Anyone Into Feng Shui (Thread 18)

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[Zea88]

Thanks quenna for creating another page, new house na ulit tayo. .

Sir Ch, di maganda timpla ko kahapon tapos ang lungkot ko kaya di na ako nakadalaw sa puntod ng lola ko, iyak lang ako ng iyak intense yung feeling naramdaman ko mga 3 hours after ko mag exercise and meditate. Habang umiiyak ako nag pe pray ako and ask angel for assistance, after ko maiyak nakita ko sa youtube yung link (because naka subscribe ako sa channel na yun) to confirm bakit ko na feel yung mga yun, reasonable naman pala and di lang ako ang nakaka feel ng ganun moment. So guided pa rin ako somehow na its okey.. Ngayon po ako pupunta sa puntod ng mga lola ko before going to church..

[rhed]

Thanks CH! pamahiin kasi kaya medyo concern din ako. I placed our bible at the bedside and placed a rosary at the doorknob of the master bedroom.

Thanks CH!

[princess jaz]

Hello Sir CH,

Medyo matagal na po yung last po ko. Medyo busy. Natuloy po pala ako sa Thailand, short visit lang. Wala po ako masyado na-observe na basic feng shiu sa bahay, pero may napansin po ako na common sa mga commercial area. Sa front po, left part, meron pong parang maliit na temple, di ko lang po alam tawag dun. Minsan po meron elephant sa four corners.

Nanaginip daw ulet son ko, sumakay daw po ako red jeep. Ano po kaya ibig sabihin nun?

Thank you po.

[elarose]

Hi Sir!

Hope all is well with you and your family.

I am not sure kung tama po ba na i-consult ko ito sa inyo. But then I'll try na rin baka may maibigay kayo na thoughts.

Medyo nahihirapan po kasi kami ng husband ko mag decide. My husband is a Civil Engineer, he was promoted last August, so happy naman kami dun (though until now, wala pa adjustment nya..hehe). However, few weeks ago, sinabihan po sya ng boss nya na he will be assigned sa Visayas. For how long? We do not know, it could be months, or even years. Nabigla at nalungkot kami sa balita na yun. First, every weekend lang kami magkikita. Second, I am about to give birth this  December on our first baby. On my part, malungkot din ako at parang ayoko siya payagan, I feel na I need him para pareho namin maalagaan si baby.

Ginawa po niya, kinabukasan, nag text po sya sa High School friend nya kung may opening dun sa company nila. Sabi meron daw, in short, nag apply siya dun at natanggap siya.

At first, we decided na hindi tanggapin yung offer ng company na yun dahil a lot lower ang offer na salary from his current rate. Then after a week, tinaasan na yung offer sa kanya. They are giving his asking salary na.

During that time, I am asking for guidance kay God para sa decision namin. Sabi ko, Lord, please decide for us. Kung ano po yung maging decision namin, sana yun po yung gusto nyo for us.

Last Thursday, sabi ni husband sakin, he is decided to stay in his current employer. Pinagdasal ko po ulit yun na sana tama yung decision nya and yun din yung gusto ni God para sa amin.

Then last Saturday, nag text po ulit sa husband ko yung HR staff, tinaasan pa ulit yung offer nila. Kaya ayun, nalilito ulit kami. Ako naman po, iniisip ko, is it God's way of telling us na lumipat na si husband ng company?

Any thoughts po sir?

[CityHunter]

Hi, Zea88.

Crying is a good form of emotional release.  Maganda para sa health natin ito as it helps to keep our humanity intact.  More so you are doing it due to heartfelt feelings.  Na you miss your grandma.  Hindi rin naman bad ka na automatically because you were not able to visit the dead.  Paano na lang yun mga tulad sa nawawala pa rin na Malaysian Airlines 777?  Yun sa KAL Flight 007 rin noon?  Or even yun sa Titanic?  At least ikaw alam mo where your lola rests. 

And yes, when we ask from our heart for God's assistance a tutulungan naman tayo.  Often nga lang in mysterious ways.

At kapag naka-visit ka muli sa lola mo isipin mo na rin yun mga hindi nadadalaw.  That's why we usually say a prayer rin for those others as well as kung may mga sobrang incense sticks kami naglalagay rin ako sa iba.  May time pa nga doon sa neighbor ng father ko sa resting place niya sa labas lang nakakaiwan ng flowers yun pumupunta.  Am not able to regularly visit my father anymore though but last I went ay wala yun flowers na naiiwan sa labas ng neighbor.  Hopefully nagkaroon ng ayos na sa kanila and not something bad.


Hi, rhed.

I'm sure you and others read that article na nagsasabi feng shui can lead one to possession or such.  Kasi naman iyang mga New Age quacks don't help in correcting things.  So to put the record straight let me correct at least a few that I could sa mga pamahiin here lalo na sa mga usaping related or affecting religion.

