What do you like/ dislike about your husband?

[imprincessfiona]

Mga sis out of my curiosity lang, what do you like/ dislike about your husband? Si husband kasi mabait, faithful, loving at masipag sa bahay (close to perfection ang ugali) kaso I don't think we are equally smart. How about you guys?

[donzski_doinks]

What do I love about my hubby? Maalalahanin. Lagi talaga niya inuuna kapakanan ko bago sarili nya. Yun bang tipong isususbo nalang nya e ibibigay nya pa sa akin? Tsaka loving husband talaga sya.

What I hate about him? Hmmmm.. mahilig manood ng DVD. Yung tipong kahit puyat na, inuuna pa panood ng DVD. Ang ending, nakakatulugan yung pinananood at naiiwang bukas ang TV. Sayang kuryente.

[happybee$$$]

TS I learned/confirmed from the Couples Recollection we recently attended na okay lang na hindi pantay lagi ang mag-asawa basta nagkakaunawaan. I used to think na mas matalino ako kay hubby since nagMBA and working ako while siya student pa lang nung mag-bf kami. Mas aggressive ako sa mga bagay-bagay and madalas hindi pa siya masyado nakakarelate sa mga issues ko but now na magasawa kami and working siya he proved me wrong. In fact youngest manager siya sa company nila and ang weird lang kasi lagi siya recipient ng Einstein Awardee. Mas aggresive din siya sa mga pinapasok naming business and investments. Sabi niya sa akin he owe to me dahil napakasupportive ko daw sa kanya and never ko sinabi and pinaramdam na mas magaling ako sa kanya. So I suggest unti-unti encourage mo si hubby na magbasa-basa, browse the internet and ikaw mismo share mo sa kanya mga topic na alam at interest mo.

On topic: I love how he always think and prioritizes my happiness. Basta nakikita niyang ikasisiya ko he would support me. Kahit na anong career or hobby na pasukin ko all-out siya sa akin. Matiyaga maghatid sundo pag may get-together with friends and mahal niya ang pamilya ko lalo na parents ko. I love how he leads our family spiritually, financially and morally. Hate ko yung pag may sakit siya nakupo tahimik lang at ayaw na masyadong bine-baby. Self-healing ang peg hahaha.

[imprincessfiona]

^sis happybee$$$ thank you for the encouraging words.siguro nasa period of adjustment pa lang kami since we just got married last January. Tama ka dapat suportahan ko lang si hubby. Thank you! Sana magbigay din ng ibang inputs ang mga sissies natin.

[aquacharly]

IAMPRINCESSFIONA.   

Kung engot your hubby & tamad to expand his mind --  what can you do? 
Get him interested in an easy area of interest and you can converse with him without sounding like a lecturer or like you are putting him down. He will tune off or resent it -- ayos ang relationship Nyo.

The longer a wife stays with her husband, the more her understanding of him expands.  So eventually, a wife gets to appreciate ( & not just love) whatever traits;  and  understands & accepts (and not hate) the husband's undesirable  (to her) traits/habits.  A wife learns to cope (or manipulate, lol).

What do I love about him?
Superior businessman, very good provider, gives me control of all funds, fair to each child, a good example to his children... and has been in True Remorse & Reform since 2006.  He spoils me, ever since -- so that's a big deal to me. Ako lang spoil nya.

What don't I like? Hate is too harsh a word nowadays;   we have settled into Acceptance
Tamad to travel.  But we do go abroad every 2months
Picky, very, with food
He has a sister who I hate.  Hahaha. 

[imprincessfiona]

^sis aquacharly thank you for being so honest. much appreciated

[chinkywinky]

I hate it when he's keeping secrets from me, in all aspects. I value honesty so much pa naman. 

[yannuh]

Love:
Super sweet, thoughtful, saka loving saken at sa family nya

Hate:
When he keeps on promising me that he'll quit smoking pero hindi pa din ; white lies.

[erza0916]

Oohhh .. love about him.

