I caught him cheating on me. Boom!

[killbill]

Please bear with me. A few months ago nag post ako dito regarding the guy that i was dating. Habang tumatagal ayun naging issue na samin yung time and at the same time super praning ako.

Last night my friends and i were having coffee at starbucks sa greenfield district, medyo nagjojoke pa kami kasi there are girls sa kabilang table na nagwewechat, yung beki friend ko sabi what if yung bf ko daw yung kameet nung mga yun. I jokingly said, basag mukha niya. Nung naglalakad na kami pauwi, i saw a blue pickup similar to his, upon checking the plate number. Confirmed! Sa kanya nga. We waited sa bench dun sa park for him to get back sa pickup nya. Then my friend pointed out yung *censored* na may kaholding hands na babae. Nakakainsulto kasi yung itsura naman teh! Ang layo sa level ko as in! I was walking right behind them tapos nung nandun na kami sa pick up the girl saw me first tapos nakita niya ako. Nashock siya tapos hindi nakapagsalita. I stared at him siguro for 5 seconds tapos ayun i tried to slap him kaso naharang niya. Then i blurted out "*censored*" then walked away.

A few minutes later nag text, kesyo cousin niya daw yun from states etc. etc. kung [textspeak!] ano nang tinext ko sa kanya na kesyo nakakadiri sya, ang cheap niya. Panay ang excuse na lesbian daw yun, hindi niya daw taste yun blah blah. I kept saying wag ako, wag na siya mag explain kasi huling huli na siya sa akto. Tapos sabi niya he gave up na daw kasi nagawa ko daw siya tiisin the whole day. (We were fighting kaninang umaga kasi "busy" na naman siya so deadma ko buong araw) then last text niya is GOODBYE!

Naiinis lang ako kasi hindi ko manlang nagamit yung boxing skills ko, na sana nabuhusan ko man lang siya ng iced tea sa mukha, or sana ginasgasan ko yung oto niya.

All the while tama mga kutob ko. Blessing na din kasi i kept saying na kung may kalokohan siyang ginagawa much better kung habang maaga pa lang malaman ko na. Biruin mo kusa nang lumalapit sakin yung mga kasagutan sa tanong ko.

I'm so upset right now. Sobrang galit ako sa kanya kasi ang kapal kapal ng mukha niya.

Nalulungkot lang ako kasi eto after 10 years of being single, i took a chance, nag take ng risk. Sawi na naman sa pag ibig!

Sensya na need ko lang mag vent.

[killbill]

Hindi ko napigilan ang sarili ko kasi ako yung taong kelangan masabi ko lahat ng gusto kong sabihin. I've sent him this....


Dear Marvin

You're a piece of s***. I've met a lot of jerks in the past but you take the cake. Ikaw na siguro ang pinaka cheapshot na lalake na nakilala ko. At least yung mga barkada ko they are man enough to own up to it. Hopeless romantic? How pathetic. You'll never get your quest for happiness kasi all along you are living a lie.

It all makes sense to me, lahat ng kutob ko right on the spot. Lahat ng kasinungalingan mo nabubuking ko. Amateur ka lang, hustler ako. You can keep playing the game, keep living a lie, get as many girls as you can. f*** them for all i care.

But you and i both know that compared to those cheap girls you're seeing, i'll always be that one girl who's clever enough to find out the truth. The way you reacted earlier? The look on your face? Priceless! My only regret is that i forgot that i've been taking boxing lessons for months.

I know na alam mo din deep inside that you have an inferiority complex, that you are just trying to compensate for your insecurities. Kaya ikaw na lang ang iintindihin ko. Actually, i pity you. You can have all the money, fancy motorbikes and s*** but you will always be on your lowest of low, because scumbags like you will never get true happiness.

The least you can do is return my bracelet. That is meant for someone who deserves it. Well obviously hindi ikaw yun.

Somehow i feel relieved. What i saw validated my instincts. If there is any lesson to be learned from what has happened in the past few months, is that i shouldn't trust no one but myself.

