finding myself weird,,,, pati panaginip pinapatulan ko,,,,

[toydoll]

Hello,

Bothered lang talaga ako, evidently bothered talaga kasi i feel the need to even share this here....

I have been dreaming of this guy officemate very often - as in sweet dreams - very often means parang 1 or 2x a week,,, married na ko,,, but i still dreamed of him at paggising ko parang kala ko laging totoo,,, what bothered me is that, those dreams made/is making me inspired and the more that i long to see him,, kahit makasalubong ko lang ok na,,,

feeling ko naman (hmm conceited) may something din sya sakin kasi before lagi nya ko ina appreciate in terms of how i look,, then naging snob na sya,, kasi he's married na din and boss din kasi sya,, so i think he controlled it in some ways,,,

pero ako din naman very controlled, nagtataka lang ako, why i always dream of him,,, kahit minsan hindi ko naman sya iniisip,,,

gusto ko lang malaman, may possibility ba na sya ang umiisip sakin? at napapaginipan din kaya nya ko?

hayyy ang weird ko na,,,,, grrrrrrr

[roxykarlo]

He might be dreaming of you rin sis. It could be. Cause when we dream of being with someone other than our spouses, we have a connection with them. Brains do have an electromagnetic waves that can detect and send signals to each other. Another factor is that, because you have certain feelings for the guy, and that he is your officemate/boss, all events that have happened all in a day is cordially registered in our brain cells, which triggers our dreams. That is why we often dream about a person, thing or event that we have encountered earlier. Iniisip kA rin niya sis, if that is what you wanna know. 😃😃

[j.adore]

Dreams are YOUR brain's interpretation of both YOUR conscious and unconscious thoughts. Sorry to say this pero ikaw lang talaga ang umiisip sa kanya and you have or are developing feelings for him.

I suggest you divert this to your husband and maintain a purely professional relationship with this guy officemate.

[quinone]

baka he is a representation of something sa panaginip mo?

[cussler]

i think dream is a by product of our unconscious mind. because you are always thinking of him that's why lagi mo siyang pinaginipan. maybe we are not aware that unconsciously we are thinking of that person or something as you always see him almost everyday. yeah, tama si j.adore divert your mind from something else... stop thinking of him. avoid him slowly. think  of not good things about him.

[gharz412]

^i think dream is a by product of our unconscious mind. because you are always thinking of him that's why lagi mo siyang pinaginipan. maybe we are not aware that unconsciously we are thinking of that person or something as you always see him almost everyday.
 
well said sis, stop thinking about it nalang maraming dapat gawin para dina siya pumasok sa sistema mo.

[aquacharly]

It is your unconscious desire expressed in your dreams -- not him reaching out to you.

During your flirting/friendly days, before you both got promoted -- you probably yearned for a man's interest - which he provided. Now that you're both high in the company hierarchy, and flirting is already inappropriate behavior --  you miss the friendly attention. Ergo, the dreams. 

It is not him you should focus on, but on your subconscious need for male attention, other than your husband's.  Perhaps you should start having more male friends, no malice.  See, though we may be married & have oodles of female friends, we also want to know the male perspective, etc etc.  Male friendships let us look into the world of the opposite sex, without bringing harm to  ourselves.  Friendship nga lang kasi, period.   I have quite a number of male friends & BFFs --  try it,  these friendships add color to your life.     

But that's just my opinion, what do I know anyway. Haha

[insanelypurpleprincess]

These appear to be your inhibitions coming to life. Since you clearly cannot and should not act on it in real life... your brain provides you an outlet or an alternative per se in the form of your dreams. Be very wary... do you talk in your sleep? You might just be put on a tight spot suppose you utter his name.

[The5thElement]

a clear manifestation that you really like this guy but since you are both married kaya hindi pwede in real life.

pero pwedeng may mangyari snyo if one will express this feeling and other will reciprocate...
goodluck to you then, mukhang exciting 'to. hahahaha

wala pa naman sex nangyayari sa panaginip nyo?

[toydoll]

He might be dreaming of you rin sis. It could be. Cause when we dream of being with someone other than our spouses, we have a connection with them. Brains do have an electromagnetic waves that can detect and send signals to each other. Another factor is that, because you have certain feelings for the guy, and that he is your officemate/boss, all events that have happened all in a day is cordially registered in our brain cells, which triggers our dreams. That is why we often dream about a person, thing or event that we have encountered earlier. Iniisip kA rin niya sis, if that is what you wanna know.

