Introvert Guy

[graezieylicious]

How to approach the introvert and intimidated guys?

[sacred cow]

talk to him like a normal person...seriously tsaka pano mo nasabing intimidated yung guy?

[graezieylicious]

because i look intimidating and he seems aloof around me

[sacred cow]

or maybe he's simply not interested in you....yet. engage him in conversations, kahit simpleng kumusta lang, how do you two know each other?

[Pogi_Din]

sabayan mu mag-lunch or snack

[TuscanSun]

any guy has an interest. find it, and use it to break the ice and show that you are cool after all.

[simang]

talk to him like a normal person...seriously

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Baka kase mamaya ikaw ang awkward when he's around, and feel mo lang na aloof sya. Just talk to him and approach him like you would any other person

[graezieylicious]

^May pagka tense kasi siya pag kausap na and parang walang flow yung convo namen? Iba siya kumausap sa iba at sa akin. Yung iba nilalapitan niya talaga eh

[jtansanco]

^ Introvert guys prefer 1-on-1 conversation. Does he talk about himself or does he ask questions about you more? That alone you'll know if he's interested in you or not. But if the topic is always random and going nowhere, personally, I think he's not into you.

[simang]

^to add to that, no guy is 'introvert' or 'torpe' if you may if he's attracted to you. if he doesn't approach you or doesn't make a move it might mean he's not interested enough to risk it.

[stealthscorpio]

No. Torpe exist. Trust me. Pag introvert ang lalaki eh, malamang torpe yan... Pero ang common good side diyan is that those are persons that belong to the 6+ on the looks department. Bahid kasi yan ng narcissism on some eh.

[p0isonIvy]

^May pagka tense kasi siya pag kausap na and parang walang flow yung convo namen? Iba siya kumausap sa iba at sa akin. Yung iba nilalapitan niya talaga eh

girls should really stop analyzing each and every move that a guy makes. believe me, if he likes you, you'll know. guys are not complicated creatures. tayo lang girls ang nagccomplicate minsan 

[zarazan]

^to add to that, no guy is 'introvert' or 'torpe' if you may if he's attracted to you. if he doesn't approach you or doesn't make a move it might mean he's not interested enough to risk it.

Medyo true to. May "torpe" nga pero in the sense lang na hindi ma-approach ang crush lang ang scenario. Pero pag "girlfriend material" na ang crush, all torpe guys will eventually talk to the girl. Trust me. 

Yung mga torpe guys na girls na eventually ang nag-approach, it may not have started as him thinking of you as ligaw/girlfriend-worthy, marerealize na lang niya when close na kayo.

[alexandrea]

Walang flow ang conversation ninyo, he seems tense around you, and he approaches other people without a problem? Sounds like he's not only not into you, but that he also doesn't like you at all as a person for some reason.

Of course, one possibility is that he's too attracted to you to be coherent around you, but usually, the initial awkwardness wears off after a few conversations.

[redhead69]

The one im planning to date with is an introvert guy, he really prefers talking to you directly. Parang everything is serious pero ganon talaga siya. I dont know i find that cute though.

Totoo yung if hindi niya ikaw kinausap no matter how torpe he is ibigsabihin lang non he is not interested. Pero this guy inapproach niya ako. And i can tell na he is really interested sa akin kasi he even asked me out for a dinner with his family. (i dont knowwwww yun lang feeling ko lol)


Try to communicate with him. Communication is the key my friend.

[zarazan]

The one im planning to date with is an introvert guy, he really prefers talking to you directly. Parang everything is serious pero ganon talaga siya. I dont know i find that cute though.

Totoo yung if hindi niya ikaw kinausap no matter how torpe he is ibigsabihin lang non he is not interested. Pero this guy inapproach niya ako. And i can tell na he is really interested sa akin kasi he even asked me out for a dinner with his family. (i dont knowwwww yun lang feeling ko lol)


Try to communicate with him. Communication is the key my friend.

^Naku sis same tayo. Ganyan din boyfriend ko before. What's funny with introvert guys (dunno lang if same for all), is sila yung walang paligoy ligoy. Pag gusto ka, ramdam mo talaga kasi LIGAW agad talaga. HAHAHA! I have a feeling na pinakiramdaman ka na nila muna before ka "ligawan" talaga.

When my introvert boyfriend asked me out then, "dinner for two" agad ang peg. So medyo gets agad. No mind games.

[stealthscorpio]

^Naku sis same tayo. Ganyan din boyfriend ko before. What's funny with introvert guys (dunno lang if same for all), is sila yung walang paligoy ligoy. Pag gusto ka, ramdam mo talaga kasi LIGAW agad talaga. HAHAHA! I have a feeling na pinakiramdaman ka na nila muna before ka "ligawan" talaga.

When my introvert boyfriend asked me out then, "dinner for two" agad ang peg. So medyo gets agad. No mind games.

^
Indeed. Ganito kami...hahahaha! Kagaya kahapon natameme na naman ako!! Argh! Hindi ako naka move..hahaha

[redhead69]

^Naku sis same tayo. Ganyan din boyfriend ko before. What's funny with introvert guys (dunno lang if same for all), is sila yung walang paligoy ligoy. Pag gusto ka, ramdam mo talaga kasi LIGAW agad talaga. HAHAHA! I have a feeling na pinakiramdaman ka na nila muna before ka "ligawan" talaga.

When my introvert boyfriend asked me out then, "dinner for two" agad ang peg. So medyo gets agad. No mind games.

Yeah i really find guys na ganon cute. Di dahil sa torpe pero i think they already know what to do next kasi di ba tahimik sila its like they're already thinking what to do. Aside from that, akala ng iba suplado sila. Pero hindi naman talaga. They will just approach you if may question or if kelangan na kelangan. Kaya lahat ng nagkakacrush dito sa guy na iniisip ko pa idate is suplado and di nila malapitan, if malapitan nila friendly talk lang talaga. Nothing more than that.

[GreenArcher]

I'm an introvert guy and i think you just need to be subtle and not aggressive at the start but when introvert guys get comfortable with you they are not really shy abut can be fun haha sa simula lang ganun hahaha

[blackgreen]

My bf also is an introvert guy. Extreme na nga ata ang pagiging introvert. He was introduced to me by a friend, pero first meet-up pa lang namin, naging madaldal na siya.

Sis zarazan, bf ko di naman agad nanligaw pero tanong agad kung ano na daw ba score sa amin. Hahaha..

I think the key here is to talk to him sincerely. Yes, they prefer 1-on-1 discussion, ayaw nila ng big group di siya comfortable, kaya pag may gatherings kami di ko siya iniiwan magisa.