Do you believe in Happy wife means a Happy life too for our husbands?

[Girltalker2]

Nakakatuwa/kilig din ang thread. Sana mas marami pa mag testimony. Kasi syempre pag dating sa married threads, most talaga is medyo negatives issues.

^ happy wife = happy life for the wife of course!  hehe

But I think ang tanong ni TS more of "Does having a Happy Wife translate to a Happy Life for our Husbands/Partner"? 

[quennna]

^im a happy legal wife... hahaha

[Priceless]

I think we have our own separate happiness circles and a huge part of those circles converge.  And as long as he is happy, I am happy. I am very fortunate that he thinks the same way = that my happiness and our family's happiness is his first priority.

[bagaholic_chewy]

A happy wife means having a happy home that the husband looks forward to going home to and spending time with.

[caterpillar-girl]

Barring all other factors in the marriage like infidelity, or a drinking problem, or whatever, generally yes, happy wife = happy life. I don't think it takes a lot for men to be happy kasi. They're not like women, ang daming needs, emotionally, financially, etc. I find that men are very simple creatures. Hehe. As long as very simple needs are met, kadalasan ok na. So if the wife's happy, then there's no reason for her to deprive the husband of these simple needs. There's no reason for her to upset the delicate balance of happiness. So yes. Happy wife, happy life. 

[kikaygirl5810]

^im a happy legal wife... hahaha

yes yes happy legal wife here too... ahahah

[kikaygirl5810]

Nakakatuwa/kilig din ang thread. Sana mas marami pa mag testimony. Kasi syempre pag dating sa married threads, most talaga is medyo negatives issues.

^ happy wife = happy life for the wife of course!  hehe

But I think ang tanong ni TS more of "Does having a Happy Wife translate to a Happy Life for our Husbands/Partner"?

thanks sissy... flattered ako kasi galing sa Super girl talker

[googoo]

Happy wife = Happy life   

He is wise enough to know that he should always prioritise me kasi I tend to nag when I'm upset.  I know it's not right to do this but I am working on it.  If love tayo ng husbands natin, they will be happy when we are happy.

[imprincessfiona]

Count me in mga sis. Happy wife means happy life. I definitely agree with this. Siyempre pag masaya ka with your partner everything follows. Pero siyempre it will not only depend sa mga taong nasa paligid mo kungdi sa sarili mo mismo, right?

[Ireneeeeee]

Generally, this applies but I believe that as a wife, you also have to consider if the stuff you do/ think will make you happy will also make your husband happy. Operative word dito ang "compromise".

Me and hubby talked about this motto kasi ang dami sa fb ganito hashtag lelz. And I think dito pumapasok yun concept ng Five Love Languages. Kasi baka yun husband mo akala nya napapasaya ka na nya through his love language tapos para sa iyo hindi enough kasi hindi iyon ang love language mo. (e.g. for Valentines gusto mo ng gift/ flowers kasi yun nagpapasaya sayo kasi "gift" love language mo, pero si husband ang love language nya ay "service" like pinagluto ka nya, pinaglaba, minassage.etc. so feeling mo hindi ka na nya love kasi wala kang gift/ flowers thus hindi ka happy nun).  Importante talaga understanding and knowing more about your husband and yourself and vice versa din. Dahil para sa akin for a relationship to work out lalo na pang long- term, kailangan kayong dalawa ang nagstrive to make each other happy.

And hindi yata maganda rin yun naging isang observation sa study na kahit miserable na yun husband, as long as happy yun wife ok pa rin. Yes, ok pa rin ang family pero how about the husband?? Kawawa naman if I put myself in his shoes.

[The Greatest Is LOVE]

Agree ako dito. A Happy Wife will make a Husband happy too...
kasi in my case now, my wife (i think) isnt happy anymore (with me?) so ako affected kaya hindi ako happy...eto nga namomoblema sobra!

