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JSmoove

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #40 on: October 06, 2014, 06:25:17 pm »
^ true, 2 months, dapat honeymoon stage pa yan eh, yung tipong  you're still very sweet to each other. na halos di na kayo mapaghiwalay. the fact that you did this to him says a lot about your relationship. baka naman natatakot ka lang mawalan or be left alone?

Says a lot about the character of the girl too.

argento

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #41 on: October 06, 2014, 06:40:31 pm »
^pag may bago ng bf yan tapos nakulangan sa pagiging sweet magcheat uli yan.

Not wife gf/wife material.
« Last Edit: October 06, 2014, 06:43:12 pm by argento »

p0isonIvy

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #42 on: October 06, 2014, 06:42:26 pm »
Says a lot about the character of the girl too.

true. or it could be hindi pa talaga ganun kalalim ang relasyon nila. or hindi pa ganun ka-mature si girl.

p0isonIvy

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #43 on: October 06, 2014, 10:15:13 pm »
@celebrity_me, unfortunately for you as a girl, our culture is harsh and unforgiving towards cheating women but tolerant towards cheating men as evidenced by most of the comments here. Talagang may double standards but It is what it is. My suggestion is to learn from your mistake and move on; pabayaan mo na yung ex mo. I doubt if he'll be able to forgive you and accept you back as his GF.

^ i wont say na tolerant pag lalake ang nag cheat. i think they're on the same boat had it been the guy who cheated in the first two months. cheating is cheating, regardless of who is the one doing it.

ziontrec

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #44 on: October 06, 2014, 11:01:43 pm »
cheating is cheating, regardless of who is the one doing it.

hell yeah

alice_alice

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #45 on: October 06, 2014, 11:10:34 pm »
^pag may bago ng bf yan tapos nakulangan sa pagiging sweet magcheat uli yan.

Not wife gf/wife material.

True that. Also she also mentioned na nakikipagusap at nakikipagkita sa iba. What if mawalan lang ng time bagong bf niya? Ganyan uli gagawin niya. Srsly, ayusin muna sana ang sarili wag na muna makipagrelasyon. Di naman porket nagsisi na ng bongga eh dapat ng balikan. It does not work that way especially of trust na ang nasira.

p0isonIvy

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #46 on: October 06, 2014, 11:20:03 pm »
^ i think she is better off playing around with fubus in the mean time, until she finally learns/realizes what she really wants

young_maiden

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #47 on: October 07, 2014, 12:10:26 am »
guys, if you ask a female friend kung nagpapaligaw ba siya, ano ba usually meaning nun? aware naman ako na di agad ibig sabihin na type nyo yung girl. pero bothered kasi ako sa asar ng isang guy friend ko. nagpapaligaw daw ako. wtf. aminado ako lately naglalagay na ako ng make-up at nagsusuot ako ng mga dresses. pero ginagawa ko yun for myself, para dagdag confidence. kung may makapansin man na guy sa akin, bonus na lang yun.

i know joke lang yun pero nakakaasar pa din. pag nagtanong ba si guy ng ganun kay girl, it means may aura si girl na gusto niya magpaligaw? if yes, turn on ba o turn off yun?

simang

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #48 on: October 07, 2014, 05:05:23 am »
^Best thing to do? IGNORE. If you know in your heart you're not doing it for anybody else than yourself, bat ka apektado? You have to be genuine about being confident, and the best way to do it is to not give a fvck.

young_maiden

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #49 on: October 07, 2014, 06:32:38 am »
Thanks sis. Masyado lang ata ako naging sensitive. Malakas lang talaga mangtrip itong guy friend ko.

simang

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #50 on: October 07, 2014, 08:24:21 am »
^i see you're still working on your confidence.. It will take time and a lot of practice lol to actually not give a sh*t to what other people will say. When you care less, you stress yourself less too. Good luck!!!

kukii

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #51 on: October 07, 2014, 09:03:20 am »
^pag may bago ng bf yan tapos nakulangan sa pagiging sweet magcheat uli yan.

Not wife gf/wife material.

True! Same goes with guys who cheat. They've done it once, they will definitely do it again OR NOT but just remember what Lady ga** said “Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother fvcker's reflection.” ;D

@celebrity_me Live your life nalang muna and if you meet that sweet prince you are longing for wag mo na ulitin yung nagawa mo dati, learn from your mistake. Goodluck!

stealthscorpio

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #52 on: October 07, 2014, 10:06:50 am »
sis celebrity_me, i agree with the post above. if your bf was not serious about you, he wouldn't introduce you right away to his family, to think that the relationship was just 2 months old. and i cannot blame your bf if he never talks to you again.. friend pa nya yung ipinalit mo... double whammy sis.. napahiya siya eh.. he introduced a girl to his family whom he thinks is worthy and decent enough... unfortunately, you proved him wrong, at sa friend pa nya sis... personally and in my opinion lang naman, kung yung pagiging malambing and sweet lang ang reason mo for cheating, ang babaw sis, especially na 2 months pa lang kayo.. you could've at least talked to him about it and gave him a chance to improve, hindi yung niloko mo sya agad, at sa friend pa nya... and ikaw na rin ang nagsabi that there are other good things and memories na nangyari dun sa 2 months kayo.. hindi ba enough yung good things and good memories na yun for you to stay true to your guy? minsan kasi tayong mga babae, we tend to focus on the smaller things, that we overlook the bigger and more substantial matters in the relationship... siguro sis, give your guy some time to heal din.. after all, sabi mo nga, you did what you could.. if he really and truly loves you, perhaps, he'll be able to look beyong that cheating incident.. otherwise, let this be a learning experience to you and sana wag mo na ulitin.. just my two cents worth...  :)