Rosary.  Maling mali that this is being used as a talisman.  Actually yun ginawa mo na isabit siya sa doorknob as such is frowned on.  It is used to guide and channel us in prayer.  This is why we have the likes of the St. Benedict medallion, etc.  If you go for angels then at least yun kay St. Michael pero the good ones are expensive and the cheap ones are useless.  This is why I tend to advise that folks instead read from the holy book.  Hindi dapat props lang rin!

Isipin mo rin na mali yun approach mo.  Kapag nakapasok na sa bahay mo yun bad to the point its at your master's bedroom na yun defense mo - the rosary - then things are already grim.  This is why I tell folks to check the front and back door as well as status ng areas around. 

Sa bedroom mas ideal na simple lang pero syempre that is hard to do in our modern times.  Kapag poor ka lahat ng stuff mo in one place pero kung may kaya ka naman stuff still gets placed in our rooms lalo na mga pack rats.  So balance things as best as one could na lang.

Also, sa bedroom things like Salt Solution Levels 1 to 2 should suffice or the rice pouch ang isabit sa may doorknob - and not the rosary.


Hi, princess jaz.

A thousand thanks for sharing those. The elephants would be like how some use gargoyles.  Yun small temple sa harap would be like how it is sa mga ilang places here like yun sa mga mausoleums.  Its like a guard house kasi.  A place where a guardian resides as it watches over the place.

Too little information but red speaks of very base wants and a jeep is on family.  Pwede rin journey o continued changes in life.  With such little details the best we can interpret this is simply expecting happy days ahead.


Hi, elarose.

I am not so familiar with work contracts nowadays but indeed its not a good development iyang malayo sa iyo and baby mo ang husband mo.  Though ang theme nga kasi this year is about compromises so we can't really say nga this is a bad change talaga.

There is a major wrong sa signs you are asking.  When I ask for such ay hinihingi ko to show me the two paths or clues at least for either.  Then and only then mag-decide ako once I have all the facts.

Okay, what I can share to you at present is to weigh things very carefully.  Anong strings attached as to why they were able to increase yun offer.  Then ano rin ang conditions.  A lot of people kasi simply focus sa salary.  Paano yun perks and such?  Maaring of lower salary but would compensate it sa health care, etc.  And remember rin its not healthy for one's record to always be changing companies.  Na ang reason mo lang ay dahil sa salary.  Any HR people will see that as a very lousy reason.

I opine its deeper than this.  For now ay rephrase your request to Him.  Kasi kahit ako nalilito sa request mo.  Remember compromise is the theme nga.  Do not see everything as a pot of gold this Horse period dahil ikaw lang ang madadale. 

If all you and your husband are focused on ay yun salary that will just end badly sa inyo soon.

[Zea88]

Thank you Sir CH, kahapon po kami nagpunta 3 cemetery then lahat ng kamag anak and friends dinalaw ko and prayed, nakalimutan ko extra candles heheh but still I prayed naman sa mga souls who needed prayer. Before I went meditated first and asked for protection and everything seems well. I did some of your measures including yung di ipasok sa bahay yung shoes and nag handwash din ako using salt..

[elarose]

Hi Sir,

Thank you for your inputs. Siguro to further elaborate our story, hindi naman po yung salary ang reason kung bakit siya lilipat ng company. But of course, it is one major consideration, especially nga po at magkaka baby na kami. Main reason ay dahil nga po he will be assigned in Visayas. To give you some clues naman, he is currently working in a Construction Company owned by Businessman/Politician from Las Pinas. He's been there for 8 or 9 years. Si husband po ay halfhearted din dahil medyo may fear siya na magsisimula na naman ulit siya. On my end naman, gusto ko na rin na umalis siya dun dahil sa politics. Nata-tap din kasi sila tuwing election period and other events or activities. Minsan feeling ko, mas demanding pa sa time niya yung employer niya kesa sa akin..hehe.

Yung lilipatan naman po niya if ever is an Ayala owned company based in Laguna. I am working in Laguna kaya okay lang, at least pwede kami magsabay pumasok every day. Gaya po ng sinabi ko yesterday, mababa po yung unang offer sa kanya. As in 11k lower than his current rate. Siyempre, we are also computing the gas and toll fee expenses pag tinanggap nya yung work. He turned down the first offer. After a few days, nag text po sa kanya yung HR asking him kung ano yung asking rate nya. He replied and binigay naman po yung asking niya pero once na ma-regular na siya. He consulted me again and tinanong nya ako kung gusto ko ba daw na tanggapin na nya, sabi ko yes. Pero I will respect his decision naman kung mas gusto nya mag stay sa current employer niya. Then nag text po siya sa HR na he will accept the offer na. Nag schedule na po sila ng meeting para sa signing of job offer. But then, last Thursday, after po ng kanilang Halloween Party, sinabi niya sakin na parang hindi nya kaya umalis. Sobrang bait daw kasi ng boss niya na parang hindi niya maatim na magsabi na magreresign na siya. Sabi ko sige okay lang, kung yun ang nasa puso mo. So I prayed after that, sabi ko 'Lord, kung yun po ang ang decision ninyo for us, I will accept."