[imprincessfiona]

^Try to talk to your wife. Iba din kasi ang body language naming mga babae. Baka akala nya ok lang sayo. Good communication ang isang key to make your marriage work at dapat walang sekreto.

[bagaholic_chewy]

Generally din kasi, mas madami emotional needs ang babae. So when those are met = happy wife. Whereas, generally, husband's needs are simpler and easier to meet. So when the wife is happy, she is more inclined to satisfy those needs. The happiness is shared with the family.

[simang]

I have to partly agree. Pero the happiness of the wife should never depend on the husband. If a person is genuinely happy on the inside, it will automatically have an overflow. Kapag natural na masayahin si wife, natural din na magiging malambing at sweet si husband dahil gugustuhin mas lalo pa syang pasayahin.

Kung natural na bugnutin si wife though, magiging walang kwenta ang effort ni husband, kung may effort man. Kung lahat ng nakikita ni husband ay rage ni wife, paano sya gaganahan mag effort diba?

Happiness only feeds itself, and that goes true as well with any negative emotions. Kaya kailangan talaga maging masaya tayo from the inside. Para sa akin talaga it's the disposition of the wife ang nagdadala sa relationship. A woman's attitude is powerful. So we better use ours to positively affect our partners.

[imprincessfiona]

^correct sis simang. babae talaga ang malaking factor kung bakit nagiging successful ang married life ng mag-asawa.

[toinkz]

^^gotta agree sis. just attended chinkee tan's seminar yesterday on happy wife, happy life and one of the things that stuck with me is one of the marriage myth we believe when we got married, un saying na "YOU COMPLETE ME". He said magaling kayo sa math di ba, 1 incomplete person + 1 incomplete person= 2 incomplete persons, 1 lonely person + 1 lonely person = 2 lonely persons, 1 complete person + 1 complete person = 2 complete persons. you  see if you are marrying someone thinking that the other person will make you complete/happy then you're in for a big disaster because the other person will have a very big cup to fill just to make your marriage happy. and i realize its true. you see happy people tend to look at the brighter side of life, yes there will be problems but she will be more contributive to finding a solution rather than nag about it. yes he may glance at other woman, but she will be confident enough that even if he looks back he will still continue walking with her ( sabay bulong patay ka sa bahay mamaya harhar). i think that a happy wife tends to compliment her husband in a way that will make the husband proud of her and wants to make her stay happy para hayahay ang buhay 

[kikaygirl5810]

  May Happy wife paba dyan?

[barbillie]

I agree with this. Also, my husband also agree!

Our take on this is: first, the wife is in-charge mostly on all living arrangements like budgeting, preparing and cooking meals, doing household chores, of course taking care of the husband's needs and also taking care of the kids. If the wife is unhappy, she will be unmotivated to do these things for her husband and kids, making the husband also unhappy.

second, the wife is the "ilaw ng tahanan". however, we as wives do not shine on our own. We need something or someone to fuel or add to that light for us to glow brightly. So if the wife is happy, she will be giving off the light more than enough to brighten the house.

[mrs_mcta]

To some extent, yes. Kase we have to be honest, women are prone to be more emotional - malambing, maaruga and all pero we are also bugnutin, matampuhin, & makulit (ayoko nang dagdagan, haha!).

Men, I guess, are fairly simple in a sense na they're not super emotional; what you see is what you get most of the time and if they say they're fine, they're fine. Usually naman girls ang may hidden meaning na pag tinanong ka if you're fine - you say you are, but you're not.

I guess if you're happy, then happy din si husband kase in a way peaceful din ang buhay niya, haha, no nagging, walang pangungulit na mag ligpit or whatever else pa ang dapat gawin.

Pero, IMO, it's supposed to be 2 way. It should also be happy husband, happy life. Kase our husbands should also be satisfied or contented with their home life. Yung tipong excited siya to go home at the end of the day kase he knows that he will have food on the table and a loving wife to go home to. Which means he will work doubly hard to provide for the family diba?

[super bratinella]

Happy wife = Happy husband = well managed house and kids = stress free family