang iba, late 30s na but they still conceive. it justa matter of trust and faith na magkakabababy in His time not because gusto nyo na..

simpleemie · « **Reply #19 on:** July 01, 2015, 01:49:38 pm »

loaded ng vits? im taking vits since march, vit c, folic acid, myra e. Naiiba iba lang since nag pregnant ako nung april. D&C din last month. Pero until now tinutuloy ko pa din hoping for another chance. Ok na kaya yang vits na yan? Ano pa ba kulang?

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