-Well, for starters, he's very honest. Never has he lied to me, I know kasi kahit alam nyang ikakagalit ko pag tanungin ko sya he can answer with a straight face. Medyo blunt but I appreciate it.
-He tries to be a good provider. He tries his best to give me what I want and need. He's not made of money so I know my limits.
-I love how versatile he is. Ang dami nyang alam na sports. You can say Jack of all trades but I love that about him. Hindi sya athletic pero pag may ipalaro sa kanya he can easily pick up and learn it. I did some swimming when I was a kid and he's still faster than me. Sanay daw kasi sya sa ilog.pffft. And his ninja-like reflexes, so sexy. Haha
-Speaking of sexy, he's an excellent lover. *wink wink*
-His loyalty, never given me a reason to doubt it.
-I love his physical traits. One of the reasons why I fell for him. He has a muffin top and I love it. And his scent, seriously, never ko sya naamoy na mabaho kahit pawis or hindi pa naliligo. Might be his pheromones working but I can smell him all day. I sometimes joke about peeling his skin and wearing it so I can smell him wherever. (Psycho)
-Don't even get me started on his singing voice..

Hate? Let's use the word Dislike.
-Insensitive. Ma Pride.
-Has never given me flowers. Not once. Kahit nung gf/bf. Nada. He says yung exes nya na binigyan nya ng flowers, naghiwalay sila, ayaw nya daw maghiwalay kami. Tssss excuses! Give me some damn flowers!!
-I like reading, he doesn't.
-He's not OC like me. He's very messy.
-Mahiyain. Kahit umorder sa resto ayaw nya, pati magreklamo sa establishments ayaw, buti na lang ako hindi. Haha he doesn't like talking to people he doesn't know. (Guess who made the first move.lol) I wish he could be more confident.

[imprincessfiona]

^Just an observation from our sissies posts. Opposite poles really attract. Just my two cents.

[Twinkle28]

LIKES
- responsible
- good provider
- malinis sa house and masipag sa gawaing bahay
- madali mag adjust
- pag uwi ng bahay, diretso alaga ng bata 
- good in bed
- faithful
- family is his no. 1 priority

DISLIKES:
- hindi sya mapang spoil, he buys gifts naman pero yung tatanungin nya pa, gusto ko kasi at least me effort man lang mang surprise   
- medyo kuripot sya lately huh, siguro dahil na din sa problem ng business namin
- matabang hindi sya gano sweet 

[Priceless]

-Has never given me flowers. Not once. Kahit nung gf/bf. Nada. He says yung exes nya na binigyan nya ng flowers, naghiwalay sila, ayaw nya daw maghiwalay kami. Tssss excuses! Give me some damn flowers!!

^ Ay ganyan din si hubby!!!! No flowers. I've never asked, I've never mentioned it, kasi I don't really mind, but napansin ko din yan about my hubby. And minsan na-joke ko ito sa mom ko na never akong binigyan ng flowers ni hubby - sabi ng mom ko, wala ka ngang flowers, pero ang mga regalo nya naman  are worth more than a flower shop so wala akong dapat ireklamo. Ok fine.

[diann28]

love :
* may work sya ... and good provider
* mahal nya kami mag ina ... faithful
* may pangarap sa buhay ... at may gawa di lang puro salita ...
* magaling makisama sa family ko. sa mga relatives ko
* wala bisyo ... bahay at work lang ...
* madali utusan ...
* lagi ako pinapatawa ... lalo na pag nag aaway kami sa text  ... di sya sumasabay sa init ng ulo ko. malambing ... lalo na sa anak namin ..

hate :
* adik sa online games
* minsan lang naman ... pag nag aaway kami ... di nya sineseryo yun away namin. kaya bandang huli eh parang walang silbi yun pinag awayan namin kasi na daan nya nanaman sa joke.
* bihira lang sya uminom pero pag naka inom na / lasing na kinukulit nya ako. para sakanya lambing. pero sakin nakaka badtrip kasi parang timang lang. sasayaw sayaw pa sya ng macho dance ( eeiiiwww lang )😝
* ayaw nya ng mag anak. gusto nya isa lang daw anak namin

[det060403]

I love that he's hardworking, responsible, he's faithful and honest, he's crazy funny, he's really sweet when he's trying, he's witty, he's loving and respectful towards his and my family, thoughtful and... Basta lahat, i love everything about him! Hahaha ! Baka mabasa eh, chos!!! Lol
Things about him that i dont like and somehow learned to accept~nyahaha... He's impatient and pikon lalo na pag nagddrive tsk!, he's beyond over masipag magwork that he barely gets quality rest... Halos hindi na natutulog haay! At ayon na nga pag may spare na oras, imbis na matulog nag aattack pa sa coc! Hahaha kainis!