^Indeed

insanelypurpleprincess

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #53 on: October 07, 2014, 10:21:11 am »
guys, if you ask a female friend kung nagpapaligaw ba siya, ano ba usually meaning nun? aware naman ako na di agad ibig sabihin na type nyo yung girl. pero bothered kasi ako sa asar ng isang guy friend ko. nagpapaligaw daw ako. wtf. aminado ako lately naglalagay na ako ng make-up at nagsusuot ako ng mga dresses. pero ginagawa ko yun for myself, para dagdag confidence. kung may makapansin man na guy sa akin, bonus na lang yun.

i know joke lang yun pero nakakaasar pa din. pag nagtanong ba si guy ng ganun kay girl, it means may aura si girl na gusto niya magpaligaw? if yes, turn on ba o turn off yun?

It's possible na malakas lang siya mang-asar and so let him be. He can try to troll you all he likes, but you just keep doing what you're doing, sis! Wearing make-up and nice clothes always makes me happy, too. If it does make you happy, then carry on. When you're happy deep inside then it will add to your outer glow. And soon enough, you will feel so much better about yourself and all great things start happening to you!

young_maiden

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #54 on: October 07, 2014, 07:08:03 pm »
@ simang and insanelypurpleprincess

heto ang trait na hate na hate ko sa sarili ko. yung magwoworry kung ano iisipin sa akin ng ibang tao. sana maalis ko na ito. i'm trying my best. ano nga ba naman paki ng ibang tao kung nag aayos ako? para naman sa akin ito. hindi para mapansin ako ng iba :)

stealthscorpio

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #55 on: October 08, 2014, 09:42:48 am »
guys, if you ask a female friend kung nagpapaligaw ba siya, ano ba usually meaning nun? aware naman ako na di agad ibig sabihin na type nyo yung girl. pero bothered kasi ako sa asar ng isang guy friend ko. nagpapaligaw daw ako. wtf. aminado ako lately naglalagay na ako ng make-up at nagsusuot ako ng mga dresses. pero ginagawa ko yun for myself, para dagdag confidence. kung may makapansin man na guy sa akin, bonus na lang yun.

i know joke lang yun pero nakakaasar pa din. pag nagtanong ba si guy ng ganun kay girl, it means may aura si girl na gusto niya magpaligaw? if yes, turn on ba o turn off yun?

For me, I think nanibago lang siya sayo or it might be his other way to indirectly say that, "Ang ganda mo ngayon ah." I don't know if ganyan din mag-isip ang friend mo but as a guy, that's gonna be the most closest reason. And take note: di yan pang aasar. It means he notices you and possibly baka siya ang gustong manligaw..hahaha kasi pag sinagot mo na oo, baka sabihin niya sayo na baka pwede na siyang manligaw hehe

young_maiden

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #56 on: October 08, 2014, 10:33:38 am »
^ hi bro. bagong guytalker ha. thanks sa opinion mo. baka nga naninibago lang din yun. hehe. recent lang kasi ako nag make up eh. nung kakastart pa lang ng klase, pulbo lang nilalagay ko sa face ko. saka may gf yun so malabong type niya ako. either malakas lang siya mang-asar o nanibago lang kasi nag-aayos na ako. :)

Girltalker2

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #57 on: October 08, 2014, 12:44:37 pm »

@ young_maiden, ilang taon ka na ba?  are you too young to get into relationships (since you mentioned school).

What's wrong when people think na may nanliligaw sayo?  Kung babae ka naman tsaka single?

stealthscorpio

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #58 on: October 09, 2014, 10:17:40 am »
^ hi bro. bagong guytalker ha. thanks sa opinion mo. baka nga naninibago lang din yun. hehe. recent lang kasi ako nag make up eh. nung kakastart pa lang ng klase, pulbo lang nilalagay ko sa face ko. saka may gf yun so malabong type niya ako. either malakas lang siya mang-asar o nanibago lang kasi nag-aayos na ako. :)

^Yup, just been here last week and I found this forum very informative. Tsaka mga open minded ang mga babae dito. Now, you said my gf na pala siya. Well, if that's the case then baka nga malakas lang siya mag asar but it would still be a sign na he notices you. Kasi pag hindi, he would never bother to mind that you are wearing a make up already. :D And you mentioned "start of school" eh, I think you're still a teenager?

young_maiden

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Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 6)
« Reply #59 on: October 10, 2014, 03:18:45 pm »
^ hi bro. Hindi na. 24 na ako. I'm taking up law. Classmate ko yung guy friend na tinutukoy ko. :)

 

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