I am better than you, so i am taking the higher road, i'm not gonna plot revenge against you, remember your video taking a shower? No worries hindi ko ikakalat sa mga social media sites yun. I forgive you, for all the lies you've told me, for all the things you've said that meant nothing, for the trouble and stress you've caused me, for everything.

Sincerely,

The classy b**** who got away



I feel so low lang

[momentum]

^ so sad to hear what you are going through now..
Akala ko, you have finally found the right person for you...kasi nasubaybayan ko yung thread that you made just last June (http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,284041.20.html)
I am a single mom too and I know how it feels..

Pero after all..buti narin at you found out the real him..sakit man, pero buti narin at di pa kayo masyadong matagal...
Time to move on sis.....focus ka nalang muna siguro sa daughter and work mo..and continue your self improvement...God is with you

[Girltalker2]

Im so sad to hear about your story killbill. But that is all just temporary.  You are still the winner kasi good thing you won't take that kind of crap from anyone. You are in a much much better place now kesa naman sticking around for him nang di mo alam. God indeed has his ways.

And because of these experiences, we learn. And once we learn, we become a better person, with better discernment.  Huwag naman huwag magtrust.  But be extra cautious lang.  EB tayo if may chance, I am also a single mom din eh.

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idagdag ko lang pala, naiinis ako. Sis, yung shower video, not worth posting. Pero takutin mo lang! hahaha 

Naiinis ako sa kanya. You were living your life on your own, happy with your daughter. Tapos heto sya mang-iistorbo, guguluhin ang feelings mo, dahil lang gusto nya manloko?  G*go nya.

[killbill]

Lalong umiinit ang ulo ko kasi yung mga reply niya grabe, huling huli na sa akto siya pa tong galit ang kapal talaga. Yung charriol na bracelet na lang naman gusto kong makuha. Then that's it. Sobrang nandidiri ako sa kanya.

[momentum]

^ sis kung hindi niya ibalik, hayaan mo nalang. anyway each time makikita mo pa yung bracelet na yun, maaalala mo lang siya diba? just my opinion lang..

[killbill]

I will sell it. Nasa 10k din eh. Sayang

[Frozen Toes]

Ang sakit naman non. And nakakainis na nagdadahilan pa. Ginawa ka pang t@nga. Best thing to do is to just move on talaga. Blessing na talaga na nagkaalaman na.

[killbill]

Ang kapal talaga. Kasi sya tong humabol ng humabol sakin. Maigi pa nga yung mga lalake na nag ooffer ng fb setup kasi at least sila nagpapakatotoo. Eh ito matindi, humarap pa sa bahay namin, pinakilala ko sa anak at mommy ko, nag girlfriend girlfriend pa. Tapos nung nahuli kung ano ano pang mga lame excuses ang sasabihin. At least man lang sa kanya man up to his mistakes at mag apologize. Pero naku! Champion talaga, pinsan daw, lesbian daw, hindi daw niya type. Nakaka irita.

[momentum]

^ sis yaan mo na..mabuti na at mabuking..whatever he says hindi na mahalaga eh, nahuli mo na kasi..time to block him na sis..sakit lang sa ulo at damdamin..

[killbill]

Kakadaan lang niya dito para ibalik yung bracelet ko. Pag ka abot niya sakin i said go to hell and yung itsura niya is like parang "what the f!?" Ang cocky pa nang dating. Kapal talaga.

Oh well now that nakuha ko na charriol ko, naka block na siya.

[momentum]

^ congrats sis..buti at binalik pa niya..may butil pa siya ng hiya sayo kahit papano.

mukang strong ka naman sis, malalampasan mo rin ito 

[killbill]

Yup kayang kaya to. Hindi naman ako fully invested sa kanya.  Galit ako na natatawa na nandidiri sa kanya.

Ang kinalulungkot ko lang eh pinakila ko sya dito samin. Na mag isa na naman ako. Ang gusto ko lang naman eh magkaron ng lalakeng magmamahal sakin, na at the end of the day meron akong mapapagsabihan ke masaya ba ako or malungkot. Yung mga ganun ba.

