Ano ang kwento ng LOVELIFE mo ngayon? Part 4 :)

[swtgrl_bee]

Solid!

[killbill]

Nag eentertain pa lang ng guys.

[DalagangPinay]

Ako? nganga haha!

[ri-anne]

kwento ng lovelife ko, parang yung kanta ng "you're still the one" at "truly madly deeply"

[fatzzz]

I recently found out that my ex has a new gf, di ko maexplain yung feeling na nararamdaman ako. May halong inggit, sad, galit,relieved.
The guy never treated me well and cheated on me many times.
Bat  ganun parang ang lungkot lungkot ko. 😥

[lovely_carrot]

^ I know the feeling.. Yung parang di sya deserving na maging masaya and yet sya pa yung nagkalovelife ulit? Sad no..

This is one reason why I stopped all forms of getting information from my exes. With the exception sa tatay ng anak ko wala naman ako ma-news blackout kasi Mama ko at yung daughter ko panay kwento, hay.. kahit sabihin ko na ayoko malaman sige pa din ng updates..

Kwento ng lovelife? I seem to be attracting married men. Pag nasa abroad ka yata parang common practice na yung may ganun, depende nalang sa babae if papatol sya.

I recently joined Tinder, met a guy and I agreed to meet him this weekend. Ok naman yung takbo ng usapan namin, di sya pilit, we make each other laugh which is a good start.

[sweet21]

Hindi ako makatulog ngayon kakaisip. Grabe! Haay. I don't know baka siguro medyo OA lang ako. Here's the story. So nasira yung phone ni bf, it's been a week since last kami nagusap. I told him gamitin nya muna yung spare phone ko which is yung blackberry, ayaw nya kasi mahirap daw gamitin ok so true naman talaga. He'll wait na lang after makabili sya ng new phone. Sa loob ng 1 week, nagttext sya just to check on me pero single message lang. Yung parang hi hello lang. May days na 3-4 days straight walang communication. We seldom see each other, only once a month. Naiinis ako kasi hindi ko maisip kung pano nya natiis na hindi kami magusap, hindi naman ako yung clingy na kelangan kausap 24/7. But gusto ko lang yung mag check sakin if ano na. Yung usual. Actually, parang nagiging habit na nga nya na hindi ako imikan. Usually, pag nag aaway kami kahit petty fights. If pwede ko bilangan mga 5x na nya to ginagawa sakin, pero ako naman ok lang. Hindi ko sya matiis kahit paulit ulit nyang gawin sakin yung silent treatment tinatanggap ko parin sya. Before when we first started, I felt like I'm the queen of the world. For him, I was his everything. But now everything has changed. I hate it that I'm not even his priority, I don't mind being the least priority, but atleast man lang sana maramdaman ko yung worth ko or halaga ko. May days naman na sweet sya minsan. Yung ramdam ko na mahal na mahal nya ako, may days din na hindi na ako sigurado kung mahal pa nya ako. Siguro what I want from him is for him to show that I'm important to him, kahit na busy sya magkaron man lang sya ng konting oras sakin. Not the 24/7 kind of thing, pero yung maisingit man lang nya ako sa buhay nya. We've been together for 2 years now, lahat na yata pinagdaanan namin. Pero minsan hindi ko talaga sya maintindihan. Parang feeling ko parati nya ako take for granted.

[super bratinella]

Sis sweet21, may ganyan talagang guy mahal ka pero limited lang ang pinapakita, minsan nasa lahi or minsan talaga confident na sila na ang girlfriend nila is kanila na so less effort from them.  hindi mo control ang mga bagay na ganun kasi once nag demand ka from there it is like a pressure and you will be tagged as high maintenance(that is for the guys but for us it is just normal), so what you can do is focus on what you can control, ikaw na lang magparamdam, ikaw na lang maging sweet sa kanya then pray for your relationship.  He might realize what he have and gawa ka ng ways to show him your worth, pag in a relationsip naman it does not matter who did the first move ang importante is naiparating mo ang gusto mo mangyari sa relationship niyo.

[Filipinasadhart]

parang si chinggay wala ka text, walang kadate hehe yun cellphone pwede ng wag ng charge kase wala naman katext o walang inaabangan na tawag.  hahahaha

[kvandenhaak]

^Go hunt for Pokemons...lol! Malay mo dun mo ma-meet ang Prince mo.

[sweet21]

Thanks sis super bratinella. Siguro more on giving na lang talaga. Ang prob din kasi ma pride si bf. Ilang beses na din namin pinagtatalunan yun pero it's who he is. I'll just try to understand him. Give and take na [textspeak!] kami.

[TomHansen]

@sweet21, Semi-LDR na nga hindi pa maayos communication niyo? Taga-saan ka ba at siya? Sa situation niyo napakahalaga na nagkakausap kayo kasi dun niyo lang maeexpress ang love niyo e, if kulang siya/kayo sa effort e madaling masisira relationship niyo hindi man ngayon sa future. Hindi magiging maganda ang foundation ng relationship niyo kung early years niyo is ganito na. If you really love him dapat ayusin niyo yan malaki kasing chance may mafall out of love sa current setup niyo.

[simang]

Sweet21, ito lang masasabi ko. Ang dami dami dami daming ways to communicate. At ang dami dami dami daming reasons din not to. Ievaluate mo yung relationship nyo why you sometimes feel neglected.

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8 months married today (well, yesterday technically). Husband has always been the best and still is.

[cosmochick]

Never been better

[pretty_B]

so far, super so good.  im sorry to say this (because of the comparison), but habang tumatagal kami ni bf, nakikita ko yung pinagkaiba nya with my ex. with him, i can feel his sincerity talaga. he is very sweet and understanding and without pride. and lately, every time i see him or at least think of him, naffeel ko yung moment na... "Lord, ang swerte ko sakanya".

[shyreen]

LDR for 2 yrs now. Turning 10 years na kami sa October. Kung ako ang tatanungin gusto ko na magsettle down, at yun din and naisip kong reason para payagan ako ng company ko umuwi na sa Pinas for good. Pero naiinip na ko kakaantay sa kanya. Bumili na siya ng house at twice na ko umuwi ng pinas pero hindi pa siya nagpopropose. Minsan natetempt na ko magtanong sa kanya pero hanggat maaari ayoko sana dumating sa point na yun. Kasi ayoko siya pangunahan. Pero inip na inip na ko ayoko nadin ng LDR - sobrang lungkot.

[simang]

^siguro naman napapag usapan nyo magsettle down na no? If yes, then let him do it in his own time. I hope all goes well with you two. And oh, LDR sucks. Sana magkasama na kayo ulit.

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Everyday I get reminded of how loved I am. He basically does everything to make me happy. He knows my needs very well, and he meets them on point. Napapatanong na ako kung paano ko masusuklian lahat ng ginagawa nya for me and our LO. How did I get so lucky in love?

[anonemus]

Sobrang sarap. Sobrang saya!

<3 <3 <3

[mitch_daily]

Back to status quo.

[SaffiyahEnglish]

Single.



I left him kasi super manipulative ko na sa kanya pero hindi niya daw kayang lumayo sa akin. Pero I still left him kasi yun ang mas tama. Wala na akong mukhang ihaharap sa kanya.  It's better this way.