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medyo magulo, pero I had or still have a boyfriend...

2009 na naging kami, pero may mabigat kami pinagdaanan kaya umalis sya sa office namin, after ilan years nagkita kami, walang formal break up, so pinag patuloy pa din namin, nagloko pa din sya then sabi nya aayusin nya, hindi na daw sya mambabae ,hindi na naman kami nagkita, wala na naman formal break up lagi na lang ganun, tapos nalaman ko na may ibang babae na naman sya.

Girlfriend nya daw, kaso wala kaming formal break up, nun isang araw nagtext pa ulit sya sa akin, nag paparamdam na gusto makipag kita. Hindi ko na alam talaga.

Nahihirapan ako, tapos nalaman ko officemate nya un girl at un close friend ko nya un "gf" at "boyfriend" ko.

Minsan nakaka bwisit na mga lalake, nahihirapan ako kasi kahit ganun sya, sobrang mahal ko pa din sya.

Wala naman ako dine date kasi subsob ako sa work.  :'( :'( :'(
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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #1 on: November 10, 2014, 12:15:31 pm »

^ sis, alam mo na ang sagot... makipag mingle/date ka sa mga singles - lalaki at babae. enjoy your life, pero first things first, just accept that you are single and free.  I am sure mas liberating iyan. Then alam mo na - na ang dapat mong hanapin ay yung magaling makipagcommunicate kung kayo ba o hindi na, at sa hindi babaero.  sana natuto ka na from this relationship.

Hindi mo lang ma get over ang BF mo kasi wala na naman kayo pero parang ni-r-rason mo lang e wala naman kayong formal breakup up kaya technically speaking kayo parin. It does not work that way. The affirmation kung kayo pa talaga should come from both sides, hindi sayo lang. So kung may iba syang GF kamo, yung GF na yun ang totoong GF. At ikaw, hindi ka GF, hindi kayo. period.

So move on. yun lang naman ang sagot dyan.


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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #2 on: November 10, 2014, 04:15:54 pm »
Ano ba naman yang boyfriend mo sis, bakit nagtitiyaga ka diyan? Moving on starts with you making a decision to actually do it. So, go go. Make time for going out and meeting new people.

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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #3 on: November 10, 2014, 07:05:18 pm »
Sobrang campante sya sa pagmamahal mo, ginawa ka nya na his Forever Spare GF.
Sis, you so undeserve this kind of treatment, this philanderer.
Good you are not yet married to him.

Cut & cut clean. No need for closure nor statements of goodbye.
Ikaw ba eh isipin mo makipag closure sa magnanakaw or scammer?  He is worse, stealing your time and affections.
Move on, move on, move on.   

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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #4 on: November 10, 2014, 08:01:28 pm »
baka you are not helping yourself? kapag dumating ka na sa point na naisip mo, "teka nakakahiya na ata itong ginagawa ko ha..." yan, mahimasmasan ka na at mapapalitan ng galit yung akala mong 'love' mo para sa kanya.

“We accept the love we think we deserve.” ― Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #5 on: November 11, 2014, 04:14:13 pm »
Bkelangan pa ba talaga ng "formal" breakup? Hindi ba enough na may iba na syang karelasyon?

lam mo kung bakit sya nawawala tas balik ng balik? Kase tinatanggap mo paulit ulit eh. Nageexpect ka ng bago eh oare parehas naa ang ginagawa mo. Subsob ka na nga sa trabaho tas nagpapastress ka pa sa kanya? Swerte nya ah.
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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #6 on: November 11, 2014, 07:26:40 pm »
baka you just love the idea of him, but you don't really love him.

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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #7 on: November 13, 2014, 02:25:04 pm »
Sa tingin ko po dapat may closure para makamove on ka na and find other things to do with your friends so that makalimutan mo siya kasi ikaw lang nahihirapan while siya nageenjoy. He's just taking you for granted you should be happy kahit na mahal mo pa siya it should be mutual. Parang lumalabas na tinatawag ka lang niya pag may kailangan siya sayo and mali lang talaga yun kahit gano mo pa siya kamahal it should be returned to you as well :)
« Last Edit: November 13, 2014, 04:07:23 pm by mama squeak! »
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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #8 on: November 21, 2014, 07:00:27 am »
Sis obvious naman na di ka na nyan mahal at ginagawa ka lang meantime girl, kung baga ikaw yung temporary gf niya habang wala pa uli siyang nakikitang bago.

Ang masasabi ko lang, cut him off your life for good. Pag bumalik ipamukha mong wala na siyang babalikan. Tama ba namang balik balikan ka lang kung kelan niya gusto?

No need na for formal break up, ilang beses ka na niloko eh, atsaka wag ka na rin maghintay pa ng closure from him, do it yourself, by that i mean magdecide ka ng wag na siyang balikan at magmove on na. Di mo na rin kelangan pang malaman ang reasons niya dahil it won't change anything, kahit pa malaman mo eh di na rin naman kayo.

And what the other sissies/bros said na kaya ka rin nalagay sa sitwasyon na yan kasi you allowed him na magpabalik balik sa buhay mo. Umalis siya ng walang paalam tapos winelcome back mo tapos umalis uli ng walang pasabi dapat soplahin mo na yan next time este wag mo na hayaan na magkanext time.



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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #9 on: November 21, 2014, 09:25:49 am »
The mere fact that he makes you his spare reflects a lot on how he feels about you. it's about time to move on and find another guy who will treat you right and make a right woman of you.

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Re: Help! I still can't get over with HIM! I need your opinion guys and girls.
« Reply #10 on: November 21, 2014, 10:56:18 am »
Wake up carmilina, you have more than enough reasons para iwanan siya.. Wala kang mapapala sa kanya he's like a virus na hindi mo na mapapagaling ikaw na dapat ang magkusang lumayo - no communications na dapat, unfriend mo na rin sa facebook para di ka updated sa mga ginagawa nya.. Find a better man, a real man hindi itong salot sa lipunan na ito..
Attraversiamo..

 


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