Ano ang kwento ng LOVELIFE mo ngayon? Part 4 :)

[Girltalker2]

LDR for 12 days...     It's been 24 hours since I last saw him, and 12 hours since I was last in touch with him.  Nakakapanibago. 

Well now ang kwento ay...

We've been going out for almost 5mos already, just like any other love story its starts out great,
but now that both of us are working there is more time constraint, so just a few days ago i asked if we could hang out and cuddle for a bit because work stress is bugging me and i just wanted a little break and what i got as a reply was "uwi ako ng maaga eh, bukas nalang" (uwi ng maaga to sleep) to my dismay i responded "ok lang, kahit wag nalang, thanks"

in my head i just had a thought "hindi lahat ng bagay, nagpagpapabukas..." referring to my feelings,
i just needed someone at that moment/day, sadly the person whom you would thought would be there ain't always there.

She pala... id-defend ko pa naman kung "he" sya.  Call it double standard, pero kasi for guys, I always believe na kung well rested sila, mas madali nila ma express ang feelings nila. Ayoko din ng nakikipagdate nang pagod ang kausap ko, mukhang haggard at inaantok.  Mas gusto ko full of energy sya, etc.

As for "her", parang same comment ni sis insanelypurpleprincess, it's her loss.   

[baliwsayo]

may kulang...

Anong kulang?

Kwento ng lovelife ko.. chill chill lang.. pero si ex lagi nagpaparamdam.. awkward whenever he says he still loves me.. iniiba ko na lang usapan. Told him already that we are just friends na lang. Feel ko parang ang sama ko naman kung ipapaalala ko pa? Ganun nga ba dapat yun? Or just by mere ignoring yung sweet nothings niya eh he gets the drift na? Ayoko lang magpaasa and ayoko din makasakit ng damdamin..

[Girltalker2]

^ sis, I think it is either/or.  Iyan din dilemma ko, and BF does not feel happy about it. Feeling nya walang respect daw yung tao sa kapwa. Alam nang may BF, sige parin ang paramdam.

Initially sabi ko nga di naman ako nagpapaasa eh.  Pero feeling ni BF not enough daw yung sinabi ko na huwag na sya tumawag.  So, I guess you really have to tell him bluntly, for his sake narin to move on.  Ayaw ko naman din masira ang current relationship na ito sa isang maliit na issue na ganyan.



 

[insanelypurpleprincess]

It's a busy start of the week, so for a momeny there.. I forgot na naka LDR set-up ako! Now that I am home na. Ayan, missing my guy again!

[slickchick]

happy na ulit...  nakabawi na si bf last sunday for not being able to accompany me during my tatt retouch session last thursday and for missing our usual saturday date. last saturday morning, accepted ko na yung fact na we won't be able to go out this weekend because of the emergency at his home. so i went about with my home chores, and later on went out for some quality "me" time.. to my surprise (and amusement), siya naman yung sobra sobra ang text to ask how i'm doing, and yung sobrang pag-apologize dahil hindi nga nya nasamahan during my tattoo session and for missing our usual  saturday date. and for our sunday date, in fairness, bumawi sya talaga by spending breakfast, lunch, and dinner with me... muntik nang pati midnight snack, kung hindi lang may pasok sya ng monday early morning..   

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Hooray! That is awesome news, sis!
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Continuously missing him. Syempre naiinis kasi parang ang lapit lapit lapit ng Bacolod (geographically speaking), but still.. di kami together. Sad sad sad face! But still very thankful because he had a surprise for me today.

[slickchick]

^ thanks much sis! i really hope your guy can make a surprise visit since mukhang geographically close naman ang locations nyo... nothing beats a surprise visit, especially when you least expect it. 

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Of course! And as for him being able to come by to visit me, that would be wonderful. But I am very, very, very sure that ain't happening until Masskara Festival has died down. Oh well! Another monthsary away..but I will be fine.
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Still missing him heaps!!!

[simang]

^i still giggle at 'monthsary' too cute!! or maybe because we don't celebrate one hihi

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So thankful for everything from day one.

[ziontrec]

As for "her", parang same comment ni sis insanelypurpleprincess, it's her loss.   

^ Oh! Then it's her loss!

well may times na nakakabawi pero syempre the absence will take its toll eventually, in any case, i wont be just her loss, it will also be mine since wala ngang support hahaha pag naghanap ka naman sa iba, cheating naman labas nun

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Comes with the territory. So it's either you get through it all either by her side or away from her. Choice is yours.
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Frustrated lang 'coz it's a cold, rainy morning and I wish for nothing more than to cuddle with him. However, I remain thankful because it's our monthsary today. Another milestone!

