So lumabas kayo 4 times, then yung 5th time hindi na pumayag? So malamang that's a sign na she thinks hindi kayo maka progress to the next level. Either walang chemistry, or meron something sayo na wala sa checklist nya etc. - Yes, so her saying Yes to me on the first date doesn't necessarily mean na gusto niya ako ng sobra2x, that just goes to show na "maybe" she wants to get to know me first OR pwedeng gusto lang talaga niya lumabas.
Well, ito nanga yun e. flirting with no intentions, is there such a thing? Why make a stir, kung wala naman point? - Yes, I do it all the time. Pero that's just it, all talk lang. Kung alam kong may bf yung tao, I don't go overboard. Kung mag-fall saken yung babae, it's on her. Kasi alam naman niya kung saan siya lulugar. It's like professional wrestling, fake moves lang ginagawa ko. And pag may boyfriend yung babae, wala akong intention na sulutin siya. Now, you might ask, what if mag-fall sayo yung babae? Again, that's on her.
Si girl pa, mamaya isipin may gusto ka sa kanya, either lalong didikit sayo (which is playing with fire) or ma badtrip sayo kung di ka nya type. Or worse, kung isipin ni girl, wala lang yun, sige ang landian ninyo, ano nalang iisipin ng ibang tao? May GF kang tao, and yet nakikipagharutan ka sa ibang girl? And mind you, almost all 3rd parties or may ka affair dyan nag uumpisa sa flirting without intentions.
Most of these careless extra marital affairs started with - I am not doing anything wrong, I don't plan to cheat on my wife, pero one thing led to another. Ayun, boom! - Kung iisipin niya na may gusto ako sa kanya, aba, assuming siya. Susmarya. Hanggat' di ko sinabi, never assume. Manghuhula yata siya.
