What is inappropriate?

[~aShLiE~]

Just curious, thinking what is inappropriate if you have a girlfriend and you have lots of other friends who are you know, girls. Minsan kasi parang na misinterpret ang mga guys and there are gfs who are super jelly din. But what really is over the boundaries? I know guys who are really friendly kasi and sometimes girls just have wild imagination. Oh well. Overthinkers. Haha, I admit I am one of them lols.

[dismembered]

Kapag friend na ng isang guy yung girl at super close na sila dati pa bago ka pa nya nakilala o naging GF, unfair lang na magseselos ka dahil close sila. I think hindi naman nyo pinagusapan bago kayo maging BF/GF na aalisin nya ang friendship na meron sya dun. I think unfair na magbago sya ng pakikitungo sa friend nya na girl dahil nagka GF sya. So dapat exemption yun.

Siguro ang hindi lang appropriate eh yung maging super close sya sa mga girls pa after nyo maging mag BF/GF. At saka inappropriate din kapag, lumalabas ng sila lang, nagtetext every hour, nagyayakapan at nag kiss.

[ri-anne]

It's inappropriate for the bf/gf to be spending lots of time with the "best friend" or even just "hanging out" just the two of them
Or to share/confide problems with each other, lalo na kung it's about your relationship - dapat sa inyo lang yun
Or to be physically affectionate with the "best friend"

I think nga, for me ha, they should already limit their communication kasi dapat ako na yung "best friend" what's her use pa diba? Kung may mga "best friend" na pilit pa ring magig normal ang relationship kahit may ka-relationship na yung isa, ang naiisip ko lang is because may feeligs sya dun sa guy (or girl). Besides, if i have a guy "best friend" at nagka-boyfriend ako, i'd also change. but that's just my pov.

[ayachan31]

up ko lang.lurker lang and ngayon lang sinipag magreply. well ganyan din bf ko madaming kaclose na girls but that was before.and even before pa naging kami close n din sila magtotropa kaso ang ayoko lang yung may tawagan pa sila.feely touchy tas alam pa nung mga girls na kami na ni bf eh  parang nananadya pa so ako nabwisit sinabi ko ke bf..and mula nun di na siya nakakasama sa mga lakad ng tropa except...EXCEPT sa tropa niyang boys. may boys night out pa rin naman siya. kasi tinanong ko siya hindi ba niya kaya ng wala yung mga girls na yun? and sabi niya kaya naman niya..

and tama yung sinabi ng mga sis dito na bakit kelangan nya pa ng bestfriend kung meron naman na siyang girlfriend...

[Girltalker2]

Kailangan talaga may boundaries. Kahit pa yung friend mo ay kaclose mo before naging kayo.

The fact na you are serious enough to be with 1 girl/boy and have her/him as your gf/bf, Hindi na proper yung makipag chancing-an pa sa iba or kaclose. Yes wala ngang malice, pero since opposite gender iyan, there is a high chance/risk na puede magkaron ng something, either sya sayo or Ikaw sa kanya etc.

If you feel stifled na feeling mo paano naman ang iba mong friends and gusto mo pa maki mingle sa opposite sex, eh di huwag ka dapat muna mag bf/gf and be free to meet/mingle with anyone.

You're not forced to stay in that relationship naman. If it is more fun to you to hang out with your friends (opposite gender) kesa sa gf lang, huwag ka na mag gf muna.

[dell]

I must say lahat talaga ng "over" ay masama...

"over here" "over there" "hangover" "overindulging" "over befriending" "overreacting" "overprotecting" "overshoot" "overlooking" "game over"