Ah I see, you're still at an early stage of your marriage, yet you sound really tired; even to the point of feeling and believing that your husband is bringing out the worst in you. So I was initially wondering if there is a vicious pattern in your relationship, but with your answers, wala naman.
As a husband, mukhang ok naman sya since you mentioned na he is a good provider and father. But of course, imperfect. Ganun lang, imperfect, may weaknesses, but not necessarily making him a BAD person.
But I guess with your reply, opposite yung personalities niyo. Parang you're the assertive type, sya yung medyo laid-back; ikaw yung may stronger personality, sya yung milder; parang ikaw yung mabilis kumilos, sya yung babagal-bagal; ikaw yung may mas forethought, sya yung come-what-may type. Parang lang.
Since nasa early stage pa lang kayo ng relationship, yung weariness mo baka dahil sa hindi ka pa nakakapag-adjust sa total difference nyo. And medyo nakakaloka yung sobrang different kayo, pero hindi mo alam na ganun lang talaga kayo, sobrang different from each other.
I guess, it would be helpful kung pag-aaralan mong mabuti yung personality nya. Know his weaknesses, learn to accept it. Find out his strengths, learn to appreciate it. Sabi mo nga yung applaude him. Kaya lang nung sinabi mong, "mapapahiya naman sya kung pati dun mali mali diba," hindi ka naman perfectionist nyan or nagiging critical?
As for the consideration that you're asking from him, an open communication will do. Yung walang halong hot-temper. Madali ka bang mainis/mairita/mabadtrip? If you are, talagang masusubok yung patience mo sa intimate relationship, lalo na kung opposite ng personality mo yung kasama mo habambuhay, at di mo pa naaccept yung weakness nya.
