Plz help me understand my pina gf

[barbwire]

Usually couples do simple bets for fun.
But in your situation these are like serious bets that would require you to exert too much effort (household chores, cooking) or money  (iPhone 6).
Its bothering you and it is not a good sign if both of you continue being together.
So might as well end the relationship.

[Mamaxims2]

Ow Im a little surprised cause I thought you would tell me it s an opportunity for me to rebalance Our relationship. I thought you would told me to show her Im Still the man and housework ll be for both. Is it cause you think That it ll change nothing?

[purplegravity]

Its time to break-up with her.  She is just using you.

[akosimaiatot]

sorry man but I think its time for you to ditch her, at first I thought that she just want you to know that she is the boss in your relationship which is kinda errrr normal ? but getting a lame bet as an excuse for getting an iphone 6 is way too much..we are Filipina and we are kinda ashamed about her actions but honestly we don't tolerate this kind of attitude..

[sofistikada_1230]

I'm a Filipina and mind you, not all Filipinas are like that. I agree with the others' comments that she's just using you. If you're just in your early stage of relationship, it's not right for her to ask you for expensive gifts like an iPhone... gosh... might be hard for you but it's better to get off the hook as early as now...

[Shin Shin]

Break up with her. She can't even treat you as her boyfriend but a sugar daddy and a nanny . She's just using you I'm sorry but not all Filipina's are like that. Hope you can find someone better than her.

[erza0916]

I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that kind of woman. You sound like a nice man and you really like her but please try to reassess your situation. No woman, Filipina or not, should treat her partner like that. Relationships are all about respect for each other. Don't let her make a fool out of you. Asking for an expensive gift like that is definitely a red flag. Ask her why do you need to have to bet on something you both know she'll win at. She has to be fair with you. You came all the way to see her and yet she disrespects you. You're her guest, she should be the one catering to you or atleast share the housework. If she gets mad then you'll know she's not right for you. Goodluck

[Jingaling]

as for me, try to talk to her in a serious way. tell her what u feel regarding the challenge and the household chores. tell her you are not comfortable with challenging her on any physical game and with putting a bet. and don't allow the teasing to pressure you to give in.

if she really loves u, she should understand u. make her feel u are not ok with ur bet and challenges. i think, she thought ur fine with it thats why she acted like that. but i don't think that is enough reason to ditch her. give each other a chance, its just a matter of communicating ur feelings to her. goodluck.