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funky f

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How did you and your husband meet?
« on: February 13, 2015, 11:23:25 pm »
Tutal Valentine's Day naman tomorrow, let's reminisce...

How did you and your husband meet? And what's your story? :)

I'll start. Officemates kmi sa first job namin. Tulay sya dapat nung college barkada nya na officemate din namin but we ended up together. We broke up after almost 4 years then, got back together after 8 mos. he proposed 10 mos after. We now have 3 kids after 9 years as married couple :)

donzski_doinks

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #1 on: February 14, 2015, 12:44:08 pm »
Sa facebook.

Ang nakakatuwa, wala kaming common fb friend. Basta nagkakilala lang kami sa comment box ng GMA News fb page. Nag post ako tapos ni-like nya. Nag-comment din siya and ni-like ko. Tapos ni-add as friend na nya ako.

And the rest is history.

funky f

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #2 on: February 14, 2015, 01:42:11 pm »
Ang cuuute ng story nyo :) very unique :)

super bratinella

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #3 on: February 15, 2015, 09:19:56 pm »
I am a working student service crew sa isang pizza resto then he is our customer kasama niya ang family niya that time when they dine in then after the bill out he got the courage to ask for my number, I am not suppose to give my real number pero I felt there is something in him kaya nilagay sa likod ng receipt nila ang number ko....

astarte

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #4 on: February 16, 2015, 03:40:15 am »
Katuwa naman ang thread na to :) naalala ko ulit tuloy ang 1st encounter namin ni hubby. Nag meet kami abroad, same company. Matagal na siya doon pero newbie lang ako that time. Halos magkatabi lang naman kami ng desk pero chat chat lang kami at sa chat madaldal pareho pero pag break lalo na pag lunch tahimik pareho hahaha!

glamorosa_09

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #5 on: February 16, 2015, 12:34:09 pm »
@superbratinella

Kinilig naman ako sa meet up story nyo ng husband mo. Parang siguro nung una ka pa lang nyang makita naisip nya na siguro you're the one. O kaya baka dati ka pa nya nakikita, nun lang sya nagkaron ng courage to approach you.

Re thread

We first met through an online catholic dating site. Hindi kami bayad eh, haha! So there's no way each of us can contact each other. Wala ring full name yung profile don. Ang galing nya magplay with keywords, he found my last name on a roster of board passers, and then eventually my friendster. He contacted me there. Stalker galore lang.

After two weeks of online chats and phone calls, we met at an open prayer meeting. Ever since our eyeball there hanggang ngayon that we're a family na, we still attend there and still a part of that prayer community.

pretty_B

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #6 on: February 16, 2015, 02:17:14 pm »
ang cuuute ng mga stories nyo sisters! post away pa! wala ako ma-share. single pa eh. :)

funky f

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #7 on: February 16, 2015, 04:57:53 pm »
Nakakatuwa mga stories. Sarap magreminisce :)

glamorosa_09

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #8 on: February 16, 2015, 05:26:04 pm »
kakatuwa talaga magbasa ng mga ganito.

Actually this storytelling of how a couple met is actually one of the interventions being used in marriage counseling/therapy. Kahit two emotionally disengaged couples, pag magkwento, something will spark as if a match was scratched and it lit up. Pag may nagspark, may pag-asa marejuvenate ang marriage. Pag wala nang nagspark, sobrang challenge na to bring back the fondness of the couple for each other. Patay patay pag wala nang naalala or if negative emotions were evoked instead of positive ones.

A couple of 56 years were interviewed how they met each other. And ang detailed pa ng first impressions nila sa isa't isa. I don't know if you have watched the video, recent lang yata sya. Here it is: http://youtu.be/Kut17MUKpi4

donya_dyosa

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #9 on: February 16, 2015, 10:18:58 pm »
i was a 24 year old stay at home single mom with a bf na babaero...
umiikot lang ang mundo ko sa son ko, sa bahay at sa (ex) bf ko..
i had enough of my exs infidelity.. one day i woke up sabi ko i need to work na..
and sa work ko ill find that someone na ipapalit ko sa ex ko...
ang hahanapin ko ay.. matangkad, singkit, moreno, mabango, makinis, gwapo, payat na malaki tiyan (oo gusto ko malaki tiyan ayaw ko ng macho!)

