Ano nararamdaman mo kapag nakikita mo ang new gf ng ex mo?

[SarSi_Em]

aww nakita ko naman pics nila, hindi ko sadya, need ko mag open ng fb para i block naman si new gf, para hindi na ko mag stalk kapag ready na ko mag open uli ng fb, plan ko kasi wag muna iopen yun starting today, para d ako ma hurt dahil marami kami common friends. ayun, nakita ko same na sila ng dp nila, ang happy nila esp si ex. may part na happy ako dahil masaya na sya, pero andun pa rin yung feeling na ouch ah sakit, tapos higit pa sakin un pinalit so ayun 

hindi naman ako naiiyak, more sguro na iingit, selos, daya, unfair ayun.. 

[mimiku]

^I'm sorry to hear that. If it is not too much to ask ikaw ba nakipaghiwalay?

[SarSi_Em]

sis mimiku, hindi, nahuli ko lang si ex, nakita ko mga pics ni girl, matagal na nya kausap last year pa, nung inaaway ko na sya via fb chat, dami na nya reasons, ni blocked ko na lang sya tapos nag text sya sakin a day after, nag thank you and wishing something about my future. hindi na sya tumawag, hindi rin ako nag reply, hinayaan ko na lang, after 2 weeks, ayun nagpalit na sila ng dp nila, naka add na rin sa family nya un new gf. out of town pa yun pics nila. yung weeks nag iiyak ako dahil sa kanya, sya nag papasarap kasama si new gf. saklap 

3 months na NC yet ang sakit pa rin. sana di ko na lang nakita si gf. talong talo ako. nakaka insecure, feeling ko ang panget panget ko 

[Moonbeam17]

Deadma kunyari pero Deep inside sarap sampalin at sabunutan masyadong pabebe! Haha

[mimiku]

@Sarsi_em I am sorry you have to go through this and there are no words for me to say to make your pain go away. But what I can assure you is that after a while, yang nararamdaman mo will go away. There is no timeline, depende na rin sayo yan- it may take months or even years pero it will. Just take time to grieve and then afterwards, go on and take adventures. If you feel ugly, magpaganda ka. Normal lang yan. Pero don't worry, the feeling will go away. You will eventually learn to love yourself. Just try not to look at your ex FB na lang. Been there done that. Prayers help a lot. Hoping for the best.

[prettydefined]

Mararamdaman ko: I feel sorry for her. Hahah! And buti nakilala sya ng ex bf ko. Pinagsisisihan ko naging bf ko sya.

[purple.strawberry]

Wala dahil di ko sila friends sa fb and I don't stalk ex-bfs or their new partners haha. Pero kung makikita ko siguro by accident ang picture probably will be a little curious but nothing more.

[[-c-h-a-]]

so more than 10 years ago

when I first saw the new gf... O.M.G. nilait ko ata simula ulo hanggang paa. I texted pa my ex and told him he downgraded biiggg time and of course, inisa isa ko yung mga "di maganda" sa girlfriend nya. Tawa lang ako

[itsnikimendoza]

waley. haha.

It's been five years narin naman, may kanya kanya na rin kaming buhay so happy nalang akong tapos na yung stage namin nun ex ko dahil happy na ko ngayon kung ano't ano man sila, happy for them na rin

[peachlipstick]

I'm marrying my first boyfriend so I don't have an ex. Pero siguro sa tagal ng pinagsamahan namin ni h2b if maghihiwalay kami, eto lang masasabi ko kay girl:

"You may touch him but he will feel my warmth, you may kiss him but he will feel my lips, you may look into his eyes but you will see him longing for me.
Hold him and know that he is haunted by memories of me.."

 

[akosimaiatot]

sus! nung unang nakita ko para kong nakita si BALE ng ok ka fairy ko tapos sinabi ko kay ex kaya ayon nagpalit ng DP sa fb tapos nag public ng ibang picture kung saan puro nakanga-nga kala mo kinaganda nya ..kasya paa ko na size 6 sa laki ng bibig nya ..pabebe ..di ako bitter honest lang

[pretty_B]

idk kung sila na. but i just saw a pic of him with her (si girl na pinagseselosan ko before na "kaibigan"  lang daw nya) and another girl friend. he looks happy. not like sa other picture na nakita ko before. i dont want to unfriend them both on fb, ayaw ko magkaissue pa na kesyo bitter ako. but i unfollow the girl. sya kasi yung post ng post. si ex, matagal ko na naunfollow.

what i felt? sadness, loneliness and confused. hindi pa ba ako nakakamoveon? hindi pa palaaa! bakeeet? 

[rachelbuena]

The hell I care. Hahahaha!

[cosmochick]

First thing I did with all of my exes present gfs was size them up. "Ayyy.. mas maganda pa rin talaga ako sa lahat.. " :p

tapos, move on na.

[najine]

nung nakita ko pictures nila. hurt shempre pero nung tinitigan ko na yung girl. waley. matangkad at payat lang pero overall bagsak. sabi ko nga sakanya, humanap ka lang ng kapalit sana sinobrahan mo na sakin.

oh well, ganun talaga pag bitter pa. lahat ng panget makikita mo sa girl.
gusto ko nga sugurin o iconfront na baka di nya alam na my nasira siyang relation. kaso what for?

intayin na lang nila maka move on ako. I'll make sure nasa akin ang huling halakhak!

[pretty_B]

well, kung nauna sya magka someone...masakit makita sila na magkasama while ikaw eh, single pa din. pero if mauna ako magka-someone...wala na sigurong bearing kahit may makita pa akong kasama nya.

[TomHansen]

Saw my ex's new bf last week, natulala na lang ako. Hindi ko maipaliwanag yung naramdaman ko..

[shanghai baby]

Eto totoo. Naawa? Kasi she's 4 years younger than me and yet she looks older. I guess iba ang dala ng stress na halos sabay sila ng isang girl na nabuntis ng ex ko.

[sensi]

happy for him..that's the truth. hehe
cause am happy rin naman with my present one.

[kdesigner08]

Well mixed feelings eh. Not sure if my ex is into rebound relationship right now. It's been 6 months since we parted ways, I'm the one who initiated the breakup kasi I got fed up with his cheating and lying. Ang toxic ng break up namin where our parents got involved na rin. I just found out na may bago na siya girlfriend after 6 months. and she's 19 years old? and my ex is 31 already. Grabe lang, I just don't know what to feel right now. May halong inis, still hurt and affected. I just don't want to react and feel bitter about it and just leave it that way.