One time and for lifetime

[April30]

My husband and I met when we were in highschool. So to say, then started our love story. He is the only bf I had. I have some suitors and admirers naman but I told them to back off dahil may bf na ko. Our relationship lasted and we vowed for a lifetime commitment. Meron din ba dito mga sisses na one time lang nagka-bf and yun na din ang naging asawa? Share your story naman...

[Girltalker2]

Masasabi ko for me ya, married once before sa only bf.

Pero happy to say, este sad pala na hindi forever.

Things didn't work out for us.
Just realised lang na while we were of marrying age na when we got married (late 20s), I didn't know how to manage a relationship kasi sya lang ang naging bf ko. Tapos I didn't have the slightest idea of getting to know my partner well - ano gusto/ayaw nya, sya rin ganun.

Ewan ko din, siguro di nya na enjoy pagka binata nya kaya kung kelan kami kinasal tsaka sya naging unfaithful. And ito talaga yung naging cause. Instead na ayusin namin issues namin at mag grow kami together, we grew apart.

[April30]

Virtual hug sis! Hope you've moved on na. How many years ba kau mag-bf/gf? Kami naman ni hubby we started early. Before I was able to finish my degree nabuntis nya ko. Pero sya nakatapos na. Ganun din kami, di na-enjoy yung pagiging single. Kaya nung may kanya-kanya kaming work, kanya-kanya din kaming gimik. Hehe. Yung mga kids iwan muna sa parents ko or sa parents nya. Ako kasi madali ko na-outgrew yung feeling na "di ko man lang na-enjoy ang pagiging single". Typical homebody kasi ako. Di rin masyado mahilig sa nighlife. What I enjoyed is to travel which is nagagawa ko nman once in a while.

[Girltalker2]

^ iyan nga. Ako man, pareho tayo, di ko din na feel na nawalan ako or di ko na enjoy single hood ko. Nasa tao kasi iyon. And unfortunately ex hubby iyan naramdaman nya. Naive as I was, didn't see it coming as well.

Matagal kami mag bf. I abide by my parents, talagang studies priority ko pero magbf kami throughout university days. No premarital sex and we worked until we were financially stable - masunurin akong bata at di lakwatsero, kaya di ako natuto uminom, gumimmick, etc. Tapos only agreed to get married nung late 20s na kami. Kaya when he had a mistress, parang di madali tanggapin kasi when I looked back in my life, I always did my best, by the book, at di nang aaway nor namerwisyo ng iba, kaya during those times I questioned ano ang nagawa ko to deserve being cheated on.

Pero tapos na iyon. Happy na tayo lahat Life lessons? If I were to live it again, siguro mas I-expose ko sarili ko din sa outside world, join groups or organisations.

[120515]

my husband is also my first boyfriend but i met him late in life. i had been an nbsb for 30 years before i met him. i think the timing was perfect when we met because i was ready for a long-term commitment and fairly established in life

[yannuh]

^present:) he is my first and last bf:)

[quinone]

simple lang ang story namin. we met, stayed together for 5 years, and got married.

nung wala pa akong boyfriend di ako masyado pinapayagan lumabas with friends, pero nung naging kami na, mas pinapayagan na ako. nung simula hatid/sundo kami ng driver ng mommy ko, pero eventually kahit kaming dalawa na lang kapag weekend. parang baliktad ano? mas pinayagan akong lumabas nung may bf na. i guess my mom trusts him. na-enjoy ko rin naman yung younger years ko since lakwachero siya and we are not possessive of each other kaya nagawa namin yung mga gusto naming gawin.

[fejazir]

Yep. First and last BF. Classmates and crush namin isa't isa nuong elementary but we were bf-gf na after college. Yun na! We found out na all these times, isa't-isa lang pala hinihintay namin that's why hindi kami nag-kakarelasyon before.

[cecilydee]

First and last bf ko rin si hubby. After two years he proposed to me and the next day, we filed for our marriage sa cityhall. We got married in 30mins hehe. We are currently saving up for our church wedding.

[ayami]

TS, same story lang as yours. Sweet sya pakinggan, pero masyadong simple-- di katulad nung mga napapanod ko sa movies haha  . masyadong ideal ang peg. 15 yo ako at 16 sya nung naging mag-on kami. Akala ko puppy love lang ang ending, pero umabot na ng ganto katagal. mag 10 years na love story namin this yr. No breakups, no drama (except yung mga kadramahan nung buntis ako lol). well, hinding-hindi naman ako nagsisisi... so far Pag may mga high school get together, kami na lang ang "going strong" na couple hehe

[April30]

^Wow naman sis! May kakilala rin ako na hs palang sweethearts na. After 14 yrs. Saka sila nagpakasal.

[mebpa]

We met when we were in college. We never cooled off nor broke up even though away-bati kame before, especially during our younger days. Wala naman on-the-side coz we had the same circle of friends and now work-house lang life namen. For us, we are just committed to each other, more than love. I know it may not apply to all but that works for us.