Problems you encounter while preparing for your wedding (Part 6)

[blackgreen]

Ang tagal kong hindi nagpopost, basa lang ako ng basa ng mga comments niyo. Sana lahat ng problems natin regarding wedding preps maayos na. Ayoko na nga masyado magpa-stress sa mga nakapaligid sa akin.

Ngayun sinasai ko ayoko ma-stress para dun sa May wedding namin, pero until now hindi pa ipinapadala ni SIL2b yun damit namin for the wedding. Busy pa daw siya. Hay naku. Kung mawala ng carrier yun goodluck na lang kung kaya i-replicate yun in less than 2 weeks time!

[xsugar]

naku sis blackgreen kaka-stress nga yan:(good luck sis..

[belle_v2g]

^sis blackgreen, baka may tracking number, para matrace nyo kung asan na..

[blackgreen]

^ayun sis ang problem. Hindi pa kinukuha ni SIL2b sa mananahi eh tapos na yun last week pa. Inhale exhale na lang. Pag di nagkasiya yun damit sa akin eh di walang isusuot. Gusto nila yan kasal na yan di nila bigyan ng time. Sabi ko na nga lang sa sarili ko, kung sila eh chill lang, eh di dapat ako rin mas lalong chill.

[belle_v2g]

hahaha tama sis, that's the attitude!! if ever ba may masusuot ka if hindi on time yung dress?

[yannuh]

dadating din yan sis blackgreen. pinapasuspense ka lang ng onti hihi.

[xsugar]

think of a back up plan sis blackgreen..pang tanggal stress na din.

[blackgreen]

^^^wala sis belle. Eto kasi yun traditional wedding na nirequest nila, kaya traditional muslim dress dapat.

^^wish ko lang sis yannuh. Sabi ipapadala na daw. Sana lang by weekend andito na para macheck ko na yun fit.

^sis xsugar, sabi nga ng friend ko kung sila hindi natataranta eh di ako rin daw dapat chill lang. Sila naman daw may gusto nito.

[xsugar]

kaya sis blackgreen, relax..focus your mind sa ibang wedding things na needed ng attention mo.goodluck sis, smile always!

[blackgreen]

^thanks sis! Focus na lang ako ulit dun sa October wedding preparation namin tsaka sa aming lipat bahay

[120515]

breathe in, breathe out, blackgreen! you guys will get through it

[juwie]

Sharing, as I read before na may gusto gumawa nito:

http://offbeatbride.com/2013/05/how-to-fire-a-bridesmaid

[anneshirley]

Hi sevenstars and blackgreen and all other GTers! Sorry to call sevenstars and blackgreen out specifically, after back reading kasi I saw you both have/had destination weddings!

My boyfriend and I are planning to have one too (we're not officially engaged yet and he keeps telling me to wait for the ring but we've already agreed to have it next summer abroad and I just can't help myself from starting my research early hehe  ) Anyways both of us are based abroad but grew up in the Philippines but plan to get married elsewhere (i.e. not where we're currently based and not in the Philippines).

What this post wants to do (and sorry I'm taking so long to get to that haha) is ask sana for tips on what to look out for when planning destination weddings and how you sourced your suppliers?

Thanks so much in advance!! 

[sparklingjewel]

I would have wanted the two mothers to have their gowns made with the same designer para the cloth, color and embellishments would be comparable. I hate seeing kasi at weddings na yung isang mom super bongga yung isa mukhang kawawa tuloy. But my future MIL has already decided on her designer and wants me to just give that designer the tela para magsame yung color. As if naman nagbebenta ng tela lang yung kukunin kong designer for my mom! Tuloy, problem ko pa to source tela for her and how to make sure the two gowns are magka-level. Im thinking of having my mom's gown made narin tuloy doon sa unknown designer nya para lang magsame level. OR, pagawa ko sa mas trusted ko and just make sure maganda no matter what para bahala na sya anong itsura nung kanya, at least im sure my mom's is good.

This is so far the only "problem" i have encountered in our wedding planning kase hindi ko control. But i will just let go and let her do what she wants, maarte sya dahil first wedding ng anak nya. I dont need her to stress me further.

[caleeice]

Sis, something similar happened to me. At first, we all agreed to have both mothers' gowns made by our trusted supplier (same supplier for both families). Then, future MIL changed her mind and tried to convince me to tell my mum to transfer to another designer. Mum would't budge. Iniisip ko bahala na lang sila, hirap pilitin ng matatanda eh. Then future MIL thought about it and decided to go back to trusted supplier because she wanted both mothers to have more or less the same gown. Hehe.

If your MIL is already decided, then maybe you can talk to your mom and ask her if she would consider having her gown made with your MIL's designer. Maybe she can give way on this particular matter. If not, bahala na your MIL what hers will look like, since it's her decision after all. Hehe.

[ece]

hindi ko alam kung nag start na ba ko maging bride-zilla, or may mali talaga? problem encountered: coordinator. alam kong busy month ang summer months, pero sana naman, kahit magsabi na , i'll answer your queriesor get back to you next week or 2 weeks from now, busy lang talaga. pero wala eh' seen zone ka lang. 

[Chili1113]

^No sis, that isn't acceptable sa coordinator. You are not being a bridezilla.

For instance my coordinator, never yan di nag-reply. Even if I only got OTD services and my wedding is a year away pa. She always answers within 24hrs at most. Plus I have asked her everything from supplier feedback, to etiquette concerns, to what role to give my son and future step son in the entourage etc.

Hehe that's why she's my favorite supplier so far. Really happy I got her.

[ece]

yun na nga sis! pero sige, patience.. patience... I got their semi-coordination package, isip ko, baka naman kaya hindi nila ko pinapansin ngayon kase sila na bahala after the hand over? sige, we'll see.. hehe.. sa ngayon, inhale, exhale! nakakaloka lang mag isip.

[caleeice]

How long has she not replied? Sis, try to send another message then text/call her to inform her that you sent a message. Also, if you sent a message on a weekend, just be a little patient and wait for her reply.

[ece]

sis, nag viber ako last April 24, seen lang. okay walang problema, baka busy. until now actually wala silang sagot sa message ko na iyun. okay. nagawan na ng paraan ni h2b. sent them an email 13 May, baka busy sila. okay sige, will wait. mainipin lang siguro talaga ko.