Ano ang kwento ng LOVELIFE mo ngayon? Part 4 :)

[buchakikay]

Hi sis sweet.hann, thanks for the advice. Tinry ko na siya. Pero parang the more na tumahimik ako lalo lang walang nangyayari.  Lalong wala siyang effort. Pero pagdi nasunod gusto niya naiirita na siya, tataasan niya ko boses, babaan ng phone mga ganun. Hindi naman kasi siya ganun dati. Naalala ko pa nga nagantay yun sa labas ng bahay namin ng mga 4hours, para lang ibigay yung flowers paggising ko. Tapos minsan hihiramin niya car ko kunyari, tapos pagsakay ko may surprise siya. Basta lagi siya may surprise. No special occassion.

Siguro tama ka hayaan ko na lang muna siya. Gusto ko na rin makipagbreak. Pero di ko alam kung kaya ko. Sobrang love ko rin siya eh, and nasanay na ko andyan siya. Ang hirap din kasi kung magbreak kami tapos lagi ko siya makikita. Ang hirap kasi same yung circle of friends namin, same din orgs namin, ganun.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Working on surviving each day of being apart. Thankful for technology!

[simang]

I miss him already!!! Not being together on weekends is a bummer 😪

[pretty_B]

Lately, ang dami kong nalalamang updates about him from common friends na mas close sakanya na nangangamusta sakin. Simple things lang like kung ano kinabu-busy-han nya lately. Namimiss ko lang sya but then I'm just reminding myself that our breakup is for the better naman. Pero di maiwasang umasa ulit. huhuhu.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Still on LDR. And to think, it's the Valentine's week. Corny na kung corny, but I'd give anything for a V-day with him! *sigh!*

[simang]

^^diba nga they say when you're with the right person, every day is valentine's day!

^hi sis! glad to hear na umuwi sya ulit. sayang naman at one week lang. well about risking to go where he's based.. why not try? of course there always are opportunities for you anywhere, you'll never know unless you try diba? you can't be on LDR forever so sooner or later one has to move... if he can't, maybe you can try. if your goal is to be happy, everything will be worth it. so, all will be well!

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I am forever grateful for having a man like him! He seriously is the best. Minsan I still feel that everything we have is too good to be true. Pero what can I do, he is so dreamy! And the best thing is that he is real, he does exist! I am the happiest!

[insanelypurpleprincess]

simang, true that! Emo, emo lang ako kasi na mimiss ko sobra. However, to echo your words.. It is Valentine's every day with the right person... and the right person will make sure you have a wonderful Valentine's day, so feeling ko I will see him and be with him sooner than I think.. Too excited!
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Kami? H-A-P-P-Y, happy with a capital H!

[Girltalker2]

^thanks sis. I am doing some research na nga and naghahanap na ng job there. Kaso super challenging kasi strict dun sa country nya.

Sis just try to find work without resigning. Tapos to keep yourself busy pag andun sya, maybe it helps if you take some additional courses or certs para may maidagdag karin sa resume mo sa pag apply. Basta huwag ka muna mag resign pag wala pang next offer. Good luck


Sis simang, totoo, everyday is Valentine's Day with him!!!

Sad lang ako now kasi nag sink in na ulit sakin na wala parin akong job   So tipid mode muna as we are going on a short trip with the kids. I'm not expecting anything from him this Valentines but all I really want is to be with him - like how everyday is!

[imallmessedup]

Hi mga sis. Makikisali na din. I need to let this out! Haha. I know hindi na healthy relationship namin at dapat na tapusin kaso mahal ko pa din eh! Ewan parang na tatangahan na nga ako sa sarili ko eh. Kaso parang may kulang. Feeling nya okay lang kami pero ako alam ko may mali. Feeling ko unwanted and may kahati ako sa puso nya although wala naman third party. Lagi na lang ako umiiyak, mas marami ang iyak kesa sa tawa. Tapos feeling ko tuloy kailangan nya lang ako kasi wala sya work. I give him everything kahit pang ayos/set up ng kotse nya. Kanina lang humihingi nang pang mags. Pero pag ako may bbilhin for myself ang dami ako narrinig. Ayoko maging issue yung pera pero hes so unfair. Selfish sya. Toxic relationship at malapit na din ako mapuno. Hayyyy

[Girltalker2]

he's very busy. Hindi ko talaga maintindihan how people get very busy. Conflict pa sched namin. i am trying to be understanding kahit nababaliw na ako kasi busy sya. Huhuhu

Yes people can get busy. Naranasan ko na iyan, 12-16 hours/day including Sats and Sundays.  But of course, this is not the whole year round naman. Mga tipong for a few months especially pag peak season.

Ayoko isipin ang valentines nalulungkot ako kahit na nag advance valentines date na kame last week.

You shouldn't be sad. You have him!!!

