Hirap naman kasing sabihin na I am also just using him pero parang ganon na rin...lol! Sakit kasi sa tenga...lol! But then hey, I didn't start the game. I just learned to play.
Hindi naman sa ganon. The fact of the matter is you are enjoying his friendship. And that's perfectly fine. Single naman kayo pareho. Malay mo puedeng mag next step yung friendship. Some takes time, but if it too long, sabi mo nga, puede ka mag move on naman anytime.
The only danger kasi satin mga babae is I f we are friends with one guy lang, in a way na friends kayo Pero 2 lang kayo lumabas and it happens every now and then, mabilis mahulog loob natin. I don't know why, but maybe not applicable in others, very relative din siguro. But speaking from experience, may tendency ako mag ganyan. Kaya best to keep my distance if I don't like the person for the long term.
^^We are not actually romantically dating right now. All I know is that we both want to remain friends and in contact with each other. And he just asked me recently if I am interested in coming with to a hockey game. Which I said, as long as I am not stepping on other people's toes I am fine.
Why would you be stepping on other's toes if you're just friends? Di ba it is just friends totally 100% OR friends kayo dating with the possibility na mag progress to another level? Isn't it more of the later?
Siguro dito lang ako na-confuse. Para sakin, it is a date. And the fact he asked you na kayong 2 lang, puede magka chance na maging kayo.
I am free to date other guys, but I don't settle just to prove a point. And I can't really date multiple guys. I just won't work for me. When the right guy comes, then that's the exit that I am talking about. I am just enjoying the view and the learning experience since I really don't have that much experience in relationship and dating men.
Yup i-enjoy mo lang and be able to get to know more about them. Same thing with me, Dati I didn't have a clue as well. I married kasi my childhood sweetheart. Then got my marriage annulled at mid age na. So just imagine I don't have any idea where to start if I want to find a life long partner.
"I don't settle just to prove a point. And I can't really date multiple guys. I just won't work for me. When the right guy comes, then that's the exit that I am talking about."
- this is very tricky. You date because you are interested to get to know the guy and enjoy his company. But ironically, how can you be interested in a new/different guy if your interest is with the current guy friend? Ito Yung sinasabi kong evil cycle na we just have to be conscious about.
- secondly, how would you know that a new guy is the right guy if you don't see/date/get to know him first? sometimes kasi, sa una, we don't like the guy. But if you give him 2-3 chances para mas makilala mo sya, sometimes there's more interesting things pala in him na initially you don't know
- kaya sa nakikita ko, parang ang hirap umexit sa situation mo. Hindi ko kasi alam alin mauna, you give up friendship on the current guy, or mag multiple dating ka and weigh who is the best at mag focus ka lang sa isa (the best for you)
But hey ako lang naman yan based sa napagdaanan ko in dating and finding 'him'. Ibang case naman sa iba and yours. But really, enjoy this moment! Dapat Stage Ito ng kilig/katuwa na times din.