Si husband, he informed the HR office of the other company na hindi na po siya pupunta dahil he decided to stay in his current company na. Nag reply naman po ang HR na 'Okay, well noted.' Then yun nga po last Saturday, Nov 1, while we were in the cemetery, nag text ulit sa kanya ang HR Office na may bagong offer sa kanya. Kaya napapa-isip na naman sya, kasi siguro he is also considering yung side ko na gusto ko na siya umalis dun sa current company niya. I just told my husband to ask the HR Office kung ano pa yung ibang benefits, not necessarily monetary (health card, leaves, etc.) para mas ma-weigh namin. Sa ngayon, hindi pa nagrereply ang HR office.

Kaya yun nga po sir, iniisip ko, mukhang nagustuhan talaga siya nung company na pinag applyan niya. And napapa-isip ako kung yun ba ay way ni God telling us na lumipat na rin siya?

[CityHunter]

Hi, Zea88.

The candles are actually there to help us focus as well as purify the place.  The Fire element does a lot of things though syempre depende on how it is harnessed.  I do hope you remembered to use a match and not a lighter.


Hi muli, elarose.

Elaborate ko lang as not sure if I explained it right.  Do not focus on just one aspect nor simply ask to be guided to what seems to be the best answer to that question.  That would be like missing the big picture.

When you request assistance from Him lalo na in decisions ay balikan mo yun stories about King Solomon and how his wisdom.  Do you remember na hindi isang answer ang ipinapakita niya but a situation where the options are - the same way I do often here. 

Ask that you be presented what the outcomes can be of each and from that ay kayo ang mag-decide.  Its the curse of our free will.  Kaya nga tayo higher animal life form, etc.  This is where a lot tend to make a mistake and when the situation is not favorable magtatanong bakit they were forsaken, etc. 

Each has their pros and cons.  Gamitin ko na sarili ko as example.  Sabi ko naman I could be quite rich if I chose the dark path.  Hindi lang marketing New Age junk but equally why not advise people who have dark hearts.  As in use feng shui to keep them in power, have them the best advantage to manipulate others or be a partner to such.  Or pwede rin simply dig into my dark arts knowledge. 

However, I chose a different path.  It may not merit me any great material wealth but at least we sleep in peace. 

Now, apply that to your situation.  Pag-aralan ninyo mabuti ano ang nilalaman ng complete package ng offers.  Huwag masilaw simply sa pera lang.  I've been with those who receive large sums as salary but barely get to even enjoy that.  As in ginawang bahay na ang opisina o kotse nila na sa parking lot o cubicle na lang ang matatawag nilang mundo nila.

UPDATE!  You posted a reply na kasi before I could click the post button on this.

Sigh.  Politicians kasi here sa atin don't morph into statesmen.  A lot think rin na all-powerful sila but believe me ay mga puppets lang iyan.

Sa atin rin kasi hindi matino ang work environment o structure.  As in you apply for a position but often they expect you to be very multi-capable.  Madalas pa lacking rin sa training once they promote you or transfer you.  Well, at least some still spend for that but not a lot nga lang na.

For me kasi kung hindi ka na happy sa work environment mo umalis ka na.  More so if your gut is telling you to quit.  There is no charm or talisman in the world that can help one in such a situation!

Okay, there is something that your husband missed doing at this stage.  Ideally one if able checks out the place na prospect to go to.  If one cannot do that ay research.  Yun madalas ginagawa ko before I sked an audit - now you know why I don't accept immediate meetings not unless its an SOS. 

Noted na its not just the monetary factor or other perks but need ninyo rin makita mismo yun work environment.  Or at least feedbacks from those who are working there.  Maraming hellish ang place not unless sipsip ka.  That applies may it be sa private o government here.  More so kung mga foreign nationals kasama mo o mga of a different generation.  Isa pa rin iyong system nila.  Are they so dependent on new o old techniques. 

Here is where some get a leave muna so they can properly weigh things.  Iyon ang i-ask ninyo kay God.  Be shared what the options carry. 

And in all my time until present never ako nasagot directly.  It was always as a choice.  Kaya kung i-interpret ko ito ay indeed one factor ay badly needed malamang nila si husband mo to offer that.  But that is just one part pa lang.  Has your husband even brought up sa boss niya yun issue as to why he has to be at Visayas?  One must cover all bases ika nga before making a life-changing decision. 

