safe pero boring or delikado pero fun?

[cosmochick]

Safe but boring is ok because im the dangerous , fun one. Hahaha

Seriously, pagkaintindi ko sa subject is pertaining to relationships hindi sa guy per se.

Anyway,  A lil bit of everything ako... A guy with well rounded personality... Absolutely cant handle goody two-shoes because thats too boring for my risk taker personality baka awayin ko lang sya ng awayin...hehe and at the same time , a rule breaker wont work for me din because Im the type who wants my man to be responsible and secure...iwanan ko sya kung lagi lang sya fun! fun ! fun ! with no sense sa future nya.
 

[candacena]

oo nga na realize ko din na ang delikado pero fun ay short term lang. kaso minsan natutukso ka sa delikado pero fun eh. pano kaya pag ganun. hehe. example you really like the guy pero S*x lang ang habol. I guess you have to have a strong mind and heart para umiwas sa mga ganun. 

if you're young, its ok to have your share of dangerous guys, i suppose. for thrill and experience purposes. but as u mature, u realize those kinds of types dont really go for long term relationships. you still need someone who is safe. i wouldnt say boring. i would say "steady", "constant" and "firm". yan ang magandang foundation if youre looking for something more long term. i guess i just tend to associate "delikado" with "immaturity".

yes your right parang immature nga ang delikado.

[veeanneyums]

SAFE PERO BORING
Well, i don't think there is such thing as boring. When you are with the person that you truly love. Walang boring boring. Kahit wala kayong ginagawa, kahit di kayo nagsasalita, kahit walang kahit anong nangyayari, everything will be special. And that's true love.

[magno4]

pang short term: delikado pero fun

pang long term: safe pero boring

  i second the motion and vote for this!

[Jamann]

SAFE PERO BORING
Well, i don't think there is such thing as boring. When you are with the person that you truly love. Walang boring boring. Kahit wala kayong ginagawa, kahit di kayo nagsasalita, kahit walang kahit anong nangyayari, everything will be special. And that's true love.

Agree sis, yun tipong kahit di kayo nagsasalita ang sarap sarap sa pakiramdam kase kasama mo yung taong mahal mo 

[Skuld]

I'm so lucky I am with a man  who is safe and fun We compliment each other well and makes it a point to enjoy things together. Might seem boring to other people, not to me.

[ajang]

im on this situation right now. yung partner ko, he will do everything for me which is nakikita ko naman and appreciated ko but there's a factor na boring. then i met this guy, di sya babaero at di rin mabisyo yun nga lang taken na.

base sa mataimtim kong pagiisip, if i want a short term or flirting ill go with the delikado but fun then kapag long term and lifetime commitment i'll go with the safe pero boring

[Lurker_Man]

im on this situation right now. yung partner ko, he will do everything for me which is nakikita ko naman and appreciated ko but there's a factor na boring. then i met this guy, di sya babaero at di rin mabisyo yun nga lang taken na.

base sa mataimtim kong pagiisip, if i want a short term or flirting ill go with the delikado but fun then kapag long term and lifetime commitment i'll go with the safe pero boring

iba talaga ang powers mo hahaha

[ajang]

^ super saiyan powers 

pero totoo naman. karamihan sa girls they want yung stability and security eh. i mean kung ako mamimili between them ill choose yung guy na boring pero safe, kasi he'll be there for me all the time. unlike yung guy na delikado pero fun, hell just be there for a moment at walang kasiguraduhan ang relatiosnhip nyo.

[la_pinay]

i believe every girl has to go through the delikado pero fun before she settles down with the safe pero boring

[xyrez1]

Fun nga pero delikado? Naku, delikado yan..  Sa safe na lang siguro ako kahit boring. Besides, hindi naman ako boring na tao eh. So mako-compensate din kahit papano..

[kukii]

Safe and boring like what we are now. Yung may mga times na kayo lang magkasama at biglang tatahimik, not a deafening silence but the kind of silence that you know you are in love with each other, the kind that you only share with that one person and no one else.

[TysLolakins]

i went for 'fun'  and for 38 years together and counting, have no regrets whatsoever.  i had my share of the 'boring' kind, the kind that will kiss the ground i walk on and will do all my bidding, pero wala talagang attraction, sabi ko mag mo mongha na lang ako.
growing up, i've never dreamt of finding somebody to take care of me because i see myself as a career woman, that i can take care of myself, not the proverbial barefoot and pregnant.  all i know is i'd like to fall head over heels sa kanya and him to me.   gusto ko ng excitement sa relationship, that i'm always excited to see him, ganon.  and that's what i found in my husband.  he's not rich but he more than makes up for other things.  he challenges me,  he keeps me grounded,  he's very maloko.
he's not a daredevil nor a risk taker where there's a possibility of losing life or limb. basically he's a guy's guy,  very outgoing and likable, he drinks but he's not lasenggero in the sense na drinking all the time like everyday , pag may company lang sa weekend or invited to somebody's house.  for him drinking is how guys bond and share a good time.
and no history of being palikero or babaero,  that's one thing i can truly brag about him.


in short,  we cannot generalize that 'safe but boring' is better than 'risky but fun'.  it depends on the couple and what they want to get from the relationship.  maybe i'm just lucky too that my 'maloko' guy is still a gem, albeit rough around the edges.   

[17glut]

sex without condoms.... 'nuff said 

[aquacharly]

Can you dictate on your heart?

[TysLolakins]

my opinion, I don't think you can, di ba nga when we wish for somebody like on their bday, we say something like I wish youd get everything your heart desires. so the heart dictates but the brain tries to oppose if it's not the LOGICAL choice, LOL
who wins at the end?  it depends on how much external force was put into the equation, like parental pressure.  regardless, the heart continues to pine for that one it truly desires.  but overtime, it also diminishes.
geez, I must have used every cliche in the book...

[mysterioza_me]

Anything na delikado sounds scary for me so dun na lang ako sa safe kahit boring. Boring din naman ako so magkakasundo kami.

[lenzyfrancisco]

I'd rather choose safe but boring than to delikado but fun. Okay ng safe atleast walang mangyayaring masama. Sino ba naman pipili ng delikado pero masaya. masaya nga pero di ka naman sigurado sa safety mo

[heymickey]

Okay na 'yung safe pero boring. Sa partner ko naman, it is always fun and safe. So no worries ako

[graezieylicious]

I like nerdy, shy and good guys. hahahaha i think they are my opposite. i dont like yung mga paimpress guys. gusto ko mga down to earth, humble, family and God oriented.