come our first day of work sa call center... one by one pumapasok na ang wavemates ko.. andaming magaganda... at ang daming lalaki.. kaso ang chachaka!!! sabi ko wala na... wala na pagasa..

then last, came him, pumasok siya... (late..) (habitual late pala talaga siya haha)
talagang tumibok talaga ng hard ang puso ko pati ang ano ko.. (haha) exactly what i was looking for..
we werent seatmates pero tumatabi siya saakin para iguide ako (kasi cc virgin ako hehe)
from day 2 nafeel ko na na saakin lang sya interesado... madami naglalandi sakanya at sabi ng wavemates namin.. wala daw talaga interest si hubby sa mga chikas parang sakin lang daw talaga...

one night my  (x) bf made hatid sa kin sa work... at nakita niya kami... di niya ako kinausap the entire shift then suddenly sabi niya sakin... kung kayo parin ng bf mo hindi natayo maguusap kahit kelan...
so yun dali dali iniwan ko na yung ex ko hahaha... yung agad agad as in agad agad hehe...

it was love at first sight sakin sya hindi daw hahaha .. we are now 10 months married!! =) 
by the way, husband is 5 yrs older than me, no strings attached never married walang nakalive in..puro serious gfs lang and no anak at all..
there must be something talaga in me... hehe
« Last Edit: February 16, 2015, 10:58:15 pm by donya_dyosa »

astarte

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #10 on: February 16, 2015, 10:30:02 pm »
^ kaloka yang love story mo sis. Naiimagine ko tuloy habang binabasa hahaha! Mala telenovela talaga na last pumasok sa room sabay ikaw naman stunned lang tapos mabagal ang ikot ng camera lol.

donya_dyosa

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #11 on: February 16, 2015, 11:04:46 pm »
^ay trulala sis.... right na rigth nagstop talaga ang mundo ko non at feels like slow mo ang entrance nya funny thing was... sa direction ko pa siya pumunta kasi dun nalang ang may bakante na upuan sa row ko... nagpalpitate yata ako non at pinagpawisan not to mention na wet?  ;D

dahil na love at first sight ako ang arte arte ko... siya pala naman iritang irita saakin kasi ang arte arte ko... nung pauwi na nung 1st shift sabi ko ang sungit naman ni mr. dream boy ko hays bukas itigil na ang arte nato magpapakatotoo nako wag na yun may bf panaman ako... 2nd day.. unleashed ko na ang real me... mga kabaklaan at kalokahan ko at wa na ako care sa kanya... at dahil dun sa 2nd day na pala sya nainlove sakin hehe... 


astarte

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #12 on: February 16, 2015, 11:41:07 pm »
Haha parang commercial lang! Buti airconditioned room kasi kung nagkataon sa labas nangyari yan baka with hangin effects pa yung habang papalapit siya sayo hahaha! Di mo na natiis 2nd day pa lang binakuran mo na lol.

miiilovestravis

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #13 on: February 17, 2015, 01:22:54 am »
Schoolmate nung HS :)

clueless_bride

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #14 on: February 17, 2015, 04:16:07 pm »
katuwa yung love story nio sis donya_dyosa haha... naiimagine ko yung scene nung unang kita mo sa kanya....  ;D

kami naman sa party nagkakilala ng common friend... shempre inom2 at videoke... di kami nagpansinan nun kasi suplado project ng asawa ko pag sa mga girls. anyway ako din naman deadma sa kanya kasi may jowa ako noon haha!

imprincessfiona

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #15 on: February 17, 2015, 06:26:40 pm »
We met on facebook. I was in a super complicated relationship but thinking of letting go and moving on then I met him through my high school batch mate kasi nung time na yun I was posting AMPALAYA quotes. Hayun nag-pm sa akin yung batch mate ko at naikwento ko sa kanya yung story ng complicated life ko. Sabi nya hahanapan nya daw ako ng match. Come December 24, 2012 tumawag si batch mate habang nakikipagdate ako (dating stage na ako nun) somewhere in Ortigas and she told me na may nahanap na sya. Ibinigay ni batch ang name nung guy at nag-pm ako sabay add sa kanya sa fb. Since may 5 hrs na time difference (jeddah time) late na nya (hubby) nabasa ang message ko. By the way, my batch mate (girl) at yung barkada (boy) ni hubby ay mag-bf gf that time (naghiwalay sila after ilang months). It all started sa fb chat, ym, skype and wechat. After 4 days naging kami na hehe nagclick kasi kami agad at talagang may chemistry. And the rest is history. As of today, 1st wedding monthsary namin ni hubby, ang saya saya!
« Last Edit: February 17, 2015, 06:29:41 pm by imprincessfiona »

donya_dyosa

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #16 on: February 17, 2015, 10:04:30 pm »
haha tnx clueless_bride... totoo yung wet factor... hehe.. parang naging fertile ako bigla nung una kita ko sa kanya! haha kaloka

