to anyone who has fallen for their "friends with benefits"... read this...

[JakeTheDog]

Youre suffering from oneitis

[killbill]

I feel you. Hugs sis

[akosimaiatot]

Napakadaling pasukin ng ganitong sitwasyon pero napakahirap labasan..hope everything works our fine on your end sis!

[luliluli]

Hindi ba delekado yun mga ganyan?

[bleep]

Last year pa pala to how are you na sis?

I feel you Ive been in this situation before it was really hard to let go hoping and praying one day magigising sya na he feels the same for me pero it never happened so I had no choice but to move on. Do your self a favor and let go. You deserve so much better always remember when one door closes another one opens 

[magno4]

nasa pag uusap naman nyo yan kung panu magiging set up ng relashon nyo as fwb o fubu, basta kapag kayo ang mag kasama wala kayo dapat pag uusapan sa mga nakaraan, sa mga present relationship. ang pag uusapan nyo ay yung present nyo, pero kung prepared din kayo para sa future relationship mas maige. so communication and companionship siguro kaya nga nasa pag uusap nyo din yan. bottom line is, secret relationship padin.

[glacy_rein]

for me its a matter of choice.. either mag-stay ka or aalis ka.. swerte yung mga taong dumaan sa ganito tapos happy ever after pero hindi mawawala yung mga taong sinubukang ilaban pero hanggang dun nalang.

#hugot

Umiyak din ako, nabaliw, nagmakaawa. Now we are both married (i guess he is kasi manganganak na ang asawa nya pero ni minsan hindi sya umaming kasal na sila.) and I am happy for him, nung una inggit na inggit ako para sa pagmamahal na iniaalay nya sa gf nya kaya ganun na lang na sige payag kung pwede pa pero nung dumating yung time na nauntog na, stop na. And I am lucky enough that someone did extra effort to love me for who I am and now I am happy and grateful.

So for those who are in this situation - choose. I've wasted my 2years for nothing, just lust.

**alam ko na madaling sabihin at mahirap gawin. Pero kaya yan! Ok ka naman nung wala sya so bakit hindi magiging ok kapag nawala.

[mysterioza_me]

^you are indeed lucky sis to find someone na mahal ka at tanggap ka   Ang tagal din ng 2yrs na nagpakaloko ka sa kanya huh
 

[glacy_rein]

^hindi dere derecho sis, parang on call. Dumating ako sa point na sige kung kelan nalang tapos ayun unti unti may dumating. Sya pa yung lalaki na tinake-for granted ko buti hindi nagsawa.

[mysterioza_me]

Buti na lang sis nung nauntog ka nandiyan pa rin siya

[23mirAmir]

i feel you sis, i had a guy when we were in college, we have this set up na pagmagkasama kame ay "kame" pag hindi eh "hindi".. its all my grand idea because i don't want to be exclusive and focused on the relationship.. afer a month or so, we get intimate then, months later, he confessed and i accept so we became official but illegal coz hes already wedlocked long before we met..
after 5 years i got pregy and gave birth, after that, everything change and he became more womanizer than ever.. i could not take it anymore and we drifted apart, he started avoiding me and i avoided him as well..
now, im facing my dilema.. i need a parental consent from him for our child coz were travelling aboad for vacation..
we bumped into each other twice just recently..
i hate my self coz i feel happy, like there a longing feeling..
yet i am still angry at him at the same time...
I thought I've moved on.. but I guess Im not yet over.. I think  still Love and hate him.. and I hate my self more for that..
I kept thinking about him since the last time we bump at each other.. all the love and pain is resurfacing again.. yet I know that I was left hanging, and he just kept on living his wonderful carefree life...

[glacy_rein]

^Oh nagka-baby kayo sis. Oo sis everytime na ilalabas mo yung bata you will need parental consent from him..

^^Yes sis! parang 3-4x kame nag-away/hiwalay nitong perfect guy and mind you LDR pa kame! haha! so yeah what's meant to be is meant to be.

[23mirAmir]

^ do we really need the parental consent ba? I assumed lang kasi sakanya naka apelido yung bata and we are not married.. kaya napilitan na ko gumawa ng move para makapag usap kame..

[glacy_rein]

^sis ma-off topic tayo PM ko hehe

[t_r_i_s_h]

this is sad... i once fell in love with my fwb, we were fwb's for a year then we became bf/gf's for three years...

[khate28]

Hi sis,i've been this before (fwb). For me he is my bf but for him just sex no feelings at all and he is vocal in saying that. Pero pinagpatuloy ko pa rin even the situation breaking me into pieces. 8 months later tsaka ko na raramdaman na he fell inlove na with me.after a year we became official as bf/gf. 4 years na kami together and getting married this december 2015. To God be the glory. Prayer is the most powerful above all. Pray lang ng pray and dont forget to love and respect also. Kaya mo yan basta pray lang.

[killbill]

Finally ended my 8 month thing with this guy. Sakit lang pero no one else to blame but me. I take full responsibility.

[OtherBoleynGirl]

Hi sis,i've been this before (fwb). For me he is my bf but for him just sex no feelings at all and he is vocal in saying that. Pero pinagpatuloy ko pa rin even the situation breaking me into pieces. 8 months later tsaka ko na raramdaman na he fell inlove na with me.after a year we became official as bf/gf. 4 years na kami together and getting married this december 2015. To God be the glory. Prayer is the most powerful above all. Pray lang ng pray and dont forget to love and respect also. Kaya mo yan basta pray lang.

ang ganda neto sis.. ang galing! how i wish mangyare ito sa lahat ng babaeng nagreresort sa ganitong set up at naiinlove sa guy.

Finally ended my 8 month thing with this guy. Sakit lang pero no one else to blame but me. I take full responsibility.

good job sis. be strong lang!

[yourboyToy]

i wonder if there are any "success" stories out there. yung setup na intended fubu/swb at nagtapos bilang ganun lang talaga. i think i want one.

[drharleyquinnmd]

i feel you sis! ang saken naman bagong bago. march ko pa siya crush but we just started 2weeks ago. we're both single. i want to confess that i'm falling for him kaso it's too early. i just wanna enjoy what we have for now..