is it really possible for a girl and a guy to be best friends?

[raechubs]

Pwede naman. My childhood friend is a guy. BFF kame, minsan sakanila ko natutulog minsan naman siya natutulog samin when we were both teens pa noon. May instance pa nga na napagkakamalan kame na mag jowa. haha pero di naman namin na feel yung isa't isa walang spark na tinatawag. Hanggang friends lang talaga.

[argento]

Isa lang sagot diyan.

Not possible.

[la_pinay]

basing on most of the replies here, laging may "what if" sa side ng girl.

[quinone]

^sis ako wala huh! 

[sacred cow]

^ if ever na nalaman mo before na may gusto pala siya sa'yo, would you have gone for it?

[t_r_i_s_h]

Yes, it is possible. Meron talagang girl and boy na walang "hots" for each other.

[GreenArcher]

yes i think its better if your partner is your bestfriend solid ang foundation niyo kasi yung iba masyadong immature iniisip yung best friend will always just be the best friend hindi na isip na mas solid kasi madami na kayo pinagdaanan so ready na kayo and kilala niyo na yung isa't isa. kaya nauso ang friendzone kasi madaming best friend ang best friend pa din hanggang ngayon haha

[Red Rack 21]

I think at one point one will fall for the other, or at least there will be a moment na parang may "something." But what do I know. :p Never had a guy best friend.

i agree. and the people surrounding you will one way or the other make things more  complicated kapag may  nagsabi na bakit di mo ligawan si girl best friend...o kaya may magsasabi na may gusto sau si guy bestfriend kasi ganito ganoon sya sa iyo e... hehe mapapag-isip ka talaga. been there done that. mahirap whew!

[fredprinz]

I think pwede naman. Kung ako yung guy, I don't mind a girl best friend kasi may mapagtatanungan ako about stuff girls only know and I can get solid advice from her pagdating sa mga babae.

Kaso pag nagkaroon na ng attraction, dun ako talo lalo na kung 'yung best friend kong babae eh may boyfriend or asawa na. Same goes sa case ng babae. Medyo complicated lang, I'm not saying lay ground rules but if you don't wanna get hurt, set expectations. Pero kung worth it naman si girl at single, go for it.

Pinakathe best na foundation ng relasyon ang friendship. =)

[tomatostellar]

Yes. I my ex's bestfriend is a girl. Si girl ay very very close ko din ~ she and I are also kind of bestfriends.
Same circle kami, hindi ako nagselos kay girl kahit very pretty din sya. Pero si girl ay not the malandi type kaya siguro ganon ako ka-kampante nun kahit pretty sya. 
But I think very rare talaga yung walang nadedevelop.

[fredprinz]

I have to agree, lalo na pag sobrang mabait at malambing (in a friendly way) yung babae.

I have this motto - "Do not be overly sweet to someone you can't love."

Yes. I my ex's bestfriend is a girl. Si girl ay very very close ko din ~ she and I are also kind of bestfriends.
Same circle kami, hindi ako nagselos kay girl kahit very pretty din sya. Pero si girl ay not the malandi type kaya siguro ganon ako ka-kampante nun kahit pretty sya. 
But I think very rare talaga yung walang nadedevelop.

[frankikay]

Oo possible naman. Husband ko may girl bestfriend. Sobrang close nila. Magcacamping, travel sa ibang country, coffee2 or kain sa labas. Pero nastop nung naging kami na ni hubby.

[sacred cow]

I agree with a quote from Nietzche

"A woman may very well form a friendship with a man, but for this to endure, it must be assisted by a little physical antipathy"

in short, dapat hindi ganun ka bet na bet nung guy si girl at may mapipintas (especially on the looks department)

[t_r_i_s_h]

HAHAHA yeah, Me and my guy bestfriend always say "eeew kadire" everytime may nagsasabi samin na "sana kayo nalang" It's like never in our wildest dreams/thoughts na naisip or imagine yun, parang incest na eh!

[GreenArcher]

HAHAHA yeah, Me and my guy bestfriend always say "eeew kadire" everytime may nagsasabi samin na "sana kayo nalang" It's like never in our wildest dreams/thoughts na naisip or imagine yun, parang incest na eh!

magkakadevelopan din yan hahaha madami nagsasabi na magbestfriend ng ganyan pero nagkakatuluyan din haha

[la_pinay]

speaking on a gf standpoint, nag lie low naman ang bf ko sa girl best friend nya nun naging kami. nag uusap pa rin syempre but they dont see each other often. i guess it's normal kasi un time is diverted to gf na, unlike before na they have all the time in the world kasi single.

[IamColleen]

I dont know. Pero maybe no. Parang sa mga movie laging nagkakainlaban ang mag bestfriend.

[fredprinz]

Never had a real girl "best" friend, but when I had a girlfriend before, kahit yung mga ka-close kong girls, bihira ko na i-text, not unless may lakad kameng paguusapan or may activities. Kumbaga, part of my attention really goes into the relationship.

question for the guys...

kapag nagka gf na kayo, gano nyo kadalas pa rin tinetext si girl bestfriend nyo? say, dati nung wala pa kayong gf, araw araw kayo may communication, pag nagka gf na kayo, how often na lang magiging comm nyo?

[la_pinay]

^ true that. my bf din has a lot of girl friends aside from his girl best friend. nun naging kami, ganun din pag may lakad na lang sila nagkakausap or reunion etc.

[Queen Chokolah]

Possible. But it's too complicated.

Sa part ko, I dont want it to be the cause of my guy's jealousy and I dont want to explain over and over again about that friendship thing.

Sa part nya, I dont want him to have a girl bestfriend din. Masyado akong selosa at malisyosa.

Kaya friends na lang for both of us. Wala ng bestfriend2x sa opposite sex.