Very critical kasi ang tanong na ito.  Your husband feels he owes loyalty but does his company and boss feel the same towards him?   For just as with respect ay loyalty is a two-way street.  Apply mo iyan sa asawa mo.  Ikaw loyal ka sa kanya but paano kung siya minsan lang loyal sa iyo.  Hindi ba masakit iyon.  Ganun rin dapat here sa work.  Believe me ang dami ko na nakita na one-sided ang loyalty na ito may it be sa personal o professional relationship.

[kikai]

hi sis elarose

i was in the same boat 2 yrs ago when i had a new job offer.. medyo hesistant ako since im familiar with the current workplace at 8 yrs na din ako dun.at mabait din boss ko. it took me 3 months from the time i have gotten the offer paper to decide.. natakot ako about new office and people and i prayed for it.. benefits wise malayo sa dati ko work.. but salary wise bingay nila lahat ng mawawala sa akin sa dati ko work..the position was new.. so no comparisons.. so far so good naman.. madami ako natutunan.. at increase wise average ng 5% ok din compared sa 8 yrs kong work na walang liwanag na ma promote ako kahit madami na ko ginawang projects to prove my ability..tuwing rating season average lang rate ko kasi daw me gusto sila unahin...

best advice get a copy of the offer sheet... aside sa basic salary learn the benefits like sir ch mentioned.. sa offer sheet andun lahat ng benefits na present sa company once you get regularized.. also, the job description...then he can sign if ok and only then he render his resignation after.. magsiguro.. minsan na ako nagkamali dilly dally sa isang job offer in the end nung gusto ko na accept wala na..

also, quiet sa colleagues sa present work about job offer it can put him in a bad light- inggitan.. ako, i talked to my immediate boss and explained why im leaving.. only then i discreetly informed my team mates..kasi mag background check at ayoko naman pangit na assessment ibigay ng iiwan kong boss kapag tumawag yung new office..

goodluck sis to your hubby..

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sir ch,

we are in the midst of preparing for my lola's death anniversary.. surprisingly, me mga tao kung sino pa nakasama nung namatay ang wala paki.. one even had the gall to tell me hindi naman daw special occasion yun so why am in putting such efforts!! at parang napilitan pa sya mag file ng leave!! sabi ko nga di na needed kung mabigat sa loob nya.. wala naman pumipilit..

also, i told my mom to place live plants dun sa planter box with mirrors i mentioned na nilabas as front main door.. ililipat namin ng lugar ng mom ko.. any suggestion?

also, that same person ilang times nakaamoy ng candles paglabas ng room nila..at sila lang din nakakita ng mga shadows.. the rest wala naman.. could it be my lola is letting them know hindi sya ok sa mga ginagawa nila?

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis.

Let me share lang rin my experience with regards to life-changing decisions.  Back then I told my father (RIP) na I will not work for his company not unless he quits.  Okay lang for me na hindi top position.  What I wanted him kasi is to savor naman yun fruits ng pawis niya.  Pero ayaw niya as sadly its just him who can handle things well.  It broke his heart when we had to close shop dahil sa Asian Crisis back then.  Hindi pa naman kami lugi but just making even.  With how corrupt then and now officials are plus the rising costs ay hindi namin mabibigyan ng magandang future mga workers.  Its better they seek sa iba where they can have good chances pa. 

When I asked for signs back then it was quite clear kasi.  I did not go sa local companies dahil things were really ewan.  If wala kang kakilala forget it.  Sabi ko why not go sa government service.  Masubukan naman at malaman why government workers are so.  At least napatunayan ko sa sarili ko na indeed palakasan system talaga no matter what admin is in power.  Despite my qualifications ay wala.  Hindi ko naman trip gumamit ng connections even if one is in power sa Malacanang - regardless of what admin too.

Hindi na rin ako happy kasi and I feel that my loyalty is not being returned.  Isipin mo nangako ng night differential pero nasulat lang pala sa tubig.  Performance based on quality daw pero quantity pala in truth more so mga kasama mo sa work dahil takot masipa ay they do despicable things to meet the quota.  Ang masama pa niya sa mga tulad ng Christmas parties may mga sabit pa pero contribution nila barya lang.  I never did enjoy any of those Christmas parties at all. 

Moving sa small business ng friend ko happy naman but after a while dahil sa mga bad decisions and hindi niya maihiwalay ang personal sa professional ay losses piled up.  Hindi rin kasi able to adapt yun kausap namin sa situation so in the end sinara na lang.  It was a good few years naman. 

