Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)

[slickchick]

Exhausting. Either you commit or you don't. If you don't, don't drag someone else into it.

my thoughts exactly.. it's either you're in it or not.. walang in-between.. it's just me though.. kaya medyo naguguluhan ako sa situation ni tisaygirl.. 

[fredprinz]

Exactly, slickchick (gestures for a high five).

Tisay Gerl,

If you don't wanna commit, then both of you should agree. If the guy doesn't agree, drop him.

Kung gusto niyo ng relationship, and ayaw mo naman, drop him too.

Simple ang buhay; like what my boss said, "Huwag mong gawing complicated." But I believe na nasa may katawan pa ren yan eh. We can write a novel about what you can do but at the end of the day, desisyon mo pa ren yan.

And why is the guy you're dating being jealous naman? Di ba niya alam or hindi ba siya totally aware sa setup niyo?

[sacred cow]

baka naman kasi pang kama lang tingin nila sa isa't isa at hindi relationship material..hahaha

[tisaygirl123]

Hmm, hindi bf talaga sis eh. Malabo talaga eh. we always talk na we're not committed ha. ganon ganon lagi.
Commitment yung wala kasi samin eh kaya magulo kami.
btw, he's not pinoy sis and feeling ko ayaw lang niya magpa dalos dalos sa mga gagawin naming moves/ steps for this. sabi kasi niya antayin daw namin yung pinaka ok na time para magusap kami.
Haha naguguluhan na nga din ako. naiistress ako because of that problem na kung tutuusin, yung iba walang makain pero go padin sa buhay.

 

Since exclusive kayo at laging magkasama sis tisaygirl, hindi ba BF narin yun?  Ano ang pagkakaiba ng bf at sa relationship ninyo (may  nalalaman ka parin na ultimatum  ) except for the formal labeling lang?

Typical Pinoy guy who has low IQ/EQ or paano mo ba sabihin yun, hindi sya marunong mag isip at i-digest ang naiisip at nararamdaman nya, kaya di nya ma express.

Ang hirap magkaron ng ganyang kausap - kahit sa personal relationship, sa trabaho man or sa mga ka-deal mo sa labas. Lagi kang nanghuhula, sya naman clueless din.


labels can be deceiving. Ang daming lalaki dyan label single pero may MGA asawa (more than 1 pa) at mga anak din. 


Anyway, sya malabo. sis medyo magulo din ang gusto mo. So puede nga kayo magjive together. Joke lang. hehe     But really, this is not the way to go to handle your relationships, unless you have all the time in the world and doing nothing, just thinking about this. Ang sakit sa ulo.

Exactly, slickchick (gestures for a high five).

Tisay Gerl,

If you don't wanna commit, then both of you should agree. If the guy doesn't agree, drop him.

Kung gusto niyo ng relationship, and ayaw mo naman, drop him too.

Simple ang buhay; like what my boss said, "Huwag mong gawing complicated." But I believe na nasa may katawan pa ren yan eh. We can write a novel about what you can do but at the end of the day, desisyon mo pa ren yan.

And why is the guy you're dating being jealous naman? Di ba niya alam or hindi ba siya totally aware sa setup niyo?

I know the concept na drop him if you're not into him. hmm.. He's aware, pero siguro hindi din niya maiwasan. Idk?
magulo eh masyadong magulo. 

baka naman kasi pang kama lang tingin nila sa isa't isa at hindi relationship material..hahaha

That's your opinion.

[fredprinz]

So can we all agree that there's no solution to Tisaygirl's predicament? 

[tisaygirl123]

So can we all agree that there's no solution to Tisaygirl's predicament? 

haha! Of course meron, lahat ng problems meron. 

[j.adore]

Lakas din ng trip neto ano

[Girltalker2]

btw, he's not pinoy sis and feeling ko ayaw lang niya magpa dalos dalos sa mga gagawin naming moves/ steps for this. sabi kasi niya antayin daw namin yung pinaka ok na time para magusap kami.

So hindi pinoy. Baka chinese, mahina rin ang mga communication skills nila e. Pero hindi lahat ha. Most lang naman    Basta ganyan ang mga lalaki, maraming hindi ma express ang nasa loobin, idadaan nalang sa inuman, or what.

Haha naguguluhan na nga din ako. naiistress ako because of that problem na kung tutuusin, yung iba walang makain pero go padin sa buhay.

Sis, walang commitment naman kayo. So what is so stressful about it? 

I remember when I used to date, nang walang commitment. Ang saya nga, walang galit. Kahit ano puede mong gawin, kahit hindi mo pansinin ang text nya.  Lahat kayo cool lang.

That's your opinion.

Uy si sacred cow iyan. He is a guy. Andito ang post mo sa questions regarding men. If at all may weight lahat ng responses dito, di ba mas may weight kung guys kasi this thread is for guys to answer?

[tisaygirl123]

About the nationality, He's not pinoy. Sana nga makapagusap na kami. I used to do that too sis pero this one kasi is different from the other guys that I dated before. Madaming unique sa kanya e na hindi maipaliwanang.

Yes yes, I'm waiting for the guy talker to answer. Yang si sacred cow madalas pinag tritripan lang yung post ko. I don't take his post seriously. lol

So hindi pinoy. Baka chinese, mahina rin ang mga communication skills nila e. Pero hindi lahat ha. Most lang naman    Basta ganyan ang mga lalaki, maraming hindi ma express ang nasa loobin, idadaan nalang sa inuman, or what.

