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kinkytinch

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How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« on: March 18, 2015, 02:33:21 am »
May relatively bago kaming neighbors na we could say lot grabbers and squatters na goons at may baril.

Pag dating ng madaling araw even on weekdays, nagiinuman, nagtatawanan ng malakas at nagpapatugtog ng malakas na macarena songs. Nireport na namin sa brgy. at pinuntahan na rin nila several times pero di nila mapahinaan yung music. In other words, walang magawa yung brgy.

Ano ba dapat namin gawin?

Nakaencounter na ba kyo ng problem neighbors na matatapang? What did you do?

j.adore

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #1 on: March 18, 2015, 10:37:54 am »
Isumbong mo kay Tulfo! Seriously try this kasi I've heard them deal with something like your situation.

Meron kami ganyan dati. Sobrang ingay ng sounds kala mo kanila buong bloke. Eh di nagmusic din kami max volume hehe talo sila kasi ok yung sound system namin. They will turn off their music then we will too. Gradually, pahina ng pahina sounds nila😄

kinkytinch

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #2 on: March 18, 2015, 12:02:29 pm »
^tulfo agad hehe baka maexpose beauty ko.. :P honestly, ayaw sana namin magpakilala na kami ang ngrreklamo. For our security. Baka kasi balikan kami. My mother is alone sa house during the day at sa gabi naman, naglalakad kami pauwi alone at nagppass kami sa harap ng tinitirhan nila. Is there any other way sis?

~ anna ~

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #3 on: March 19, 2015, 09:59:05 pm »
Try to see if merong law yung area niyo about regulating noise especially during certain hours.  Sa Makati may ganyan, but the problem is hindi naman siya palagi na-eenforce, it still depends on the barangay officials.  The city that you live in may have a law like that, but if hindi alam ng barangay officials mo na may ganyang law or if they are not willing to enforce it, wala ka din maaasahan sa kanila.

You can try reporting them to the police hotline sa 117, lalo na you said na they have guns.  If wala silang papers for that, maybe pwede silang damputin ng police for that.

kinkytinch

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #4 on: March 19, 2015, 10:29:05 pm »
That's a good idea sis :) thanks. Pag nagreport sa pulis, i have to let them know who we are and where we live ba?

j.adore

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #5 on: March 20, 2015, 04:36:18 am »
Brgy handles these kinds of concerns so even if you report to the police, turnover lang nila kayo sa Brgy.
In case of criminal offense, saka lang sa police. Guns can be reported if they used them illegally.

Kaya Tulfo suggestion ko kasi hindi macontrol ng Brgy eh task nila yun. Pwede din kasi mag report sa kanila anonymously.

~ anna ~

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #6 on: March 20, 2015, 04:55:04 am »
^^ Pag sa 117 ka tumawag, you don't have to give them your info, you can just state your concern.  But pag dumating yung telephone bill niyo e nakalist dun na tumawag kayo sa 117 and kung anong date and time kayo tumawag.  Hindi naman nakalist sa phone bill niyo kung anong complaint niyo when you called the hotline, so no need to worry about that.

I suggest that you check if may law sa city niyo about regulating noise.  If meron, familiarize yourself with it and ask your barangay officials to enforce it.  If they refuse to do their job, pwede sila i-complain sa Ombudsman and they could lose their jobs.  Siguro naman pag marinig yun ng tatamad-tamad na barangay officials e kikilos na sila.

aquacharly

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #7 on: April 16, 2015, 08:51:18 pm »
YouTube mo

catnip.deleon

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #8 on: May 19, 2015, 06:28:31 pm »
May relatively bago kaming neighbors na we could say lot grabbers and squatters na goons at may baril.

Pag dating ng madaling araw even on weekdays, nagiinuman, nagtatawanan ng malakas at nagpapatugtog ng malakas na macarena songs. Nireport na namin sa brgy. at pinuntahan na rin nila several times pero di nila mapahinaan yung music. In other words, walang magawa yung brgy.

Ano ba dapat namin gawin?

Nakaencounter na ba kyo ng problem neighbors na matatapang? What did you do?

Did you report it sa management ng tinitirhan niyo? Meron pa bang ibang nagcocomplain sa neighbor niyong yan [textspeak!] pwede kayo mag file ng complaint dyan eh lalo na may baril baka di pa registered yun, ipaalam niyo na. Sometimes, walang magagawa ang barangay dyan, ang pinakamanagement ang meron. Report niyo na, nakakainis talaga ang mga ganyan.

khaleesiCersei

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #9 on: May 19, 2015, 07:09:56 pm »
Haaay problema ko din to.. Ang hirap lang halos lahat ng kapitbahay namin ang hilig pumarty.. Ewan ko ba sa lugar na to, feeling mga concert kings and queens, mukha naman silang maayos ang buhay pero parang mga walang pinag aralan, grabe magdamagan kung mag videoke. Walang consideration sa ibang tao.. Gusto ko na lumipat kasi nakaka stress na din.. Pampadagdag inis pa yun mga squatters sa likod ng compound, halos araw araw may party, lakas mag sounds at videoke, buti pa sila may pang party! Minsan pinapanalangin ko na sana may makuryente ng mic para matigil na sila. Haay helping me lord..

theshopaholicprincess

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #10 on: May 23, 2015, 12:37:59 am »
sis reklamo mo disturbance to peace and order. Seriously di ko rin gets yung ibang kapitbahay, bakit kelangan almost every week kahit Sunday late night eh feel na feel ang pag party. Wala ba silang work or ginagawa na kelangan nila mapagod?? Dun sa previous apartment where we used to rent ganyan yung mga kalikod bahay namin araw araw di nagsasawa sa videoke kung hindi videoke eh puro bisita akala mo araw araw fiesta. Minsan para lang makatulog ka pinagdarasal mo nalang na tamaan sila ng kidlat habang kumakanta or makuryente para tumigil :P

