Totoo ba? Re: karma of womanizers

[abbmg]

i know i'm old enough to make my own decisions and suffer in whatever consequence it will result to, but i just can't help but wonder...

totoo bang ang karma ng babaerong lalake ay mapupunta sa anak na babae? yun kasi sabi ng nanay at kapatid ko saken, since we knew of my dad's girls before, and now, i am about to file a legal separation case against my estranged husband. at awang awa saken ang dad ko sa kinahinatnan ng relasyon ko sa asawa ko since wala ng pag-asang maayos pa lahat kasi hindi ako tulad ng nanay kong martir at natitiis lahat...

[erza0916]

I don't think na kagagawan ng tatay mo kung bakit kayo maghihiwalay ng husband mo. Nagkataon lang naman siguro. Ang karma nya dahil sa pambababae nya eh sa kanya mapupunta hindi sayo. Bakit ka magsusuffer sa ginawa ng ibang tao diba? Kayong dalawa ng asawa mo gumawa ng relationship nyo, kung ano mang state nyo ngayon, nangyari yan dahil sa inyong dalawa,not because your Dad was babaero noon. Siguro panakot lang yun sa mga asawang babaeo.haha

[Girltalker2]

I used to hear of this joke - kapag babae ang lumabas na anak, sasabihin nila - pambayad ng utang nung father. It implies na prevalent naman talaga kasi ang womanizing dyan sa society natin.

TS, tingin ko nagkataon lang. I agree with sis erza na kagagawan ng hubby mo ang situation nyo, at kagagawan naman ng dad mo yung magkaron sya ng ibang babae. Sadyang immature lang sila at di marunong maging tunay na responsible spouse/parent nung time na nag asawa sila.

[TysLolakins]

Let your dad think it's his fault so maybe, just maybe, that will make him stop his philandering days. 


it's just coincidence, in my opinion.  i know firsthand where the father was a known womanizer and yet the 3 daughters' marriages were ok. 

[glamorosa_09]

I've heard about that too, and honestly it got me concerned for a time. My father used to be a philanderer too.

So when I was single, I used that fear/paranoiah/whatever it's called to propel me to be wise in choosing my future husband, to use my mind, and not just solely depend on spark/kilig factor. And I also prayed for guidance along the way. So far, so good, by God's grace.

As per your thread title, no I don't believe it. It's not like your future is predestined because of your father's folly. We're given the free will to create our own destiny with God's guidance.

Sabi mo nga rin:

you're old enough to make your own decisions and suffer from the consequences it will result to.

[Ihadelaluna]

frankly speaking i wouldnt exactly say na yung anak mo ang magsow ng karma ng ama nya, the opnly way for things to turn out the way you want it is let your kid live the way she is supposed to environment and peers has a factor in a child's life so kung may karma man yung tatay nya kung di naman nya papasukin ang maling buhay hindi sya ang sasalo ng karma even though she is her father's daughter.

[quinone]

i don't believe in this...

pero naniniwala ako na whatever image you hold of your father (or father figure) inside your mind might positively or negatively affect you (subconsciously) when choosing your partner in life. parang yung sa sex and the city na episode with carrie & bon jovi, for some reason they kept choosing the wrong person. minsan kasi love is blind so we have to think when choosing 'the one'

[iwannabeasupermodel]

my mom strongly believed this and pretty much sentenced kaming mga babaeng anak niya na kakarmahin kami sa ginawa ni daddy. i think in her mind nagsimula na ang pity niya sa amin. oh well she's so fatalistic like that.

but i'm a strong believer of carving out my own destiny in this world and that whatever consequences that happen is a result of my own actions and decisions. and this "ordeal" that had happened to my family only thought me how to become a "good wife" to avoid such problems. plus! i believe sa law of attraction and i'll attract that damn good karma one way or the other! haha.

[PinKisH_23]

I totally believe in karma, sana lang kasi ang karma ay babalik dun sa taong gumawa ng kalokohan and di na madadamay ang pamilya. But come to think of it, pamilya kayo eh, kung anong ginawa ng ama, pinapasok nya yun sa loob ng small community ng family nya. My dad is a womanizer, since bata pa ako till now. For a time yan din sinasabi ng mama ko sa akin, pambayad daw ako sa karma na ginagawa ng tatay ko, dati di ako naniniwala kasi nga ang tingin ko sa karma is babalik lang sa taong gumawa ng kasalanan. I was clueless na sa mahabang panahon niloloko na pala ako ng sarili kong asawa. Hindi ko na nga rin alam kung may matinong pang lalaki sa mundo, as far as I know, lahat ng kilala kong lalaking may asawa, may naging kabit or iniwan ang asawa para sa ibang babae. Nakakalungkot lang dahil nadadala ng nadadala sa susunod ng generation.

[imprincessfiona]

I don't believe na pag womanizer ang tatay pambayad utang ang anak. Life is what we make it. Life is a choice. Binigyan tayo ng Diyos ng kalayaan upang mamili kung saan tayo tutungo, maging masaya o maging malungkot.

[snowflakes]

Ugali kase ng mga pinoy na isisi sa magulang ang nangyayare sa mga anak. Iba naman ang anak sa magulang! Desisyon nyo ng asawa mo mag hiwalay tapos tatay mo may kasalanan? Unfair naman yata un. If ever nga na ang anak ang pangbayad utang ng magulang i dont think sa ganyang paraan un. History repeats itself. Mali na isisi natin ang nangyare sa buhay natin sa magulang natin.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

I think it becomes true when you believe (like our mothers) na it's the absolute, bound to happen, set in stone eventual reality.

[Itsmai.Shop]

Maybe its because of the bible verses about punishment of sins (Father's) that are being carried over to the next generation, yung sinabing saling lahi. But in New testament all sins have been forgiven diba so no punishment na, its just that we suffer the consequences of our actions. So dapat lang talaga ipagpray lagi na maputol yung parang curse sa family once nagkaron ng infedelity parang ngkakaron ng curse na dapat ipagpray para maputol. parang ganyan yung explanation ng mga pastors.