Thus I was left in a situation then.  I wanted to go start my own business pero mabuti naman kaunti pa lang yun nailabas ko na capital as another Asian Crisis happened.  Maraming nawalan ng trabaho, etc.  And that was the time rin I was seeking direction and began this kind of work.  And hindi nga lang biro na work as first case ko was of the supernatural sort.  Was I happy on this?  Well, it was my penance first and foremost and a lot were pro bono pero for some reason nakakaraos kami kahit papaano.  Marami rin ako natutunan and I guess that's why I'm stuck in an area where neighbor namin is a certified haunted house. 

Like your husband I was also seeking changes na rin.  Syempre naman its quite boring to be fighting evil of the supernatural sort on a daily basis.  More so hindi mo naman pwede lagyan ng price iyon!  What I simply asked sa umpisa ay should I quit or not.  Nasagot naman na yun kasi everytime I wanted to really quit I get a suicide wannabe.  So I asked bigyan naman ako ng mga well-paying customers at huwag yun barat o palaging pro bono.  Natupad naman somehow but bitin kasi pa rin kasi we get sick, etc.  Syempre this kind of work is hands-on kaya if I'm down ay no income.  Its not as if I can task my wife to do my job dahil hindi biro ito for one mistake lang ay generations can suffer.  Not to mention pa na maswerte ka na kung death lang ang price for failure.

So what I do nowadays ay meditate and be shown clues as to what each path can bring.  Then and only then do I make a decision.  I can do a check rin naman using math and science.  Like yun sinabi ko recently na malaki chances ko in winning big money without doing hard work BUT at a price of my marriage.  Well, to hell with 90 million if that is going to be the kapalit.  Hintay na lang some other opportunity na walang ganun karmic attachments.

Going then sa dilemma ni sis elarose ay bitin yun information.  Why does the present company assigning the husband to the Visayas area.  And what future will that bring for him if he stays.  Will he be allowed to be part owner of the company?  Will he be rewarded in some other fashion para naman sacrifice he made?  Give and take dapat more so kung ilang years na loyal na.  If the company simply sees him not as a person but something less ay then the loyalty is wrongly placed. 

And yes, I too experienced handling 300 plus personnel under me then so I know yun seriousness of being a leader from being a boss.


Hi, kikai.

Very nice yun points you shared.  Iba na yun written yun promises than simply in words.  Naku, nadale ako sa ganyan kasi believed in giving one the benefit of that even if my gut instincts were ringing alarm bells na. 

Maganda rin iyan na keep quiet and simply talk sa boss on the reasons.  True na most still do background checks.


Going sa lola mo and those who have no paki sa namatay ay naku marami talagang ganyan.  In a way ay let karma pay them a visit sa future for their actions. 

OT: Yun nga lang huwag naman ninyo rin gawin, mga sis, na pumunta sa patay para laitin iyon.  Na matuwa na patay na siya.  Well, ako aaminin ko may isa ako na bwisit na bwisit on pero ang sabi ko magpapa-lechon ako pag namatay siya pero wala naman na laitin ko pa siya sa burol niya or such.

The plants sa plant box should help.  You are using warm lights sa labas ha. 

Ha ha.  Hindi true iyon na dahil its only them who can sense them ay may sins sila, etc.  It simply is mas attuned sila.  Dahil bakit it has to be me to talk to the spirit of the dead so I can bring peace sa kanya at sa family ng ninong ko.  I don't even know much Ilocano - our lola never bothered teaching us that then kasi secret language daw nila.


Hi muli, mga sis.

When you make your prayer requests remember to avoid going Taglish and be specific.  Don't be so vague o general lang.  One example was a friend's mom prayed na mabait yun mapapangasawa ng anak niya kasi BF nun nambubugbog.  Mabait nga but yun lang.  And as I've shared just a few posts back ask not for a sign but be shown the bigger picture with each option. 

What about then yun mga signs for a specific request?  To me kasi bibigyan ka ng clues but some tend to focus lang on the first parts.  Like paano kung kinagat ko agad na pwede pala ako manalo ng 90M.  This is the 2nd time but after many many years it can happen again.  Pero I also saw that marriage ko naman ang price.  We are not rich nor are we living in a bed of roses pero I don't feel that 90M or any such amount is enough.

[Zea88]

I use match naman po Sir Ch heheh thanks po

[baliwsayo]

Sorry sir CH, can't make my asst post here kasi this is my outlet. I can't let her know I am posting sa forum during office hours (pasaway na boss ako haha)!