hello sis roxykarlo - sis have you experienced this before and otherwise confirmed your statement above? nahihiwagaan lang din ako sa dreams,,, and wanna know what it is really about,,,,


j.adore, 5thelement, insanelypurple, aquacharly, cussler, quinone - really appreciate all your feedbacks/comments,,, weird lang talaga, kasi palagi,, anyway, tama nga inhibitions, pero di pwede in real life,, i am always the good girl that i am, kahit na nagkaroon kami ng prob ni hubby before (3rd party prob), never ko naman inisip na mag revenge,, pero naiisip ko lang at the back of my mind,, sarap lang siguro ng may true na nagmamahal sau,, kaya siguro sa panaginip na lang,, hehe,,, sarap ng may nag eexpress at nag co confirm na maganda ka,, kung baga a little appreciation,,, anyway ,, un tanong about may sex na ba na nangyari sa dreams,, intimacy pa lang,, pero di umabot sa sex,,, lately di ko na sya napapanaginipan,, maybe because he threw himself far from me na in real life,,, as in super snob, at sa email inaaway nya pa ko, kasi boss sya,,, kumbaga sort of pinapahiya,,, anyway,,, taking it very professionally,,,

nakakatuwa lang din magkaroon ng knowledge about dreams and brain and electromagnetic waves,, scientific explanation,,, which i find very interesting,,,

matagal tagal ko na din sya di na di dream kasi iniiwasan ko na din naman sya,, di ko na sinasadya na makita at makasalubong sya,, di ko naman kasi sya boss, different division kami,,,, 

[insanelypurpleprincess]

toydoll, very glad to hear that the dreams already somehow stopped. And kudos to you for choosing not to fall victim to these dreams. When you dream it, that's one thing. When you act on it, it's a whole different dimension. But for whatever it's worth, regardless of what your history was with your hubby - taking the same route (regardless if it's for revenge or not) will never be alright. When you said that you feel that "sarap lang siguro ng may nagmamahal..." Indeed, to love and be loved back truly is something, but I highly doubt if it will come from the guy in your dreams. Real love at its finest comes from child(ren), suppose you have kids, family and friends --- as it appears like the one you're married to seems unable to provide you that for now.

[toydoll]

thanks sis insanelypurple,, having such a dream or just seeing him, seems to just motivate me to go to work,, hanggang ganun lang,, hehe,, minsan di ko mapigil mag dream kahit gising,, naiinis ako sa sarili ko,, pero ang mas nakakainis,, nun snob na sya,, felt sad,, para kong t**** talaga,, weird,, as in,, parang feeling ko teen puppy crush lang,, ayyyysssss

[insanelypurpleprincess]

^ Anytime, sis! Just very glad to hear that it's nothing, but just a dream. Stay strong!

[toydoll]

thanks sis,,, super ...

nakita ko sya today... hehe

[TysLolakins]

nangyayari din yan sa akin, dreaming about the boss.  but once i wake up wala na.  i don't consciously think about him in a sexual way.  granted i find him very good looking, but he's openly gay.  nothing wrong with him being gay, just saying.

[purple.strawberry]

Tingin ko din sis subconscious mo yan expressing what's being repressed in real life. You like him, right, but can't do anything about it since you're both married na.

Sometimes din it's the other person thinking about you, but I think this happens when you two have a connection talaga, for example, he's your ex-boyfriend ganyan. Haha. I'm not really expert on dream interpretation but I did ask about this to a couple of people in the esoteric field.

[FayeP]

yikes ganun ba talaga un na pag napanaginipan mo subconsciously somehow iniisip mo cya?

I once dreamt that I'm going at it with my office buddy...we're both very much married, and kahit hanapin ko sa sarili ko wala akong katiting na crush or paghangan sa kanya...but my dream is really something as in super detailed and hot talaga...


well once ko lang naman cya napanaginipan....di na naulit buti na lang...kasi the day after na mapanaginipan ko cya, di ako makatingin sa kanya ng derecho kasi dyaheng dyahe un pakiramdam ko

[p0isonIvy]

haha ako naman, actively daydreaming of this co-worker/colleague. madalas kasi kami magkasama sa mga out of town trips sa company. usually lasts 3-5 days. so pag ganun, sobrang dami namin napag uusapan usually about sex. sometimes may mga pahaging na din sya. pero ayoko muna magreciprocate. haha malandi lang.

[toydoll]

hello, thanks sa lahat ng feedbacks/comments/knowledge about dreams...

the last post i had about this topic, sabi ko di ko na sya napapanaginipan and rare that i think of him na din...

but just this weekend, ayyy ayun na naman sumulpot na naman sya sa panaginip at ito ka,, ang sweet nun dream... pero promise, di ko sya talaga naiisip ha,,, pero upon waking up after that dream,, ayyy ang sarap ng feeling,,, ewan ba,,, grrrrr,,,

was he thinking of me then??? wala landi lang din,, hehe

[imyourangel]

Umaasa ka pa din ba sis na he's thinking of you? Hehe. Dreams are made by OUR brains, produced by OUR unconscious.. so there's no way na makonek yung isip niya sa panaginip mo.

You're still thinking pa din kasi about him ata, kaya ayan napapanaginipan mo na...