Sa bagong nilipatan naman namin yung katabi naman namin napaka atribido. Akala mo sya may ari ng bahay kasi pag yung tauhan lang namin yung gumagawa at wala yung nagbabantay (minsan bumibili ng gamit or merienda) aba papasok sa bahay namin at mamumuna ng gawa ng tauhan namin. Sa bwisit ni hubby ayun pinaskilan nya ng No Trespassing bahay namin, siguro naka gets di na pumapasok samin. Naiinis lang kami ni hubby kasi hindi man lang nagpapaalam na pupunta sa bahay daig pa bisita namin. Hindi pa nga kami nag iinvite kasi nga magulo pa yung house tapos akala mo kung sino sa loob ng bahay namin pano kasi ang bitter bitter nya sa complete type na unit na binili nya.

kinkytinch

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #11 on: May 23, 2015, 01:00:32 am »
@aquacharly:  di magttrending sis.. waley na waley boses

@catnip: walang mgmt dito sis eh.. diretso brgy.. wouldve been easier noh? Haaaay

^ & ^^ omg mga sis! yun din iniisip ko sa inis sa kanila.. im even fantasizing to give them a taste of their own medicine.. yung bang pag natutulog sila, biglang may magpapatugtog ng super duper lakas na noise pero sila lang ang makakarinig. Tapos mabibingi sila. Tapos mababaliw sila sa lakas.. bwahahahahaha :D

Maxim04

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #12 on: June 03, 2015, 04:31:14 am »
haha lahat tayong andito problemado sa neighbor?
ours is like mahangin din.
party kung party. videoke galore till 3 - 4am.
then after a week mangungutang sa amin pambili ulam, makikikabit extension kasi naputulan ng  meralco, manghihiram ng pamasahe papasok sa trabaho. magpapark ng kotse nila sa tapat ng garahe namin.. at paminsan eh hindi namamansin. oha! hambog sagpro lang dba!  ;D

solusyon? pinagppray lang namin. we regretfully declined yung favor nila na mag kabit extension. we dont know how much electricty they will use, surely they will load fridge, aircon and stuffs na baka mag overload hndi ba?

then yung pagpapark, we put a signage sa gate na dont block the driveway. kasi yung gate namin eh incorporated ang daanan ng tao sa car. so when we will go out, yung kotse nila harang sa daan so we have to go around their car pa. istorbo talaga. kaya pag nagdidilig ako dati, kahit alam kong bagong carwash auto nila, binabasa ko. ahaha. evil.  ::) ::)

ngayon bumait sila. baka nakinig na sila sa angels. heheh  ;D

kinkytinch

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #13 on: June 03, 2015, 12:57:57 pm »
^ haha ok i give up. Your's is far worse than mine :) grabe naman sa pagka kapal muks ng neighbor mo.. pero congrats syo your nightmare has ended

kinkytinch

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #14 on: June 03, 2015, 01:01:36 pm »
^ haha ok i give up. Yours is far worse than mine grabe naman sa pagka kapal muks ng neighbor mo.. pero congrats syo your nightmare has ended

Maxim04

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #15 on: June 03, 2015, 06:40:28 pm »
^ haha ok i give up. Yours is far worse than mine grabe naman sa pagka kapal muks ng neighbor mo.. pero congrats syo your nightmare has ended

Hahaha wala kasi ako ngayon sa pinas so before i left alam ko bumait sila hahaha.

nicoletta

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #16 on: June 17, 2015, 07:06:59 pm »
We live in a guarded subdivision or village so the most na kinagagalit ko is lack of common courtesy.  One example is drinking in the garage without considering na gabi na and the maids downstairs can probably here them.  Another is parking 5 cars in the common area.  At most 2 lang pinapark ng iba samin.  Ayaw yata niya gamitin yung sa garage niya kasi sisikip.

rasee16

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Re: How do you deal with problem neighbors?
« Reply #17 on: June 17, 2015, 08:37:13 pm »
Ay nako peste talaga mga neighbors na ganyan. Di mo naman pwedeng ilipat bahay mo..

Our neighbor in bulacan is so mad at my mom. Actually pinagbintangan kasi yung mom ko ni neighbor A na kabit ng asawa nya. Eh hello, my mom is a businesswoman and she is seldom at home. Ang kabit talaga is yung neighbor B. Alam yun ng iba pang neighbors so my mom got fed up and said na hindi nga sya yung kabit kundi si neighbor B. Ang weird naman ni neighbor A kasi ayaw maniwala dahil kaclose nya si neighbor B. And now they're both ganging up on my mom.

Binutas ni neighbor B yung dalawang gulong ng kotse ni mommy. Kaso wala kaming evidence kasi wala pa kaming cctv at that time and wala ring ibang nakakita.

Si neighbor A naman, laging nakikipaginuman malapit sa gate ng village and pag dumadaan si mommy laging tina-trash talk.

2 or 3 months ago, may nambabato sa bubong around 2am and feeling namin si neighbor B nanaman yun.

Nakakainis na, sabi ko nga kay mommy lumipat na sya dito sa makati kasi sya lang magisa dun. Kaso di naman nya maiwan yung business. Haay... hanggang dasal lang din magawa namin kasi baka balikan nanaman kami.

 

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