Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)

[slickchick]

as in wala nang text kahit hi or how are you. pero nung wala pang kasintahan, araw araw nagpaparamdam.

hi sis... if you are a girl and your best friend's a guy, I would have the thinking that you have special feelings for your guy best friend. kasi kung friend lang talaga ang tingin mo sa kanya, you would even be happy for him, dahil happy sya na may kasintahan na sya. you would not mind kung hindi sya makapag text or makatawag sya syo, kasi naiintindihan mo situation nya. kasi true friends would understand each other. it would be a different story kung may special feelings ka sa guy best friend mo at may kasinatahan na sya ngayon.. baka hindi yan tampo, baka more of selos yan sis.. just my opinion ahh... 

[dismembered]

^ Parang college students lang

Matanong ko lang... Ikaw ba never ka nag initiate ng breakup sa kanya?

Well.. parehas kayo may karapatan mainis, at parehas nyo din kasalanan kung ano man ang nangyayari sa inyo. Kung paulit ulit kayong ganyan na away-bati, on-off or whatever, all I could see, eh parang nasanay lang kayo sa isa't isa na ganyan kayo. At kasalanan nyo parehas na nagkakaganyan kayo parehas. Although I wanna bet na after ilang days, magkakabalikan din kayo..

Dapat ang mga kalalakihan ngayon, pag nagsalita ng breakup, eh breakup talaga. Girls, iwas kayo sa ganyan kasi kulang sa maturity ang lalake if laging nakikipag break tapos makikipagbalikan din. Worse eh kapag hindi lang once nangyari kundi halos every arguement na lang!

[jtansanco]

^^ If you're not happy and have fallen out of love, move away. Don't think of your past together and just a start a new beginning. It will be difficult but it will be worth it once you have accepted that he is out of your life.

[Tootsie31]

Kung kelan valentines, bakit hindi magpapakita si guy? hindi ko pa sya bf but I know mutual naman feelings namin towards each other. Laging group dates kame, 6 months pa lang kme magkakilala and nagkikita kme at least once a week. This valentines day, ako lang walang partner tuloy. Anong possible reasons ng ganung disappearance move nya? TIA

[j.adore]

Ayaw niya siguro gumastos? Mahal kasi manligaw at magdate ngayon.

[Girltalker2]

^^ May ibang date sa Valentine's, possible with wife or gf. You sure you know the guy well? Kayo na ba? Anong reason nya for not showing up?

[17glut]

^or maybe he's up to something 

[Tootsie31]

@Girltalker2, hindi pa kame. Pinadala sya ng company nya daw sa ibang lugar but for this week lang. Yun nga lang weekend naman yung valentines kaya pwede naman dapat syang umuwi na ng friday, pero sa sunday night pa ang balik nya dito eh

[slickchick]

^ is he courting you or are you two exclusively dating sis? has he even dropped hints about liking you or having special feelings for you? paano mo nasabi na mutual yung feelings nyo sa isa't isa, when you are going out on group dates? minsan kasi sa atin mga girls, iba yung basa natin sa pinapakita ng guys.. he might just be friendly, pero akala natin mutual na yung feelings (especially if type natin yung guy).. just saying sis.. 

[Tootsie31]

^ ok, I considered na rin yan before na baka as friends lang. So kahit picture taking, di ko pinapansin kung naka-akbay sya sakin. But merong isang picturan na naman at tumabi sya at sinabi nyang aakbay lahat. sumunod naman kameng lahat so umakbay ako sa kanya. Dikitan ang sides naming dalawa nun at nung tinignan ko pics, nakatayo yung ano nya hehe. I assumed na like nya ko.

Then pag sa kainan, hinahawakan pa nya seat ko pag uupo ako sa tabi nya.

[sugardrop]

^
Ayun lang sister, never assume.

[simang]

^^the only way to know if a guy likes you is when you don't need to ask if he does like you.

[Girltalker2]

Naku sis tootsie, kung hanggang dikitan lang kayo, wala yun. Malandi lang si guy mo, sorry for the term Pero I personally don't like guys who are touchy na di mo naman kaano ano.

If he hasn't invited you out for a date yet na one-on-one on a normal day, what makes you expect na i-d-date ka nya sa Valentine's?

[17glut]

pag medyo touchy ang isang guy na hindi mo ka-close, obviously, manyakis yun. 

[Tootsie31]

Ok. Thanks very much for your comments, na enlighten ako 😊

[dismembered]

Dikitan ang sides naming dalawa nun at nung tinignan ko pics, nakatayo yung ano nya hehe. I assumed na like nya ko.

Malay mo naman hindi talaga nakatayo at optical illusion lang! At kahit pa nakatayo yun, unless nagse-sex kayo, hindi mo masasabi na ikaw ang reason kung bakit nakatayo yun! 

[honeybunny]

^i agree.

Also, kung nakatayo agad yung ano nya? Naku manyak yun. Baka s** lang gusto nun. If he really likes you, u dont have to guess. He will tell u upfront. Men are not complicated creatures like women na no means yes and yes means no. Tayo lang nagpapaka complicate sa kanila kasi lahat binibigyan natin ng meaning kahit na hindi naman yun ibig sabihin nila. We overthink. And guilty ako dun. Ha ha

[fredprinz]

^Often times, it's just a fantasy. But with how adventurous some people are, it can happen even if all parties are "virgins."

You don't know what libido can do to a person. Hell, I know someone who confessed of having an orgy with a lot of people.

[pretty_B]

Is it possible na TOTOONG alam ng gf/fiance ng guy na may nilalandi syang iba? tipong sasabihin sayo..."alam naman ni gf na kasama kita, blah blah". totoo ba yung ganitong set-up para hindi lang masabihan yung guy na cheater sya?

[honeybunny]

^i think pwedeng alam ni gf na may kasama si bf na ibang girl, kaso pwede ding hindi alam ni gf na yung girl pala e kaflirt ni bf. Ang alam ni gf e walang something at friends lang talaga sila or acquaintance. At baka hindi alam ni gf na 2 lang sila magkasama ni bf at girl...