Parinig/Pagpaparinig..How do you deal with it?

[px17]

Do you answer back or deadma lang?

recently one of my neighbor is making parinig (sumisigaw talaga) twing dumadaan. and I know para samin yun. What I do eh..Tinitignan ko lang siya. for me siya naman yung nakakahiya. Pero alam mo yung feeling na gusto ko siyang sapukin! hahaha

[chicafabulosa]

Di ko papansin... You know why?  Not worth my time. Yes nakakainis but who cares what she thinks as long as youre not doing anything wrong to them. Eh sumigaw sya for all you care di ba. Besides, like what you said sya naman ang nakakatawa di ba..

Dont let them know na affected ka, lalo lang sila matutuwa kasi napapansin mo sila. Just ignore and pretend wala kang naririnig.

[alice_alice]

Deadma as if di ako yung pinaparinggan para pag may ibang nakakita o nakarinig eh siya yung magmumukhang t@nga at di ako. Ipapakita ko talaga na di ako affected sa mga sinasabi niya.

[TysLolakins]

shoot her with a bb gun aiming at her butt/leg area.  you cannot be seen doing it though.
just kidding!!!  just ignore that person, that's the only thing you can do without stooping at her level.

[imyourangel]

Yes dedma na lang talaga. They're cheap.

But there's this one instance na hindi ko kinaya ang pagparinig sakin sa facebook. Cinonfront ko talaga. Kasi pag hindi ko ginawa yun I know it will continue. Di ako papayag na matapakan ang pagkatao ko.

[jenny.babe]

hindi totally dedma, like for instance, while at the mall,parinig na "ay di naman pala maganda" sometimes naman "muka namang lalake" what i do is i look straight at them ayun sila ang napapahiya kasi narinig ko sila and hindi ako papayag sa ganun. sa social media naman, before i post back pa, pero i leanred that chismis ang bad image lang ang makukuha mo. so ngayon dedma.

[simang]

Deadma always! My life is so awesome i don't dwell with people who don't matter to me

[super bratinella]

Sis, sa ganyan klaseng ng tao mas nakakahiya kung hindi pinapansin, do not stoop down on their level.. basta live your life happily mas masakit na ganti then smile back at them para mas lalo mainsulto..

Nakakainsulto kaya pag sobrang galit ang isang tao sayo tapos hindi mo pinatulan, siya mega sigaw tapos ako biglang talikod tapos dedma.

[killbill]

Deadma. Pag pinakita mong affected ka mas lalo sila matutuwa.

[aquacharly]

My recent behavioral trend sa mga taong ganyan, as well as those who turn cold on me (silent treatment baga):  I go talk to them calmly, away from everybody..  Kung hindi ko matiempohan, I text that I want to talk.  It usually makes them calm down, and objectively assess their gripes or whatever. 

Does it work? 90% of the time yes! it stops the irritating or rude behavior.  It calms the "aggrieved" person to be civil, at least.

But I don't expect it to mend broken/damaged friendships.   Some things just stay broken, that's life.

[jenny.babe]

^i agree to what super bratinella said. mas maganda and effective ang pag ganti na your living your happy life and fullfiled ka sa dreams mo. Wag pansinin ang mga nagpaparinig at nanlalait sayo. Just do your best everytime higitan mo sila.

[happilytaken2]

I like your approach sis aquacharly. although with my personality, deadma muna talaga kaso pag napuno na ko, try ko na din kausapin habang calmado ako kasi baka pag pinatulan ko yung pagka puno ko, boom sabog.

[estelle21]

daanin sa joke! like "uy ako ba yan?! haha!"


wag magpapraning nako hirap mag over think. lalo na di nakakatulong. yung pag oover analyze ng mga bagay gamitin na lang siguro sa work or sa eskwelahan. XD mas productive pa.

[Angelite]

Deadma. I don't have time to deal with childish people who don't even have the guts to tell me their issues. Parinig are for the weak.

[kinkytinch]

That happened to me before. In my case, she's not the type who takes talks (like sis aquarly's) well.. oh and btw, she was my boss. I can't do anything about it. So i just put on my earphones and listened to my favorite music to help me refocus on my work. So i guess that was "ignoring".

[insanelypurpleprincess]

I'm most oblivious to people who try to use this tactic on me. My principle is... unless sinabing ako... at the mention of my name, then I will not assume or even think it's me. Given that most of those who practice making parinig are hoping you'd react... eh sorry nalang... walang makukuha sa akin. It's not even me ignoring them. It's simply me not giving them a thought at all kasi di naman sinabi na ako ang focus ng discussion.

[brandi]

Deadma. Sila kasi mismo kasi ang gumagawa ng way para mapakita kung gaano sila ka-loser.

[sugardrop]

Learn the art of deadma.

[purple.strawberry]

Dedma lang din. Icontain nila sa sarili nila negative vibes na gusto nila ipasa. Haha.

[twelvth_goddess]

My reaction depends on the relevance of the person. If the person is my friend, I talk to them directly. I'm very frank and I also expect my real friends to be direct and frank with me on issues about/related to me that bother them. If the person is insignificant, I ignore. I wouldn't reward their cheap behavior with my precious time and effort. Ano sila, sinuwerte.