[phurple0515]

what i love about him:
- he is so supportive and protective of me.  he is my knight in shining armor and he stood by me even against all odds, hehhe. 
- he is my inspiration to be healthy and always push me to go to gym kasi he is a gym freak
- malambing and until now even if at public, he calls me using our endearment term and still holds my hands while we are walking (maliit na bagay pero kinikilig pa rin ako)
- he is in charge of cleaning up (general cleaning) ng bahay, just to have to help him mop
- he is so organized (kung sinisipag)
- my DIY guy around the house
- and all the other things about him that made me love him

i have learned to accept my husband's flaws, hehe, but sometimes naiinis ako pag inuuna pa niya COC niya kesa magpunas ng lamesa after dinner.  i have to remind him first and pag sinabi niya na mamaya na sasabihin ko yong mamaya niya nagawa ko na, hehe

[det060403]

^ haha pareho tayo sis, asawa ko din tagaligpit at taga punas ng table, inuuna talaga ang laro. Mukha na silang coc grr... Pero pinababayaan ko nalang kase mukang yun yung pinaka stress reliever niya ngayon... Haay sana lang pagsawaan na niya huhu hahaha

[phurple0515]

^ me time pa nga na bago matulog naglalaro pa yan, patay na ilaw.  pag gising ganon din.  tapos pag ako naman na naglaro sa phone ko, bigla ako tutksuhin na inuuna ko pa phone ko sa kanya.  kaya sinasabihan ko na siya nga puro COC habang nagluluto ako, hehe.  tatahimik na.  pero tama ka stress reliever nga nila yon. 

minsan tatawagin ko na kumain kasi gusto ko makaligpit maaga, sasabihin niya a-attack lang daw muna siya...oh my COC talaga!

[mebpa]

Si hubby sobra bait, kahit sino makasama or makilala namen (sa office, school, family) yun ang impression sa kanya. and true naman na mabait siya and hindi nagbabait-baitan. Kahit ng OT den siya sa work, pag nagpasundo ako sa work wala siya reklamo.
Ayoko lang yun pag nagkwento ka madalas parang hindi nakikinig, walang reaksyon. But, I think ganun naman yata lahat ng guys, hindi nakikinig sa stories ng wife nila. Other than that, wala naman ako major problem.

Sis TS, just think of the things you like/love about your hubby. Wala naman kase contest or award pag sa mag-asawa kung sino mas matalino or sino mas magaling. Pwedeng mas matalino si wifey but mas maalaga/mabait si hubby, so kung sa mag-asawa hindi pa ba compensated yun. Kung iisipin naten kase lahat ng sasabihin or iniisip ng ibang tao, hindi na tayo magiging masaya sa asawa/buhay naten. Mahalaga kayo nagkakaintindihan. And, I agree with other sissies here to encourage your hubby but don't be too pushy coz you might get disappointed if you don't get the results you expect from him. Ikaw den naman nakakakilala sa hubby mo kung anong approach and better sa situation nyo.

[mebpa]

He's impatient and pikon lalo na pag nagddrive tsk!

pareho tayo sis, asar na asar sa motorcycle drivers na singit ng singit and drivers na bully, eh every day naman na-e-encounter sa daan yan. kaya ayoko den minsan siya lang magdrive,

[hyder0926]

i love that my husband is a YES man.. un din ang hate ko kase he never says NO..

except if i ask him to come home early when he is out on gimiks with friends / brods/ officemates..

love that..
- he is supportive and caring towards me and our son
- he is protective and prudent
- he is a good provider
- he is honest and righteous
- he is conservative but youthful
- he is patient with me and our son
- he is brave and strong
- he is courteous and humble
- he is articulate and intelligent
- he is fair and forgiving
- he is fit and athletic
- he is sensible and spontaneous
- he is loyal to a fault and loving
- he is reliable and responsible

hate that..
- he forgets time when he is out with his single friends
- he doesn't take a bath before going to bed
- he gets crazy drunk sometimes that he forgets where the toilet is..
- he has a shoe addiction.. he says he did not have "enough" shoes as a child
- he gets distracted easily