Let me share din my experience nang ma-pirate ako. They offered me 3x my salary plus so many perks so gorabels na ako. Of course they gave me a job offer first then nagpa-medical muna ako (made sure I passed the medical), before I tendered my resignation. Mahirap na kasi baka sablay tapos nagresign na ako. Fast forward. Of course, there's a reason why they offered me a big salary. Wagas kasi ang problema na kinaharap ko which of course they did not disclosed during my interview. But andito na lang din lang plus I love challenges din naman (well, sa old company ko, I was already bored of my wits feeling ko bobobels na ako kasi nothing challenges me anymore so I wished na sana naman makakita ako ng challenging na trabaho.. so heto na nga.. be careful what you wish for talaga eh haha). Anyway, grabe din ang politika dito. So ayun.. sobrang challenging na trabaho plus office politics.. sometimes I am wondering if I made the right choice. But come to think of it, nasa atin naman talaga yun nakadepende kung magiging masaya tayo o hindi di ba? And so right now, I am battling all the challenges pero so far so good naman except yun nga may bad vibes na co-officer ako na career nya na yata na pahirapin ang buhay ko. I see him as a project na lang.. na eventually it will end din. I just do my job excellently para kahit na magtatumbling sila, at the end of the day, alam nila na I'm the best man (este woman) for the job pa din.

Sharing lang po.

[elarose]

Hi again Sir, thank you po ulit. Sabihin ko po lahat ng payo nyo kay husband. As for the why my husband's present company assigning him sa Visayas, ang nasabi lang po sa kanya last August ay ipo-promote sya as Asst Manager pero kailangan mag-site sya. Office based na lang po kasi siya for the past 2 years. Before madalas din po sya sa site, the last site he was assigned to ay sa Bicol. Nag agree naman po siya nung sinabi yun sa kanya, though hindi nya alam na sa Visayas pala. Ang medyo off pa ay in-announce ng boss nya sa staff meeting nila na maassign sya sa Visayas, which is also the very first time na nalaman nya yun. Nagulat ang lahat including him. Hindi man lang sinabi muna sa kanya bago i-announce. After that announcement, hindi na po nila napag usapan ng boss niya tungkol dun. Though 2 weeks ago, nagsabi po sya sa boss nya na sana daw magawan ng paraan na huwag na muna siya ma-assign sa malayo dahil nga magkaka baby na kami at wala naman kami kasama sa bahay. Until now, wala pa po update sa kanya ang boss nya sa request nya.

[princess jaz]

Hello again Sir CH at sa mga sis natin.
Thanks for sharing your experiences and raising questions.

A thousand thanks for sharing those. The elephants would be like how some use gargoyles.  Yun small temple sa harap would be like how it is sa mga ilang places here like yun sa mga mausoleums.  Its like a guard house kasi.  A place where a guardian resides as it watches over the place.

Wala pong anuman Sir CH. Ganun po pala yun, nagsilbi silang guard.  Nakalimutan ko po add, dun po sa maliit na temple, meron pong sinisindihan na incences, tas may offering po na food.  Yung iba po, may sampaguita plant sa baba.

Too little information but red speaks of very base wants and a jeep is on family.  Pwede rin journey o continued changes in life.  With such little details the best we can interpret this is simply expecting happy days ahead.

Wala na po nabanggit na details yung anak ko.  Last time po, I also shared his dream here, yung possible pong meaning na nasabi mo Sir CH, yun po ang naranasan namin.

Nakakatuwa po magbasa ng mga recent post.  I can relate in some topics. 

For the past weeks, after I asked for the possible meaning of my son's dream, we had financial set-backs and until now, we still can't recover.  I've been praying and asking for St. Pio's guidance to show us how to solve our financial problem.  I am not asking to become rich.  I'm praying for just enough for my family and also to be able to support/help others. 

Then, the teacher of my son invited me to school for a short talk.  Academically, for the first quarter my son was doing very good, but she noticed some changes in his attitude.  She's trying to trace the cause.  According to her, one of the reasons, why his routine was changed because of my trip to Tokyo.  Also, she mentioned that we may be spoiling our kid.  I don't want him to grow up spoiled because it equates to rotten.  I am willing to quit my job and focus on him. Nurture him with the proper values. Due to some financial obligations/situation right now, I cannot quit easily.  Again, my prayer is let us have enough for our family, for me to settle all my obligations. Still praying until now. I hope it will better soon.

Before I went to Thailand last week, I applied for a job.  The job description fits what I do in my current job.  At that time, I was thinking, maybe this could solve our financial setbacks or maybe its right time to look for a new job since stressful na para sa akin yung environment ko sa work. Then, they called up for phone interview, then emailed me last October 30 for another interview.  Sadly, I just saw the email now.  I'm not sure if the position is still available and I am not sure if they will accept my suggested time and date of interview.  I'm thinking, if they don't agree, maybe it was not meant for me, maybe it was not the answer to my prayers.

Maybe, the dream of my son reflected how I felt and what I am hoping for - better and happy days ahead. I'm trying to be positive, pero magulo po isip ko.