[budzwhiz]

I would have said what happened to you is really sad sis, but I think it's much better na,
Congratulations! Na nakita mo na what kind of guy he really is, and that he's finally out of your life. Tama sila, blessing yan. You seem to be a very capable and strong woman. The right guy will come, that one who really deserves you. Don't settle for anything less. Goodluck! (:

[Girltalker2]

Kakadaan lang niya dito para ibalik yung bracelet ko. Pag ka abot niya sakin i said go to hell and yung itsura niya is like parang "what the f!?" Ang cocky pa nang dating. Kapal talaga.

G*go talaga ano?  Parang feeling priviledged sya?  Sarap batukan.

Heto nga naiinis talaga ako nung nabasa ko story mo eh.  Kasi naman mga guys na ganyan, walang pakialam sa iba. Mang iistorbo ng buhay ng may buhay, ni hindi mo nga sya inaano dati, for him to do this to you. G*go talaga.

[killbill]

Hayyyyyy

[yoshina]

Buti nalaman mo ng maaga na may iba sya...hayaan mo yan sis mag paganda ka na lang at maging busy ....cheer up lilipas din makakahanap ka din na mas higit sa kanya .

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Please bear with me. A few months ago nag post ako dito regarding the guy that i was dating. Habang tumatagal ayun naging issue na samin yung time and at the same time super praning ako.

Last night my friends and i were having coffee at starbucks sa greenfield district, medyo nagjojoke pa kami kasi there are girls sa kabilang table na nagwewechat, yung beki friend ko sabi what if yung bf ko daw yung kameet nung mga yun. I jokingly said, basag mukha niya. Nung naglalakad na kami pauwi, i saw a blue pickup similar to his, upon checking the plate number. Confirmed! Sa kanya nga. We waited sa bench dun sa park for him to get back sa pickup nya. Then my friend pointed out yung *censored* na may kaholding hands na babae. Nakakainsulto kasi yung itsura naman teh! Ang layo sa level ko as in! I was walking right behind them tapos nung nandun na kami sa pick up the girl saw me first tapos nakita niya ako. Nashock siya tapos hindi nakapagsalita. I stared at him siguro for 5 seconds tapos ayun i tried to slap him kaso naharang niya. Then i blurted out "*censored*" then walked away.

A few minutes later nag text, kesyo cousin niya daw yun from states etc. etc. kung [textspeak!] ano nang tinext ko sa kanya na kesyo nakakadiri sya, ang cheap niya. Panay ang excuse na lesbian daw yun, hindi niya daw taste yun blah blah. I kept saying wag ako, wag na siya mag explain kasi huling huli na siya sa akto. Tapos sabi niya he gave up na daw kasi nagawa ko daw siya tiisin the whole day. (We were fighting kaninang umaga kasi "busy" na naman siya so deadma ko buong araw) then last text niya is GOODBYE!

Naiinis lang ako kasi hindi ko manlang nagamit yung boxing skills ko, na sana nabuhusan ko man lang siya ng iced tea sa mukha, or sana ginasgasan ko yung oto niya.

All the while tama mga kutob ko. Blessing na din kasi i kept saying na kung may kalokohan siyang ginagawa much better kung habang maaga pa lang malaman ko na. Biruin mo kusa nang lumalapit sakin yung mga kasagutan sa tanong ko.

I'm so upset right now. Sobrang galit ako sa kanya kasi ang kapal kapal ng mukha niya.

Nalulungkot lang ako kasi eto after 10 years of being single, i took a chance, nag take ng risk. Sawi na naman sa pag ibig!

Sensya na need ko lang mag vent.

Hmmm, you two were only dating lang naman.

[imyourangel]

Sorry muntik ma OT sa isang thread. Haha! Sarap batukan ng lalaki. You look strong, continue being that way, you'll soon be with a man who knows your worth.

[killbill]

Naging "official" na mag bf/gf kami june. Takte yan. Pambihira