Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)

[graezieylicious]

^@nene1117, make sure that both of you are single....and ready to mingle hehe..I dont make patol sa may gf or asawa na...yuck no, waste of time and energy. HAHAHAHA

[nene1117]

oo sis, lesson ko na rin yun sa sarili ko...
pero now, supper happy na ako with my fiance..wala na ako balak balikan pa ang nakaraan..
my past made me a better person

[graezieylicious]

oo sis, lesson ko na rin yun sa sarili ko...
pero now, supper happy na ako with my fiance..wala na ako balak balikan pa ang nakaraan..
my past made me a better person

Right. Your past doesnt define you. We should learn it the hard way. Tough love. But thats life. Congrats sis!

[jtansanco]

If both of you are are attracted to each other, yes it is easy. I'm not the keme type of girl so I can say to a guy straight in his face that "I like him" or "I do have feelings for him na" What kind of hanging out ba jtsanco? hahahaha

So go call him and tell him you want to marry him! Para matuloy na yang date niyo! Hahaha. It's just movies and eating out. I need a weekend buddy you know. Or should I say, weekend girlfriend. 

[graezieylicious]

^Marriage? goodness!Do you know what you are saying? HAHAHA. Movies and eating out lang? wala na activities like starting with F...like fishing perhaps? hahahahaha [textspeak!]-ano bang mga gustong activities or bonding ng guys?

[jtansanco]

^ Haha wholesome to. I just want company. I'm at my best doing things my way but sometimes it's boring so I want to hangout with women. Haha. Since I'm an introvert, I'm already happy with eating out and movies. Simple things in life.

[jazzlawyer]

straight guys, can you admit you know a good looking guy when you see one?

[sacred cow]

^ yes. yung di makaamin if he finds a guy good looking are the ones who have issues

[Xoxolol]

'daig pa ng malandi ang maganda' totoo ba 'to?

[simang]

'daig pa ng malandi ang maganda' totoo ba 'to?

Depende. Define malandi? Kung ang malandi eh yung friendly, yung outgoing, yung hindi killjoy, yung may sariling opinion, yung magaling magdala ng sarili, yung confident... Oo daig nya yung magandang tahimik at mahiyain.

[fredprinz]

Para sa'ken, daig ng isang confident at independent woman ang isang maganda pero timid. Just my take.

[fredprinz]

A weekend "girlfriend" won't work for me kung walang f-ISH-ing, JT. Hahaha!

Well, activities for guys? I like going to different restaurants lalo na pag Japanese ang dish and trying different craft beers. And yung may makakasama manuod ng mainstream movie.

A guy saying, "Let's hang out" na ikaw lang ang niyaya, oh you know it's a "date", ladies. Hahaha!

^Marriage? goodness!Do you know what you are saying? HAHAHA. Movies and eating out lang? wala na activities like starting with F...like fishing perhaps? hahahahaha [textspeak!]-ano bang mga gustong activities or bonding ng guys?

[tisaygirl123]

What if the guy is keep on asking "Ano mo ba ako? or Kaano ano mo ba ako?"
Sinasagot ko naman na very clear na" wala,  hindi tayo magka ano ano."

After 1 year dating and mutual feelings for each other. medyo naguguluhan ako dun sa mga ganong claseng questions.

[tisaygirl123]

Ang mga lalaki ba  talaga pag may problema pinapatagal pa?

[slickchick]

What if the guy is keep on asking "Ano mo ba ako? or Kaano ano mo ba ako?"
Sinasagot ko naman na very clear na" wala,  hindi tayo magka ano ano."

After 1 year dating and mutual feelings for each other. medyo naguguluhan ako dun sa mga ganong claseng questions.

sis, define "mutual feelings for each other"... as in you like each other after 1 year of dating? perhaps the guy is asking you kung mag-bf/gf na ba kayo...

[tisaygirl123]

sis, define "mutual feelings for each other"... as in you like each other after 1 year of dating? perhaps the guy is asking you kung mag-bf/gf na ba kayo...

mutual = He asked me if I like him. I said yes, i asked him too. Yes din sagot niya.
But I told him ayaw ko ng commitment. Maybe after 3-4 years pa.

He's always asking that before, pero ngayon medyo nagka problem kami. Parang na fifeel ko na hindi na niya yata ako gusto. I don't know.

Kasi nagka problem kami and I really want it to fix asap,(LAGI KAMING GANON DATI, INAAYOS AGAD LAHAT NG PROBLEMS) pero he said i'll give him one week. mag isang buwan na itong problema pero hindi pa naayos. 2 weeks ko na din siyang hindi nakikita.

so my another questions is ang lalaki ba pag may problem pinapatal pa bago isolve?
sabi kasi niya he needs time to think muna.

[simang]

What if the guy is keep on asking "Ano mo ba ako? or Kaano ano mo ba ako?"
Sinasagot ko naman na very clear na" wala,  hindi tayo magka ano ano."

After 1 year dating and mutual feelings for each other. medyo naguguluhan ako dun sa mga ganong claseng questions.

Bakit ka naguguluhan? Eh alam mo naman ang sagot? Sinagot mo naman na hindi kayo magkaano ano.

mutual = He asked me if I like him. I said yes, i asked him too. Yes din sagot niya.
But I told him ayaw ko ng commitment. Maybe after 3-4 years pa

If you dont want a boyfriend, baka naman unfair for him na you two like each other pero cant be exclusve? Like girls, men want security too. Madalas, sila yung hini maghahang-on sa mga bagay na walang assurance. 3-4 yrs of liking each other without commitment... tama ka, baka nga di ka na nya gusto, or maybe nagsawa sya sa setup ninyo.

Ang mga lalaki ba  talaga pag may problema pinapatagal pa?

Ang mga lalaki hindi pinapatagal ang problema for the sake of it. Kung sinabi nyang he needs time to think, that means he needs time to think. Hindi naman sila kagaya nating mga babae na "i need tim to think" pero the truth is nagpapacute lang naman tayo para suyuin nila.

[gharz412]

Hi everyone, I don't want to sound assuming pero nagkita kame kanina ng asawa ko and ang akala kong di na niya ako papansinan tulad ng dati is nag iba as in hinatid niya ako sa work kumain pa kame together dikit siya ng dikit saken yung tipong feeling ko gusto niya pa iwork out yung marriage namen, tama ba ako dun or feelingera lang talaga ako?

[simang]

^sis what do you want ba? Kase kung alam mo ang gusto mo, lahat ng gagawin nya should not affect you. If gusto mo iworkout ang marriage nyo, kahit gano pa sya kabalahura sayo gagawa ka pa din ng way para maayos. The opposite is true. Kung ayaw mo na talaga, kahit pa gano sya kasweet, you will stick with your guns.

Also, will a moment of sweet togetherness erase everything negative na ginawa nya? Kaya malakas loob ng mga lalaki gumawa ng kabalbalan eh, ang dali kase mag sorry sa mga babae. Konting suyo suyo lang okay na lahat.

Bottomline is, kmow what you want and stick to it. Also, if he really wants to work things out it's the consistency of his actions that you have to observe. Hinatid at dinate ka isang beses says nothing really.

[gharz412]

hay oo nga eh, sobrang mahal ko lang ata talaga asawa ko   even I cannot really understand myself. Indenial ba ako or what??