Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)

[Ms. Right]

Is it normal na hindi ako takot makipagbreak sa significant other ko?  With my past relationships kasi, ako yung tipong nagmamakaawa pa pag hinihiwalayan. After ending my 5 year toxic relationship, andaming nagbago and isa na 'to. What do you guys think?

[jtansanco]

^ Yeah, should be normal. If the spark is gone or if you fall out of love, then just end it but make sure you tell your significant other a good reason for the sake of his sanity. I find it easy for women to be cold in an instant but please show some mercy to the guy when breaking up. Don't just disappear. Tell him the reason.

[stealthscorpio]

Is it normal na hindi ako takot makipagbreak sa significant other ko?  With my past relationships kasi, ako yung tipong nagmamakaawa pa pag hinihiwalayan. After ending my 5 year toxic relationship, andaming nagbago and isa na 'to. What do you guys think?

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In my own opinion, I think you don't fear leaving your significant other because you don't have that deep "attachment" to him OR it might be that you have developed an "inner strength" that tends you to leave someone without any remorse. Maybe it's your other selves that is living within you already; the stronger one (positively speaking) or the vengeful one (negatively speaking).

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Ms. right, it's not a question really of what is the norm eh... it's more of a question of why you're breaking up with your s.o. I would hope that you have a very good reason why you're breaking up with the person. To say that your previous 'toxic' relationship has an effect on this current state you are at --- well, quite inconclusive. Everything that happens to us always has an effect on how we deal with things and what not, but that is not the main point in question anyway. Going back, if you're breaking up with someone because you're no longer happy, then go right ahead. If you're breaking up with someone because you thought all along that that person was the one, but realized later on that you were wrong then that's okay, too. Really now, breaking up is among those inevitable things in life as this requires decision making - of which, I am sure you have control over. So, just before you say bye bye to your s.o. do please make sure that you are certain of your decision. Good luck!

[Ms. Right]

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In my own opinion, I think you don't fear leaving your significant other because you don't have that deep "attachment" to him OR it might be that you have developed an "inner strength" that tends you to leave someone without any remorse. Maybe it's your other selves that is living within you already; the stronger one (positively speaking) or the vengeful one (negatively speaking).

This. Nasabi rin sakin 'to nung guy friend ko. Siguro daw natuto na ko sa mga kahinaan ko dati 

Hi guys i think some got my question wrong hehe sorry kung nagcause ng confusion. Just to clear the issue, hindi po ako makikipagbreak kay bf. Yung question ko, which is nagtataka ako kung bakit ganun, eh nagsimula lang yun nung nagtry ako makipagbreak before sa current bf ko. Nagulat lang ako sa nasabi at nagawa ko kaya ganun kasi im not really the type na nakikipagbreak. Ako yung kabaligtaran nun. Anyway, Salamat sa pagsagot

[Tootsie31]

If you like a girl, how long do you take before asking her to go out, just the two of you?

I know a guy who I regularly meet weekly since 31 August. He has a regular 8am-5pm job. We meet with our friends every Thursday and Friday nights and Saturday afternoons until the wee hours.

There are clues that we both like each other but we are not that so close pa, getting to know phase ika nga. Kahit ako, ayoko pa namang maging kame but yung thrill na kayong dalawa lang maguusap and magkasama e hindi pa nangyayari yun.

Thanks in advance!

[stealthscorpio]

If you like a girl, how long do you take before asking her to go out, just the two of you?

I know a guy who I regularly meet weekly since 31 August. He has a regular 8am-5pm job. We meet with our friends every Thursday and Friday nights and Saturday afternoons until the wee hours.

There are clues that we both like each other but we are not that so close pa, getting to know phase ika nga. Kahit ako, ayoko pa namang maging kame but yung thrill na kayong dalawa lang maguusap and magkasama e hindi pa nangyayari yun.

Thanks in advance!

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Well, it might be na pinakikiramdaman ka pa niya at ikaw eh waiting. So, I think dapat iyong guy kapag maka charge na nag enough confidence eh, that's the time na he will ask you for a dinner or coffee, but I suggest that it could be a somehow serious one if the first date will be a lunch or a coffee date than a beer or liquor date.

[Girltalker2]

^ sis tootsie, depende sa guy iyan e.

minsan you have to see din kung may reasons for him not to do it YET.  ang tagal naman Aug-Oct pa?
baka may GF/asawa na iyan. 

[Tootsie31]

@stealthscorpio thanks sa response mo. baka nga nakikiramdam pa nga, but I'd like to know him better pero hindi ko alam pano simulan hehe, like ma-confirm kung wala pa syang GF/asawa

@Girltalker2 - Single daw sya eh, yan ang sinabi nya sa mga kasama ko. hindi ko naman tinatanong sya, parang nakakailang tanungin eh. hehe. in-add nya ako kagad sa FB nung first meet namin so sign na like nya ko, yung iba naming friends e hindi pa kagad... Nicheck ko na rin FB nya, wala namang GF... pero still not sure kasi may privacy settings ang FB

[stealthscorpio]

Hmmm.... I suggest you should strike any probing question pero hindi ganun ka obvious. Like "bakit wala ka pang gf" Not like "may gf ka na ba" kasi it's gonna make you sound awkward... hehe It really depends on how you construct words to make a question hide it's true intention.

[Tootsie31]

Tignan ko kung matatanong ko yan sa next meeting namin. Thanks stealthscorpio

[stealthscorpio]

Tignan ko kung matatanong ko yan sa next meeting namin. Thanks stealthscorpio

^
hahaha... sure you're welcome.. Ü Basta di lang iyong awkward... Ü

[Pink_Sugar]

Bakit yung mga lalaki mahilig sa mapuputing girls? Tinanong ko ang bf ko kung bakit gusto nya maputi ang sagot sa akin kasi para pink daw ang tits?!! LOL

[jtansanco]

^ Because being fair-skinned is uncommon in the PH. It's the same with the Americans. White guys aren't attracted to blondes, they're attracted to "longkatoots" because of their "exotic" look which is why you drop your jaw whenever you see who are the partners of the White DOMs there.

[kukii]

^LOLed at "longkatoots" hindi pwedeng tanned girls or morena beauties? Hahaha.

[jtansanco]

^ Hindi rin e... You rarely see a morena beauty with a White guy. Extreme exotic looks ang hanap nila e. Hahaha

[kukii]

^Sabagay haha "success story" that's what me and my friends say when we see a white guy and his... partner.

[jtansanco]

^ Yeah, but more often than not, the offspring of this combination has perfect looks especially if it's a woman.

[Pink_Sugar]

Ano bang nakikita nila sa mga exotic beauty? Mas maasikaso ba parang longkatoots? Lol

[stealthscorpio]

^ Hindi rin e... You rarely see a morena beauty with a White guy. Extreme exotic looks ang hanap nila e. Hahaha

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Extreme talaga bro? ahaha Pero I agree. I've seen a lot as well. Ako gusto ko morena number one. Maputi 2nd..