Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)

[mischa04]

Curios lang po. Guys, talaga bang may thinking kayo sa girls na ganito "kapag nakuha ko yan, wala yan".. talking about nakuha as in for sex po.. And  'wala yan' means what po? cheap yung na yung girl or what? Thank you.

[jtansanco]

Curios lang po. Guys, talaga bang may thinking kayo sa girls na ganito "kapag nakuha ko yan, wala yan".. talking about nakuha as in for sex po.. And  'wala yan' means what po? cheap yung na yung girl or what? Thank you.

Can't seem to understand but the only thing I could think of at the top of my mind is that guy will do everything for sex and after that, the end.

[graezieylicious]

Can't seem to understand but the only thing I could think of at the top of my mind is that guy will do everything for sex and after that, the end.

Paano pag ang girl nagisip sa guy ng ganun? HAHAHAA LOL 

[jtansanco]

^ Naughty mind! Haha! Then that means, all guys will live happily ever after. Hahaha 
Ano na balita sa love life mo??? 

[graezieylicious]

Hahaha sperm donor na lang ako pwede? HAHAHA. Parang natatakot ako mag commit NO FREEDOM AT ALL. Dito mo talaga yan tinatanung jtsanco ah hahaha

[jtansanco]

^ Haha that's why only commit to the guy you'll eventually want to get married to. 

[graezieylicious]

^ Haha that's why only commit to the guy you'll eventually want to get married to. 

MARRIAGE? Big word for me. Mas mahirap kaya maging wife, mother, friend to both husband and kids plus SS (sex slave) pa at night hahahaha Dapat may balance in everything eh

[stealthscorpio]

Curios lang po. Guys, talaga bang may thinking kayo sa girls na ganito "kapag nakuha ko yan, wala yan".. talking about nakuha as in for sex po.. And  'wala yan' means what po? cheap yung na yung girl or what? Thank you.

^
Medyo vague ang last phrase but I think siguro the guy is only after your "land" down under.. pagkatapos ma conquer ang "land" wala na.. Just plant the flag and voila! Disappear.

[jtansanco]

^^ Rephrase.... That's why only commit to the houseband you'll eventually want to get married to. Haha. You can just get maids there. There's no such thing here.

[graezieylicious]

^He must be that AMAZING and worthy to LOVE perhaps? HAHAHHA

[mischa04]

Sabi kasi ng guy friend ko ganon daw talaga mag isip mga lalaki pag gusto nila subukan kung madadala nila in bed ang isang babae.. "Pag nakuha ko yan (nakasex), wala yan (wala ng kwenta ang girl specially pag pangkama lang want ang girl)".. Ganon ba talaga thinking ng mga guys?

[slickchick]

just a thought, parang ang weird kase na after 5 months biglang nagkaconcern, Asar, ang hirap tuloy mag move on

in my opinion sis, the safe thing to do is not to assume... if the guy really wants you back in his life, he will find a way to win you back.. less expectations, less disappointments..

[simang]

Sabi kasi ng guy friend ko ganon daw talaga mag isip mga lalaki pag gusto nila subukan kung madadala nila in bed ang isang babae.. "Pag nakuha ko yan (nakasex), wala yan (wala ng kwenta ang girl specially pag pangkama lang want ang girl)".. Ganon ba talaga thinking ng mga guys?

hindi siguro importante how guys think, mas significant how a woman can prove to them na they're of more value than just that.

[gharz412]

in my opinion sis, the safe thing to do is not to assume... if the guy really wants you back in his life, he will find a way to win you back.. less expectations, less disappointments..

well, tama ka dun pero kase i'm not really into going back again to my husband I just want to move on but it seems so hard for now since we have a kid.

[slickchick]

^ sis, i'm also a single mom and i have a son.. though hindi kami kinasal ng dad ng son ko, i know the feeling na parang binabalikan ka nya and ikaw yung biglang unsure about your feelings... if i may ask sis, ano ba reason why you separated ways? kung major issue yung cause of separation (i.e. infidelity, physical/mental/emotional/sexual abuse, etc...), then i personally think hindi enough reason yung may anak kayo kaya hindi ka maka-move on.. mahirap sa umpisa... but if you really want to have a new and better life with your kid, kakayanin mo kasi mas mahirap if the kid grows up in an unhealthy environment where his/her parents are not getting along well.. just my opinion sis..

[Girltalker2]

^ yes, in fact ang danger pa nyan is that most girls (di lahat but majority) in that situation might fall pa for the guy. Kaya being a girl, it is best to distance yourself from 1 guy, and mingle and be open to friendships din ng ibang singles (I'm assuming single yung girl ha).

[graezieylicious]

hindi siguro importante how guys think, mas significant how a woman can prove to them na they're of more value than just that.

Having a fubu/casual sex or fling will never define my value to a guy. I define my value. Ang guy hindi naman love agad, its your behavior after sex that will make him drawn to you.

[jtansanco]

^^ and ^^^ - I think it's the other way around. It's much easier for a guy to fall for a girl than the other way around if only the two of you hangout. Like in my case, I've been trying to hangout with a girl. Because of the "differences", I know we'll be friends but for some reason, a part of me wants to like her as I continue seeing her. But for her, I'm sure it's just friendship. 

[nene1117]

I had a FUBU before mga more than 12 years ago na..
kakabreak lang namin ng ex before, I felt down, everything ng sadnesss na pwede mo mafeel is narramdamdaman ko that time.. And there was this man na kapitbahay ko na medyo may itsura at mukhang malinis caught my attention.. we became casual friends, kakwentuhan minsan at katext paminsan minsan.. may GF cia pero LDR...
then one time ayun bigla na lang you know.. tas naging madalas,.. kumbaga ittext ko cia if medyo nallungkot ako at kailangan ng karamay or nasstress.. ttext ko lang cia tas maya maya andian na cia..
after 2months ata nung nafeel ko na nafall na ako sa kanya..sa kakapalan pa ng mukha one time na medyo lasing ako, nitext ko yung GF nia using his fone, sabi ko "katabi ko now BF mo sa kama"..
Tas as in katabi ko si guy nung nageexplain cia sa GF nia na barkada lang nia yun na lalaki at pinagttripan lang cia at love na love nia si girl at di nia kayang magbreak sila... Kita ko sa mata ni guy nung pagkasabi nia yun sa fone and super hurt ako..
Kaya mula nun lumayo na lang ako kasi alam ko talo ako..
--based sa experience ko, maffall talaga ang girl, sa lalaki wala lang siguro.. kung papasok ka sa FUBU dapat FUBU lang talaga, wag hayaang masama ang feelings

[graezieylicious]

^^ and ^^^ - I think it's the other way around. It's much easier for a guy to fall for a girl than the other way around if only the two of you hangout. Like in my case, I've been trying to hangout with a girl. Because of the "differences", I know we'll be friends but for some reason, a part of me wants to like her as I continue seeing her. But for her, I'm sure it's just friendship. 

If both of you are are attracted to each other, yes it is easy. I'm not the keme type of girl so I can say to a guy straight in his face that "I like him" or "I do have feelings for him na" What kind of hanging out ba jtsanco? hahahaha