LGV

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #17 on: February 17, 2015, 11:15:17 pm »
Ang saya naman nito! Sige magkukwento din ako :)

I was once a happy go lucky, party girl (as they call me) etc. I was also an alcoholic way back. Pero I can say na matino naman ako pati pagiisip ko haha! Anyway I was a single mom as well and after I broke up with my daughter's dad, puro fling fling nalang and wala na ko naging serious relationship. Come January 2011 I decided ayoko na magcall center job, I transfered though BPO parin pero atleast hindi na cc re ng work ko, there was this ofcmate na way far ang position sa akin hindi naman sobrang layo pero dihamak na mas mataas sya. We're both smokers before so lage nya ako niyayaya and sa totoo lang since he's one of "the most eligible bachelor" sa office (sabi ng mga mas batang girls and mga bading ofcourse haha!) bukod sa may itsura sya umpisa palang mapapasecond loom ka kasi nga malaki syang guy, maputi and may sense kausap. So una plang na inapproach nya ako at nagpakilala eh hindi nako choosy pero hindi ko rin naman kaagad binigyan ng malice kasi nashare nya na may gf sya that time.

So anyway halo halo ang usapan like personl life, friends and lovelife. Hanggang sa everyday kame magkasama sometimes with other friends naman. We didnt know may pinagdadaanan sya and matagal na pala sila malabo ng gf nya for many reasons. To sum it up kung baga bihira yung case nya pero sya pa yung argabyado haha! Mahirap maniwala nung una kasi yung ex gf nya eh hindi naman sa panlalait, professional at may kaya talaga pero physically hindi masyadong ano not to mention pati ugali. Naririnig na kasi namin that time pag naguusap sila sa fone. Anyway dedma naman kame until tuluyan na nagbreak after all ako lage nya niyaya kumain, uminom etc. Until he admitted matagal nya kong crush pero dahil loyal naman sya sa ex nya masaya na sya na friends kame. (Humaba naman ang hair ko banda doon lol) So syempre sa dinadami dami ng labas namin in short talaga namang nadevelop and we both felt the difference, sya with his exes and ako sa pakikipagfling and paggimik gimik kung baga mas masaya pala kame together as in walang makapaghiwalay samen. Kakahatid lang nya sakin after namin magusap sa fone kung pwede magmeet kame ulit after few hours gagawin namin. As in ganun kalala. Matic na pag weekends Fri to Sun na kame magkasama.

We dated for like 3 mos then became official January 2012 then he proposed to me after 2 mos lang. So since his family is very broad minded and mabait talaga wala kameng narinig about me having a child. Mas marami pa ngang nega comments ang ibang tao. (Maraming tutol samin sa ofc kasi nga may anak ako) So there hindi naman sila nagwagi, we just had our dream wedding a year ago and we're having a daughter, Im due this March :)

Sorry napahaba ha, happy lang ako magshare. Ang husband ko close to being perfect, atleast for me ha. Sobrang bait na daddy at asawa. Minsan nga ako na nagagalit kasi masyado na naiispoiled yung daughter ko even sa inlaws ko kasi parang kadugo na talaga ang turing nila and I will never get tired of thanking God talaga. Maraming nagulat na nakapagasawa ako ng matino kasi akala ng karamihan eh hanggang ganun nalang ako at forever single. Siguro hindi lang natin talaga masasabi I didnt see it coming din naman but it happened :)

astarte

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #18 on: February 17, 2015, 11:31:31 pm »
Okay lang yan mapa short or lengthy kwento ;) post away lang mga sis! :)

diann28

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Re: How did you and your husband meet?
« Reply #19 on: February 18, 2015, 06:38:08 am »
kinuha nya # ko sa year book namin. sa dami dami ng nag text sakin sya lang ni replayan ko. at sa 5 na kinuha nya # sa year book ako lang nag reply daw sakanya.
« Last Edit: February 18, 2015, 03:01:16 pm by diann28 »

 

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