Groom to be's Dad Passed Away:(

[yannuh]

Hai sissies! I really need your hugs right now:( my groom to be's dad passed away this afternoon:( sobra kong nasasad and hindi ko alam if pede pa ding ituloy this year yung wedding namin. Naka pag almost 70k dp na kame sa mga suppliers. I am afraid na kapag minove yun next year,they won't consider it:( H2B said hindi naman daw sila naniniwala sa ganun. What do you guys think? Haii:(

[bagaholic_chewy]

^ condolence sa inyo ni h2b and his family..

Re pagtuloy ng kasal, sabi-sabi ng oldies sa amin, pag within 100 days e ok pa daw ituloy, since firmed-up na ang plans. Although, best to consult h2b's family na lang siguro, kasi syempre baka ayaw pa nila mag"celebrate" or mag-party after losing a loved one.

Re downpayments, pera lang yan, sis. Kayang pag-ipunan ulit. Malay mo the suppliers will reconsider given the circumstances. You can try to ask.

Personally, I'd wait at least 1 year.

[galatea_spheres]

Hi sis yannuh, my condolences to you and your fiance. I think the decision to continue your wedding as planned lies on your fiance and his family, you have to be sensitive to their feelings and their beliefs. Maybe you can wait after a few days/weeks until all of you come to a final decision para at least kalmado na lahat at nakapag isip isip na rin at hindi na overwhelmed sa emotions. Again condolences, and dont worry, everything will work itself out in the end

[maukris]

Sis yannuh... Condolences sanyo...

Just to share sis, a friend of mine git married last february. Dapat august last year sila kasi mom ni husband nya naman ang namatay, i dont think na may problem about sa suppliers down payment understanding naman sila, as long as masabi mo agad sa knila para ma open nila yung date ng wedding ninyo and makapili ka ng date na free pa sila. Sino ba naman ang may gusto na mangyari yan di ba?

And nakakasad lang yung alam mo na may kulang na sa day na yun at baka di rin makapag celebrate ang mga tao.

[juwie]

Sis yannuh I am sad to hear this my condolences to you, your fiance and your fiance's family.
Kelan yung target wedding nyo sis? I believe you also have to consider the family's side. Kung OK lang sa kanila, eh di okay. Kung hindi.. it's sad but you have to respect it, sis.

Saka sis may ibang suppliers pumapayag sila magpa resched, pero yung iba may terms. So check mo your contracts. I can also imagine that hindi mo rin kaagad ito ma oopen up sa ngayon kasi everyone is grieving. Hay sis hugs to you.

[reese17]

Sorry to hear about your fiance's dad, yannuh. Call up your suppliers nalang and let them know about the news. I'm pretty sure they'll let you move your date and at worst, return your DP if they're already booked. The most important thing is that you're there for your husband-to-be because he must be really hurting right now.

[120515]

this is so sad, yannuh! hugs to you!
i am so sorry for your and your husband's loss.

[blackgreen]

Hugs sis yannuh! Support mo muna si h2b. He badly needs you now.

[skela96c]

Oh my! Sorry to hear about this yannuh.

There's a big chance that you'd have to delay the wedding. I understand too that you must be torn between wanting to be sympathetic to your future family at the same time think of your wedding. but just think that maybe, just maybe, there are better plans. 

Hugs and hope it only gets better from here.

[smile22]

^sis yannuh! im sorry to hear that. my condolences to you and fiance and the family.

sis i think maiintndhan naman ng suppliers yan. usually yung mga contracts nila, pag nagcancel kayo like on the day itself walang refund. pero kung ganyan sis, siguro maiintndhan naman nila kung immove lang naman yung date. wag mo muna isipin yan sis. be beside your fiance muna. saka na muna isipin yung ganyan, kahit mejo mahirap mawala ang utak sa preps.

[jajasmin]

condolence sis yannuh...
for me sis, wala naman mawawala if susundin natin yung mga oldies pamahiin, "sukob" thing.
then try to call up all your suppliers, maybe naka indicate sa contract na pwede move or refund
if may mga incident na ganyan...

Godbless you and your h2b sis..