I-divert mo nalang ang attention mo sa ibang bagay like some project etc.

Hi mga sis. Makikisali na din. I need to let this out! Haha. I know hindi na healthy relationship namin at dapat na tapusin kaso mahal ko pa din eh!

Just believe na makakahanap ka ng someone better.  And accept reality na nagkamali ka, and the earlier you move on, the earlier you can find a BETTER guy for you.

I give him everything kahit pang ayos/set up ng kotse nya. Kanina lang humihingi nang pang mags. Pero pag ako may bbilhin for myself ang dami ako narrinig. Ayoko maging issue yung pera pero hes so unfair. Selfish sya. Toxic relationship at malapit na din ako mapuno. Hayyyy

Shet sis, sorry napamura ako dito. Ang kapal ng mukha ng taong ganyan!  Finances should not be an issue kasi in the first place, walang hingian. Ibibigay mo kung kelan mo "feel". BF palang iyan ganyan na, he is abusive sis. LEAVE!!!

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Thankful. Blessed. Content.

[krystalB]

Masayang walang away. Parehas nag ggrow individually and at the same time as a couple.

[simang]

It still feels surreal that i am soon marrying the man i met just two years ago. We met at an event called Smitten, and that's exactly what happened to us <3

[slickchick]

Hi mga sis. Makikisali na din. I need to let this out! Haha. I know hindi na healthy relationship namin at dapat na tapusin kaso mahal ko pa din eh! Ewan parang na tatangahan na nga ako sa sarili ko eh. Kaso parang may kulang. Feeling nya okay lang kami pero ako alam ko may mali. Feeling ko unwanted and may kahati ako sa puso nya although wala naman third party. Lagi na lang ako umiiyak, mas marami ang iyak kesa sa tawa. Tapos feeling ko tuloy kailangan nya lang ako kasi wala sya work. I give him everything kahit pang ayos/set up ng kotse nya. Kanina lang humihingi nang pang mags. Pero pag ako may bbilhin for myself ang dami ako narrinig. Ayoko maging issue yung pera pero hes so unfair. Selfish sya. Toxic relationship at malapit na din ako mapuno. Hayyyy

hi sis.. personally, normal naman sa relationship yung may sad/away moments yung couple. but if mas madalas ka umiyak kesa dun sa times na masaya ka, i think it's time to evaluate your relationship. di ka naman siguro masochist na gusto mo lagi ka na lang umiiyak or nasasaktan diba? one more thing, personally i think, kung medyo hard up on finances yung isa, ok lang naman na tumulong. ang pera naman kasi pwede kitain yan, pero ang good relationship mahirap makatyempo. BUT, if tutulong ka, the other party naman should use the money on something urgent or important (i.e. food, pangbayad ng overdue utilities bill, or rent). di na ata kasama sa urgent and important yung pang setup ng kotse and mags. wala na ngang work, maluho pa sa kotse?!? have you talked to your bf about your thoughts and how you feel? just my opinion sis ahh.. 

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on the topic -- glad that we were able to settle the issue we had late last week, and naging happy ang valentines weekend -- the best valentines celebration i've had in years!!. natutuwa din ako because hindi kinakampihan ng ate ni bf si bf, lalo na kung may mali sya. kaya pag may major problem kami ni bf, i do not tell it to anyone at home para di masira ang tingin nila kay bf. instead, kinukwento or sinusumbong ko na lang sa ate nya kasi alam ko naman na level-headed si ate nya.

[Girltalker2]

Just saw him in the last 3 days pero I want to see him again SOON!!

[sweet.hann]

Toxic relationship at malapit na din ako mapuno. Hayyyy

if you know its the right time to let go, let go mo na..

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for me naman.. ngayon na na-confirm ko na from his mouth na umaasa pa rin sya kay girl kahit hindi pinapansin.. eto na siguro yung time na wag ko munang i-push yung nararamdaman ko for him.. if i wanted to stay with him, gusto kong makita at maramdaman nya na kaibigan ako.. na ako pa rin yung isang kaibigan na mapagkakatiwalaan nya pa rin as i have trusted him.. nandito pa rin naman pero hindi ko ide-deny yung nararamdaman ko.. siguro for the sake of friendship.. kasi kahit anong mangyari, maging kami man o hindi, yung friendship hindi mawawala..

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Filled with hugs and loving the memories that we're creating together. Thanks to the super cold weather! Haha! 

[chinablue]

May nagpaparamdam pero di pa talaga ko ready kasi di pa ko totally healed. I don't want to use him for my own selfish interests.

[cecilydee]

My gosh another LDR miscommunication na naman with the husband. :/ but kahit magkagalit kami nakakapag i love you goodnight parin. Minsan nakaka iritang sabihin pero nakakahiya naman kasi sinabi nya muna e? Lol.

[anastasiaday]

Malaking age gap. Tutol parents ko, actually halos lahat