Sis, walang commitment naman kayo. So what is so stressful about it? 

I remember when I used to date, nang walang commitment. Ang saya nga, walang galit. Kahit ano puede mong gawin, kahit hindi mo pansinin ang text nya.  Lahat kayo cool lang.


Uy si sacred cow iyan. He is a guy. Andito ang post mo sa questions regarding men. If at all may weight lahat ng responses dito, di ba mas may weight kung guys kasi this thread is for guys to answer?

[fredprinz]

Hi Honey Bunny!

Yeah, mine is a bit baliko but it was like that even before ako nagstart mag-"jocks." And no, hindi namen binabaliko. Tinry kong ituwid nung college ako pero sobrang sakit. Nakakatawa mang basahin pero hindi siya tutuwid. =(

Bakit may mga guys na baliko ang tool? Binabaliko nyo ba yun? Or nasanay with the way you masterb***?

[j.adore]

I think it has to do with how it's positioned in the underwear when growing up?

[slickchick]

^ may effect din kaya yun sis if the guy prefers brief over boxers? kasi syempre mas napo-position ng mabuti sa briefs...

hmmm.. masabihan nga yung 8-year old son ko na magsuot ng underwear ng maayos.. baka bumaliko eh.. hahah! 

[Girltalker2]

^ sis, parang you are implying that pinapansin lang ng mga lalaki yung "pretty" sa paningin nila? kapag hindi, hindi na nila pinapansin? ganun ba yun?

[jtansanco]

^^ Bakit kami iiwas? Like you said, she's a "friend". If she's a friend, I'll not care about her looks because she's a friend...

[sacred cow]

kapag may babaeng kaibigan kayo na pretty, pero nung medyo nagkaedad na at nawala na ang ganda, papansinin mo pa rin ba sya gaya ng pagpansin mo sa kanya dati o medyo iiwas na kayo?

of course, even if it's just to tease her about getting fat or getting ugly. that's what friends do, maglaitan at mag-asaran nang harapan, laugh about it and have each other's back pa rin

[fredprinz]

I hit on/talk to her in playful way, compliment the way she dresses and teases her if I found something funny. I make it a point na parati kong binibida ang sarili ko sa kanya, in a playful manner again and hindi lalabas na mayabang (may big difference ang "nakakatawa" sa "hambog").

I say stuff like:
1) "Aminin mo, ako na ang pinaka-nakakatawang guy na nakilala mo!"
2) "Lumaki ako sa hirap, pero check mo kamay ko, malambot" - sabay I try to take her hand
3) Minsan may usapang bastos din, pero lumulugar ako kasi ayoko maka-offend kahit biruan pa yun

Basta nothing overboard.

Question: Guys, Paano ba kayo magpapansin or magpacute sa girl officemate nyo - na type mo - na may bf na (knowing na si bf malayo kay gf at minsanan lang sila magkita) ?

[Girltalker2]

Question: Guys, Paano ba kayo magpapansin or magpacute sa girl officemate nyo - na type mo - na may bf na (knowing na si bf malayo kay gf at minsanan lang sila magkita) ?

As a guy, bakit mo kelangan magpa cute kung type mo yung girl?  Bakit hindi mo puede sabihin nalang ng direcho you are interested to get to know her, if she is too, just invite her for coffee or something?

Bakit kelangan pa mag pasakalye, minsan nakakairita din because you might be misconstrued as "flirting" with evil intentions.

[fredprinz]

Hi Girltalker!

I am, again, speaking only for myself and not for all guys here in GT.

I don't wanna come off as too serious, and that is why I flirt. Napakadali sabihin na, "I like you, let's go out to get fishballs or something" KUNG gusto din ako nung babae. I don't like being too romantic, hindi ako 'yun eh. If I'm Ryan Gosling, I can be as boring as I can be and not have trouble asking a girl out on a first date.

It's fun banter basta hindi nababastusan sa'ken yung babae or I am not making any moves/implying something that will offend her.

Ano 'yung nakakairita? Please share your experiences, if there are any.

As a guy, bakit mo kelangan magpa cute kung type mo yung girl?  Bakit hindi mo puede sabihin nalang ng direcho you are interested to get to know her, if she is too, just invite her for coffee or something?

Bakit kelangan pa mag pasakalye, minsan nakakairita din because you might be misconstrued as "flirting" with evil intentions.

[Girltalker2]

^ Pero you won't know if the girl is also interested in you, if you won't ask.  Tsaka asking her out does not mean you are making ligaw.  You just want to get to know her - just make it clear na getting to know lang di ba and you guys are free to date anyone?

Feeling ko nga mas madali malaman ng guy if the girl is interested. If she says no, at least alam mo na, di nasayang ang flirting efforts mo.  hehe

Nakakairita for me because it is nonsense flirting. What are your intentions?  Feeling ko may BF na yung tao, or in other cases, may husband na, and yet the guts of the other guy to flirt around. Worse, if the guy has a GF pa or a wife. Di ba nakakabastos yun?

[sacred cow]

I agree with girltalker, I don't like mga pasakalye and all. kung ayaw sakin ng girl, I'd just find another girl..mas ok na mareject kaagad kesa magsayang ng oras at effort. my time is too important to waste on people who don't like me