Thank you.

[CityHunter]

Hi, baliwsayo.

Noted.  Just keep us updated na lang then if the remedies don't work. 

He he.  Office politics hindi talaga mawawala iyan.  Its like oxygen for some people na kapag wala iyon ay mamatay sila


Hi, Zea88.

Noted that you used a match


Hi, elarose.

As our friends here have shared ay indeed weigh everything before making that life-changing decision. One issue with males ay we tend to be short and secretive pa.  Maaring your husband's boss was not able to elaborate clearly what comes with the promotion.  Its why hindi dahil intelligent ka ay automatically you become a good teacher.  Or speaker.  Or even as a leader.  Ibang usapan kapag boss lang na walang alam kung hindi magdikta.

Normal naman for an engineer to do site duty.  Believe me in my work isa iyan sa mga special requests ko to those who seek my professional help in creating their dream home.  Kasi madalas ay kung [textspeak!]-ano na ang ginagawa if walang expert on site.  To those who were professional sa duty nila the result is indeed impressive.  Sana nga lang things were presented clear at hindi as a surprise sa husband mo by his boss.

Uber mali rin na general announcement lang iyon.  Dapat iyan personal level muna at least.  Makes you wonder kung yun loyalty invested by your husband is being valued properly by his boss.  Its more like he's being fed scraps.

You can ask others here who have been mothers lalo na first time mothers na hindi biro ang experience.  Paano pa kung malayo nga si husband mo.  And ang mahirap pa nito he may have to compromise on some things just so he can meet the basics for both professional and personal needs.  Really serious study is advised sa offer ng other company.

But as our GT sisters here shared ay ipa-elaborate rin ano yun strings attached.  And do research rin.  Some tend to promise but fail to deliver. 

If you find it hard pa rin ay seek the assistance of Gabriel - yun archangel. 


Hi, princess jaz.

Yup.  They are like the Fu Dogs or dragons you see sometimes.  Sa iba naman it would be like yun si Kuan Kung.  Sa Catholics it will be like si St. Michael.  The house naman na maliit ay equivalent ng tree or such that we associate more to guardians.  Sa iba its a rock. 

He he.  Now you know why I push often na folks have sampaguita plants.  Hindi lang herbal iyan but a protective tool as well

Okay.  Elaborate mo lang if you would how you asked Padre Pio for assistance.  I do hope you asked first to pray with you to ask for forgiveness and healing.  Isang issue why we sometimes fail to get the message ay may bara yun message channel.  Or like sa internet ay mabagal tapos maraming mga pop ups, etc. 

When asking for signs ay ask what paths are open to you and not just focus on one.  Usually may short and long roads.  Ipapakita rin sa iyo yun possible clues sa end kapag such ang pinili mo.  The reason you need to meditate well is to get the whole message.  Sabi ko nga kung tinapos ko lang once I received na pwede pala ako manalo ng 90M ay then nagsisisi na siguro ako by this time hindi ba.  The first 90M chance ko back then was sabi sa iba ko na ibigay ang chance na iyon.  Oo masakit rin kasi financially ay for sure buhay ka na huwag lang maluho sobra.  Pero it was a special request made to me so dapat naman pagbigyan ko kung ako nga pinagbigyan noon.  And I opine na kahit hindi sinabi why or maybe hindi ko lang na-gets why ay okay lang.  Syempre I sometimes still think of it lalo na kung parating na naman ang bills   And the recent one naman quite clear na.  Did the math of that to be sure.  He he, alam ko rin kasi sa chart ko its not going to be easy for me to win such a prize.  We don't bet often naman plus if we do sabi naman part goes to charity so we opine its okay.

May reasons rin why we miss on some opportunities.  Okay, before yun tragic KAL 007 back then ay a week or so ay kami naman from Japan to Manila yun flight na 007 rin yun flight number.   There was a bombing incident then pero nakita ko na lang mga basag na salamin in one area and may mga pulis.  Could that have been a clue na bad things are to come?  Maybe kaya you missed those calls and messages ay maaring hindi mo pa merited or tama yun timpla for you to take advantage of things.

I guess what I can relate to this ay despite my qualifications and being the only applicant ay hindi ako napasok sa position I was applying for sa government office I was with back then.  Sabi sa akin wala kasi akong backer.  I could've called up someone and have Malacanang call my office to back me up but tama ba iyon.  For me who can't stomach bad people using others for selfish reasons ay bakit ko gagawin iyon.  I was happy to leave that office and work for my friend. 

