Am I inlove with my husband's cousin?

[Angelite]

Baka lang miss mo yung feeling ng may love one na physically kasama mo kasi ofw si hubby. Dont confuse that feeling with the babaero cousin.

[roxykarlo]

End that feeling of yours sis. Kawawa ang husband mo, lalo na ang mga kids. And to think cousin pa ng hubby mo, what would their family think of you if Malaman nila? Stop it na. Save yourself from kahihiyan.

[graZiousa]

Iwasan mo na sis. walang hiya rin yang pinsan ng asawa mo no, kung kelan asawa ka na ng pinsa nya magsasabi pa ng may feelings pa sayo. Walang respeto ang tawag dyan sis, walang respeto sa babaeng may asawa na at mas lalong walang respeto sa pinsan nya mismo.

[funky f]

Same advice here. Iwasan. Try not to even entertain the thought na maybe you're falling for him. Pag naiisip mo na, try to think.of your husband instead. Think of your kids. Tingin ko rin sinusubakan lang nyan kung pwede or makakalusot or kung papayag ka.  use your head, sis. Huwag ka papayag maging "victim" nya.

Above all, pray for God's guidance. Ask Him to help you say no to temptation. 

[Pookiekai]

sa mga babaeng may asawa na nililigawan ng lalake na alam na alam naman na may asawa ka na, dapat siguro wag na maflatter at pagtuunan ng pansin ang mabubulaklak na salitang yan instead mainsulto ka. dahil kung me respeto sayo ang lalaking yan, hindi ka nyan liligawan o magpaparamdam dahil alam nya na di ikaw ang tipo ng babae na papatol sa iba dahil may asawa ka na.

i think tama yun sinasabi ng ibang gts dito, miss mo lang me nagpapakilig sayo kasi malayo husband mo at nagkataon na nacut short ang relasyon ninyo ng mahaderong lalake na ito kaya napagtuunan mo ng pansin. sundin mo payo nila, change mo sked ng mass, civil lang sa mga gatherings, block mo sa mga chat accounts mo para di ka mamessage. iwas ka sa tukso. kawawa pamilya mo. that guy is just trying to feed his ego by flirting with u. napakawalang respeto, pati pinsan tinatalo! dont give him the power na pagtawanan nya ang asawa mo. alin, kung sakin nangyari yan, sapak nakuha nya sa akin. ano ko, kaladkarin?

[gharz412]

Una palang dapat hindi mo na hinayaan na bigyan ng time ang taong yan, nakakabwisit isipin na kung pinsan paman din masasabi siya pa sisira sa pamilya...grrr better iwas ka nalang mas mahirap pag lumalim lalo feelings mo diyan. Respetuhin mo yung pagiging asawa at ina mo...

[erza0916]

Napaka bastos ng pinsan ng asawa mo. He knows you're vulnerable so he's preying on you. For what reason? God knows. but im sure it will destroy your family. Don't do something everyone here knows you'll regret. Asawa mo nagttrabaho ng matino sa ibang bansa for you and your kids tapos yan pa ang isusukli mo sakanya? NO! You can say na your husband neglects you or wala syang time or whatever. Don't even think about it! The moment you fall for that conniving cousin of his, you're done for. Everything, out the window into the trash off to the dumpsite.

 Avoid him, sigurado yan magrreach out kesyo bakit bigla kang umiwas, he'll know your putting your guard up and he might pursue you even more. He's so close to hooking you in, he even made you question kung in love ka na ba talaga sa kanya, he will not back down. Tell him na masama ang ginagawa nya and you're better than that. You will not cheat on your husband. Not with him, not with anyone. Nung sinabi nya na may feelings pa sya sayo dapat dun pa lang sinabi mo nang NO.

Divert your attention. Focus it on your kids and trying to strengthen your relationship with your husband. Sa technology ngayon hindi na yun mahirap. Almost all the time online na mga tao. Let him be the first to know kung ano man nararamdaman mo. Lonely, happy, sad, whatever. He should be the one you share those feelings with. As for his cousin, wag syang mag maganda. Hindi sya genius billionaire super model para ipag palit mo pamilya mo sa kanya. That's 3 (your kids and husband) against 1. Sino mas matimbang?