RA 9262

[kikaygimikera]

Hi everyone!

Tatanong ko lang kung sino na ba nakapag file ng RA9262 sa inyo? I am planning to file a case to my ex husband who stopped supporting my son and also sabi niya "ayaw" niyang pumirma sa travel consent for my son (my son annually visits my sister na may cancer) and his reason is he was in the Philippines for 4 months and hindi man lang niya nakita ang son namin.

I even cleared to him na when we knew na dumating siya sa Pilipinas (he's a seafarer), we kept contacting him even though "seen" lang ang nakikita namin sa Facebook or Viber. I thought "maybe" he does not want to talk to me. So, I bought a sim card and a phone for my son. I told him and his friends my son's number kasi naawa ako sa son ko who kept asking for his dad.

Second month came, it's my son's 10th birthday. I asked him saan ba papa birthday-an yung son ko kasi last year sa Jollibee. He told me he doesn't have money at may pinaglalaanan siyang payables for his new car. I told him sige okay lang I'll do something about it na lang. I cooked at home and brought food sa school. I even made my son his cake kasi my ex husband doesn't have 300 pesos for a Red Ribbon cake. So okay lang. I asked him kailan ba kami pwedeng mag-usap and he said he's busy.

Third month came, (december) he sent a message sa Facebook kelan daw mahihiram ang son namin. My son happens to have a school camp and exams. Sabi ko di pwede.

Christmas, and New Year -- we greeted him and even sent him pictures thur Facebook. Seen mode lang.

January came. I asked him when can we talk and have his signature kasi aalis na naman siya for his new contract sa barko and his child support kasi my son is getting older na. Also if he was open to the idea of us (my husband and I), adopting our son na lang if he no longer wants to support our son. I told him mas makakabuti sa lahat kasi eventually he will have his own family. He said no, he will not agree to that adoption thing.

March na. Walang sustento for my son. Can I file for RA9262? I read dapat sa barangay lang ito? Paano kung wala siya sa Pilipinas? Pwede bang may humarap na lawyer on my behalf? Kasi most likely yung mga "mababait" kong in-laws ang mag appear doon and iyayabang na naman nila ang power nila dahil "MASON" daw siya. 

I dont want to deal with them talaga. Naiisip ko lang ang son ko. I was recently hired and before, naiisip ko - kaya naman namin buhayin ang son ko. Pero biglang naisip ko, it is unfair for my son kung mag geget in way lang ang pride ko para sa karapatan ng anak namin.

I need you advise sis. Gusto ko siyang kasuhan at magregret para sa choices na ginawa niya or let us adopt my son na lang para tapos na.

[jojo2978]

You can do both simultaneously kasi matrabaho ang adoption.

[kikaygimikera]

Hindi ko po alam saan magsisimula... 

[stp]

Hi, Sis.

You may check with PNP-Women and Children Protection Desk in Crame. I think this is their number: 63.032.255.39.43 local 110.

[baby_chichay]

sis kikaygimikera, look for a lawyer, then execute a demand letter for child support. the lawyer knows what to do and the info you need to include sa demand letter to compel your ex to provide support or else you will be constrained to commence appropriate legal actions against him. you must be able kasi to exhaust all possible remedies to demand support from your ex before you actually consider any legal battle. as for adoption naman, like sis jojo said, matrabaho, so think about it a million times. sa ngayon dun ka muna sa support mag focus.

OT lang, why will his family brag about them being a mason? ano bang lodge nila at pwede mo naman sila i-report sis doon kung ganyan lang din at dinadamay pa pagiging mason nila.