Another naman na bad experience was my gut was telling me to be very careful with the new contact person I have with a big bank.  Na dapat I made sure more before I agreed to things.  Ako kasi hindi ko ugali to sign contracts, etc.  Na word of honor ang system I use.  Lalo na kung lalake kausap ko - kahit pa of the 3rd sex siya.  That was one very seriously bad experience for me.  Siguro dapat ko rin pagdaanan iyon as it made me better in the end.  Na so tempted ako i-hex ang lousy creature na iyon but for some reason I can't find my books and notes!  And may isa pa on another event na equally as lousy. 

Pero kung para sa iyo for sure makukuha mo rin iyan.  One example ko hindi ba yun homecoming namin for my batch alam ko malapit but not ako mananalo ng grand prize na GT86.  So love ko iyang Hachi Roku more so the prize is the updated version - na Toyota pa.  Knowing that I won't win - one number lang ang iba sa akin sa winning number - ay I was bent on manipulating forces so my number would pop up.  Pero nakita ko yun kumukuha ng number - it was being selected lotto style na may pingpong balls floating - ay naka crutches.  I was "warned" na things won't be happy for me in the end if I choose that road.  And when we went to Padre Pio Chapel with friends who visited it for the first time ay nakasalubong ko pa yun black version of the prize car

OT: The winner of that car was in China tapos nanalo pa siya ng other prizes.  May iba siyang tickets pa so merited siya to win those other prizes and not just one.

So lose heart not as for sure may answer somewhere for your questions.  Update us kapag may new dreams ang son mo na hindi mo ma-figure out.  It can be a warning or clue of things to come. 

[princess jaz]

Thank you very much Sir CH.

Since, nahihirapan po ako humanap ng sampaguita plant, ang ginagawa ko po, naglalagay ako ng bulaklak ng sampaguita sa entrance door (nakasabit sa peephole), sa cr at sa room. Nakakarelax po sa kase yung amoy.  Di ko na rin kailangan maglagay ng air freshener.  OK lang po ba yung ginagawa ko?

Okay.  Elaborate mo lang if you would how you asked Padre Pio for assistance.  I do hope you asked first to pray with you to ask for forgiveness and healing.  Isang issue why we sometimes fail to get the message ay may bara yun message channel.  Or like sa internet ay mabagal tapos maraming mga pop ups, etc. 

When asking for signs ay ask what paths are open to you and not just focus on one.  Usually may short and long roads.  Ipapakita rin sa iyo yun possible clues sa end kapag such ang pinili mo.  The reason you need to meditate well is to get the whole message. 

Thank you po for this. I will try to consistently do it, minsan po, di ko nagagawa na manghing ng assistance for forgiveness and healing. I'll try to be patient po, waiting for what is right for me.

About dream ng son ko, meron na naman sya dream.  Its about eagle naman daw po, picking worms sa grass to feed the baby eagle.

Meron pong red cloth in between ng bed at frame, pero nagsasabi pa rin yung son ko na nagkakaroon sya ng nightmares.  Maybe, it's the position of our bed, it's in nortwest.  My little kid is also becoming a challenge.  He's such a sweet kid before, pero recently he had temper/tantrums to the point na minsan nawawalan ako ng patience and for me to question if I'm raising him well.

Thank you po ulet sa pagsagot and giving points on where to meditate.
God bless you po.

[mamy_maldy]

Hi Sir Ch,

Its me again, kame po yung nag put up ng pharmacy and while waiting for our license to operate, I followed your advise na magalagay muna ng salt solution level 2 sa store namin habang its not yet open.

Kaso ika 2nd week na ngayon since we last visited it.  Last Oct. 25, we cleaned the store and put salt solution dun sa loob ng CR, sa may cashier area at doctor's area. Up to now di ko pa nababalikan, so hindi ko pa po kayo mabigyan ng feedback.

We will go back there this Saturday to conduct interview dun sa potential assistants, sad to say yung mga unang nag pass ng resume, parang di ko type because of job experience. Sana maka attract kame ng maayos na applicants na mag walk in on Saturday.

Then, Sir, tanung ko lang din po about my dream. Ang set up po kasi si office namin, uwian na daw, I was supposed to go out na and use the public elevator when my boss asked me to join him  na lang dun sa private elevator niya, na natatago ng secret door kasama yung isa pang boss.  Pag labas ko po dun sa
secret door niya, na papunta sa private elevator na pang mga bossing lang, yung door pala na yung is leading straight to a mall.

Tapus sabi nya, dun daw siya madalas dumaan. Sabi ko baka minsan dito po ako dadaan, sabi niya sige sabihin mo lang.

Ang weird??? Yes it is. Kasi We are not close. Ano po kaya meaning nito?

[mamy_maldy]

One more thing, his office does have a secret door and does not have a private elevator in real life. Weird....

[mamy_maldy]

Sorry, does not have a secret door and does not have a private elevator, he uses the public elevator as well.