Your guy's reasons why his previous relationships didn't work out

[CoffeeJellyy]

     Pansin ko almost mga bf dito ang kawawa. Magshare na lang din ako. Actually ayoko na sanang alamin ang past relationship ng bf ko although tama naman na malaman nating mga girls kung [textspeak!] yung nakaraan ng current bf natin kasi part yun ng background checking kung karapat dapat ba silang sagutin ng matamis nating "Oo".
     Ang natandaan ko lang nung nakwento nya sakin yun ay manonood kami ng movie nun nina Sarah at Lloydie. Dating stage palang kami nun, di pa kami mag gf-bf. Sabi nya sakin may gusto daw syang ipaalam sakin na natatakot sya na baka pag nalaman ko ay layuan ko sya. Yun pala, it's about the story behind kung bakit di nagworkout ang relationship nila ng 1st ex gf nya. 8 years sila ni ex gf at plano na nilang magpakasal dapat nun. Sabi nya pag gising nya isang araw wala na daw syang nararamdaman para sa ex nya, to make it short na-fall-out of love daw sya. Nung una di ko matanggap yung reason na yun kasi parang ang duwag sa part nya at kawawa si girl. Oo naawa ako kay girl na feeling ko talaga mahal na mahal sya based na din sa nakita kong post ni girl sa social media na super clingy sa bf ko. (di ko sinadyang mastalk ang social media accnt ni girl ha. nacurious lang ako sa kanilang lovestory.  ) Ayun, so medyo nagdoubt ako nun sa bf ko pero narealized ko na hindi naman ako yun at sana di maulit sakin yun kaya tinake ko ang risk kasi nainlove na ko sa kanya. Sa ngayon ay 1 year na kami ni jowa ko at minsan pag naaalala ko ang sweetness nila ng ex gf nya naiinsecure ako mga momshie.. haha.. pero sabi naman ni bf ko ako lang ang mahal nya at kalimutan ko na ang nakaraan nya.

[Jarring_J]

My current BF had many relationships given that he was a popular guy back in his academic years (and still is in his adulthoof). But his last ex, the woman he was with before we got together went to US to work, and viola, she met an American guy got engaged with him. I didn't prod my BF then when he was just courting me, but he would talk quite a lot about his past relationships even the shortest of all cause he claims that he wants to come clean with me. He would share his shortcomings and what made them fell apart, as well as what his exes did wrong if there was any. I appreciated his honesty, but I am afraid I still feel insecure. He is my first BF after all, while he had a lot of experiences and past relationships.