[Girltalker2]

Frustrated lang 'coz it's a cold, rainy morning and I wish for nothing more than to cuddle with him. However, I remain thankful because it's our monthsary today. Another milestone!

wow! Happy monthsary sis!     

well may times na nakakabawi pero syempre the absence will take its toll eventually, in any case, i wont be just her loss, it will also be mine since wala ngang support hahaha pag naghanap ka naman sa iba, cheating naman labas nun

Then you should communicate with her.  You need more of her.  If nothing happens, you should call it quits before maghanap ng iba. That way, you remain truthful and hindi cheater.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Thanks, sis! And it's funny... not only does it happen to be our monthsary, but I can't believe I have been in GT for a year now. As in like today exactly! Indeed a good day to celebrate despite heavy rains & slight flooding in Cebu!

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Feeling much, much, much better after a one minute conversation with him. Or it was really more of one minute of just knowing that he is on the other side of the phone, while I type stuff for work and what not. That's pretty much all I need to keep me going!

[ziontrec]

Then you should communicate with her.  You need more of her.  If nothing happens, you should call it quits before maghanap ng iba. That way, you remain truthful and hindi cheater.

i am, the hardest part. deciding to stay or let go.

^ Comes with the territory. So it's either you get through it all either by her side or away from her. Choice is yours.

happy monthsary!

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Thank you and kaya mo yan. It's never going to be easy, so when in doubt, seek divine providence (suppose you're a believer).

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Feeling very blessed. Despite being not together today or in the next few days --- it looks like we might just end up seeing each other again SOON! Praying for that and keeping all fingers crossed. 

[tisaygirl123]

^ Ziontrec - relate much with your story.
( hindi ba ako yung gf mo? lol! )
Anyway, to make the story short.. parehas kami ng case ng gf mo.
like too busy, siguro comfortable kami not to text much na especially busy siya sa med school and im busy with my work.
Sometimes when he texted me to go home na sa house niya, I told him nalang na I need to go home sa house ko.
Naramdaman ko din naman na physically absent ako sakaniya but I'll see to it na chinecheck ko siya time to time and nag uupdate naman ako kahit papaano, pero it seems to be "wala lang lahat"
He always said he's malungkot kasi nga mag isa lang sa condo.

Feeling ko hindi ok yung magdamag, nakaikot or nakatututok yung time mo sa GF mo. May mga ibang stuffs ka din naman na dapat asikasuhin. Siguro naman with proper balance and step by step priorities hindi mawawala ang love with both partner.
Yung tipong may time padin mag reach out and magusap. He's 5 years older saakin. pero hindi padin niya siguro ma gets paano mag usap ang mga grownups.

Well, Siguro. Maybe Siguro.
Nagkulang ako sakaniya ng time, Nagkulang din siya ng understanding pero hindi sapat yun para mag cheat ang lalaki..
End up, Naghiwalay na kami. Hiniwalayan ko na.
It's getting worst and wala ng respect. Better solve this as early as now kung feeling mo eh talagang she's for you.
I give up na kasi all this time ako yung understanding, naging busy lang sa work siya naman naging selfish.
Unfair kaya.

[ziontrec]

^^
indeed i am, sabi nga PUSH - Pray Until Something Happens

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well kung ikaw nga sana ede napagusapan na natin and maayos right? hehe
wala naman talagang valid reason to cheat, if may pagkukulang you make it known sa partner and hope na magkaron ng compromises or what ever.

everybody grows old, sometimes just not together or eventually with another.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ I like that PUSH! Indeed! Hoping for things to turn out for the best for you. Regadless of what happens.
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Missing my boo! He's clearly busy running an event so no virtual date tonight. Kinda sad about it!

[Girltalker2]

i am, the hardest part. deciding to stay or let go.

basta ang alam ko, kung hindi pa kayo mag asawa, tapos may isa hindi pantay ang pagtingin sa isa, you need to end it before pa mas mahirapan kayo later.  this is, of course assuming di pantay ang pagtingin nyo at hindi lang dahil sa pagod/moody, etc.

do not be afraid to socialize and find love. it is all worth it naman once mahanap mo sya kesa naman kayo nga at nagpakasal kayo pero only to find out nagkamali pala kayo.

[superjuzh]

away bati. pareho kaming may problema sa bahay pero imbis na damayan niya ako inaway pa niya. nakipaghiwalay pa, pero nung nagpunta ako sakanila nag sorry naman. immature pa to. magulo pa isip niya kasi hindi niya malaman kunganong gagawin sa future niya. magulo din kasi ang pamilya niya. sana magkaron ng direction ang pag iisip niya.