Entourage and guest list questions

[corpse_bride]

^but paano kaya yan I wanted to list them sana by pairs? My pick of PSEs aren't couples unlike fiancé's picks haha wanted to list them sana "by closeness to the couple" that's the part when my mom would strangle me coz huli yung kapatid niya haha

[stylus]

^ours was according to closeness.. pero sakin lang!! Haha! Honestly di ko naconsinder ito.. not until maopen ko ang thread na ito. Ako lang kasi nag diy ng invites namin. So as it is.. yung pagkakalista ko, ganun lang din nilagay ko sa invitations. Sana naman wag maging big deal ito sa kahit sino. Kasi nauna talaga mga PS muka sa side ko..

[reese17]

Did mine alphabetically according to the surname of the male PS Same with the rest of the entourage!

[RhoanYuri]

Sissieesss, Help naman.. We're planning kase to get only 10 primary sponsors, which will serve as our godparents.. kailangan ba mag asawa talaga ang kukunin? I mean for example, kinuha ko yung tita ko as ninang sa kasal namen, dapat ba kukunin ko na rin as ninong yung asawa nya? kase if that's the case magiging 20 instead of 10 lang yung primary sponsors namin.. kase yung nasa list namin ngayon is 5 ninangs and 5 ninongs pero wala sa kanila ang magasawa, pinagpair lang namin sila via age or closenest..

another thing pla is wala na kase kaming bridesmaids and groomsmen since intimate wedding lang naman kame, 50-70 guest lang, instead puro secondary sponsors na lang (veil, cord, candle, maid of honor, best man, flower girls and 3 bearers (coin,ring,bible)) yung veil and maid of honor meron na kong nailagay na closed friends namin ni hubby, eh I have 3 teenager sisters pa and gusto ko sana kunin silang tatlo para hindi naman magtampo, so I have 2 of them to be the cord and cadle, tapos wala na ko mapaglagyan dun sa isa kaya iniisip ko kung pwedeng sya na lang yung maging bible bearer.. since ayun na lang din yung kulang ko entourage.. ok lang ba na 15 years old girl ang bible bearer ko??

[Missus O]

^ It would really be upto the couple's decision sis . We have 8 pairs of godparents. Not all of them are married pairs. Some are single pa nga. As for your entourage sis, yes pwrdi. I only have 1 flowergirl, dapat 2 sila but since 10 going on 11 na yung isa inupgrade na namin title nya na junior bridesmaid hehe. But as for boys, ixve got 4, kaya lahat ng pweding bitbitin eh bibitbitin nila hehe

[stylus]

Hi girls! I do not know if this is the right thread. Pero pano ba sequence ng pag march sa church wedding?

Di ba una lagi best man. Then pwede ba mauna parents of the groom para solo walk si groom? Hehe.

[karenmaechua]

No hard, fast rule about the sequence sis. I attended a lot of weddings where the parents of the groom walked before the groom. Then they waited for the groom halfway down the aisle

[stylus]

^thanks sis!

[simang]

Sa wedding video namin may kuha dun si husband na mag isa lang sya naglakad sa church, so tinanong ko sa kanya kung ganun ba talaga, yun pala nagkamali lang yung coordinator ng church dapat sabay sya with his parents hehe so ending nag antayan din sila halfway. Hehe. Okay na din at least may solo moment din sa march si husband

[lakwatchera]

hi mga sis! most of my friends are married already, okey lang ba, kung married na ang bridesmaid ko? or dapat single ladies lang? tia!

[Missus O]

^it's okay. There is no such rule that you have to only assign single ladies for bridesmaids. Most of my entourage members are already married. And I'm not the only bride to have that.

[yannuh]

^^yup ok lang kahit married na lahat. nagkataon lang na single pa friends ko haha. pero yung ate ko na married bridesmaid ko din sya:)

[stylus]

Hindi rin issue sakin kung single or married as long as close talaga sakin. Hirap naman kung single nga, di mo naman ka-close. Pero si h2b may issue sa mga married na. So yung 2 friends ko na married, pinalitan ko na lang ng cousins na single

[Ms V]

lahat ng entou ko eh married no fuss 'wag mag-alala sis

[caleeice]

I think one of the reasons that some elders (well, at least this is what my mom and aunts tell me hehe) discourage getting married women as part of the entourage is because the couple has to make necessary adjustments when one of them gets pregnant.

My married cousin, who we got as a secondary sponsor, got pregnant halfway during our wedding preps. She asked me what to do. I told her that I would still love her to be a part of our entourage if kaya pa niya even if she would be around 6 months pregnant during our wedding. When she said yes, I had to talk to our entourage designer. What the designer did was to get her measurements only around 1-2 months before the wedding. Gown came out fine.

Another example is me. I was part of my friend's entourage late last year. However, I had vaginal spotting during the week of their wedding, so I was advised by my ob-gyne to get some bed rest for our baby, thus I could not attend their wedding. I had to ask my sister-in-law, who also happens to be their friend, to stand in for me.

Other than that, I don't see any problem getting married people as part of your entourage

[lakwatchera]

Thanks for the tips mga sis! Most of my friends are already married na kasi! Happy preps everyone!

[peculiar.lad]

Hi Newbie here. Fiance just proposed to this summer and we're planning to get married 2018 summer. We're scouting for suppliers na to prepare early. Ayaw kasi namin ng hassle at nagmamadali. Wedding will be in Tagaytay. Reading your posts to have ideas na rin sa mga good suppliers.

[overdose_23]

Hi sisses! Musta ang mga preps natin dyan? Just want to ask if sino ba ang pwede magdala ng here comes the brides sign? Wala kasi kami inassign sa invitation.. I have 2 flower girls and 2 bearers lang. Pwede ba palakarin ulit yung isa sakanila just to bring the sign board? hehe

[Chili1113]

^sis, why not make 1 flower girl carry the flowers, and 1 will carry the sign. Di ata pwede na palakarin ulit kasi sabay sabay sila maglalakad with like a 10 meter gap in front of the other.

[overdose_23]

^sis, why not make 1 flower girl carry the flowers, and 1 will carry the sign. Di ata pwede na palakarin ulit kasi sabay sabay sila maglalakad with like a 10 meter gap in front of the other.

Onga sis. Sige yung isa nalang pagdalin ko. Kesa palakarin ulit. hehe.. Yung here comes the bride ba hindi naman sya pinapalakad right before ng bride? I mean dun din ba sya kasama pa din ng mga flower girls at kasunod ng bearers?