[mrsdslv]

deepest condolences to you, your fiance, and his family! i'm sure most (if not all) suppliers will be very sympathetic towards you both, and will work something out. every cloud has a silver lining 

share ko lang din: the dad of our close friend's fiancee din passed away a couple weeks ago, and their wedding will be on june 30th. it was very touching kasi nung sa wake niya, open yung casket, and he was wearing the barong he would have worn sa wedding. super touching kasi portuguese sila, and it was the whole family's idea tuloy ang wedding nila (wala siguro silang pamahiin pagdating sa ganitong situation). the airline refunded his plane ticket apparently, all they had to do was provide the death certificate.

hugs sis yannuh!

[castledoll]

condolences sis yannuh.

Re: kung dapat ituloy or hinde.. Ask your husband to be. As what the others had mentioned already, I'm sure kung napag decide nyo na push back muna ang wedding, magiging understandable naman ang mga suppliers nyo. You're not canceling naman e, you're just moving the date. Kung ok lang kay husband to be mo na ituloy ang wedding, don't worry about the pamahiin. According to the oldies, basta nauna naman yung plano na pagpapakasal, walang problema dun.

[yannuh]

^thank you girls. sobrang need namin 'to now:( September 12, 2015 yung original wedding date but i really am thinking of moving it next year, pero consult ko pa din family ni H2B maybe after a week or two. bahala na kung maforfeit ang ibang dp, sabi nga ni sis bagaholic_chewy, kikitain naman yan. Ang pinakamahirap sa lahat e yung nakikita mo si H2B na nasasaktan haiii, kung meron ka lang maggawa to ease the pain

P.S.
I am sorry for ruining yung excitement ng mga B2Bs sa wedding preps, i just have to share this kase alam kong isa talaga kayo sa tinuturing kong support group right now, Salamat ulit:(

[charmed30]

Condolence sis yannuh.
Not sure if this would help, we were supposed to have our church wedding oct of this year but we had it moved to Feb next year due to my pregnancy. Nabook na din namin lahat ng major suppliers as well as some of the minor ones. We informed all our suppliers about the change of date and not even one gave us any problems. They understood my situation and i am not cancelling naman.

I believe that with your situation sis, they would understand also. You just want to change the date and not cancel diba. Normally, suppliers would allow a one time change of date. Review mo din the contracts. Ang tedious part lang is that you should come up with a new date na available ang lahat ng booked suppliers mo. The earlier you inform them, the better. But sis unahin mo muna asikasuhin si hubby amongst all others.

[gi_jane101112]

oh my..my deepest condolence and sympathy to your hubby to be and to you as well sis yannuh..we're excited and happy pa naman talking about our plans sa wedding natin..but then sis remember that God is in control of everything. May He give you comfort in these times, sis.

regarding sa wedding mo, nasasa inyo naman yun kung itutuloy nyo within this year o hindi..hindi man ako naniniwala sa "sukob" sis pero kung may ganyang pangyayari, i guess mas mainam na mag observe muna ng certain period of time bago magpakasal to give respect sa hubby mo at sa family niya..it's not because of natatakot na may mangyaring maganda, no. it's being sensitive sa grieving loved ones. remembe sis that you are part of their family na din kahit di pa kayo kasal diba? nasasainyo kung kelan nyo itutuloy yung wedding. alam ko mahirap pero diba, masarap din ikasal pag nakaget over na ang lahat sa pagluluksa? pag usapan nyo ni hubby sis pero sa ngayon ang kailangan niya ay ang pagdamay mo..you have to be strong for him..

sa suppliers mo naman, may kalakihan na nga ang naibigay mo pero sa tingin ko, ikoconsider nila na sila pa rin yung suppliers mo on your wedding. wala namang may gusto ng nangyari diba? tsaka  kung hindi ako nagkakamali, may clause sa mga contract na may specific condition pag may ganyang pangyayari sa mga clients nila..i think they will be considerate sis..again, condolence sis..hugs for you...

[Juyjuy]

My condolences sis Yannuh 

[belle_v2g]

^condolence sis to your h2b. i think your suppliers will understand (just in case you've decided to move your wedding) just explain it to them

[yannuh]

Hi mga sis ko! Maraming salamat sa sa prayers nyo. We're feeling better now. Our families decided to push through with the 2015 wedding. Medyo hesitant pa sa side namin pero sa H2Bs side, they do not believe in it. Thanks again and sana tuloy-tuloy ang healing naming lahat.

[skela96c]

napa smile ako sa post mo sis yannuh. Hugs to you again. I guess then kahit na sad ang circumstances  it brought your families together.