FWB with coworker - UPDATED Nov.17

[purple.strawberry]

^Same sentiment haha.

TS eto lang yan, kung ikaw talaga gusto nung guy hiniwalayan na niya yung current gf niya, but he's giving excuses because he probably loves her more than you, not to mention malalim ang pinagsamahan nila. Sakit marinig no. Dagdag umpog lang. Even if you two - somehow - end up together would you have peace of mind knowing that your bf has a history of cheating?

[FayeP]

ahahaha sis hisana, uu nga, akala ko nagpapa umpog cya...pero kun san cya masaya eh di gora na cya malaki na cya

[purpleblush18]

Sana maisip mo TS na you should value yourself more.  HIndi mo ba mahal ang sarili mo kaya ginagawa mo to? Kasi kung mahal mo sarili mo, hindi k pumapayag na ganyan ka lang.. na second best ka lang.. na second option ka lang.  Kasi thinking na ginagawa mo pa rin yan, ibig sabihin you don't care kahit may nasasaktan na ibang tao.. kaya lawakan mo yung picture, think deeply sa sitwasyon mo.  Aren't you confident enough that you will find a guy for yourself na hindi committed kaya ka pumapayag na ganyan ka lang?

[GreenArcher]

TS don't settle for less when you can have someone better kasi para sa kanya di ka ang better for him kasi may first choice siya to begin with

[fredprinz]

Just goes to show na t**nga talaga ang mga tao pagdating sa pag-ibig. You might get offended by the term but I'm very blunt lang naman.

Look, my gf yung tao na 10 years, and nung pinapili mo, hindi daw makapili at sinabi niyang mahal ka niya, then magkasama na kayo 24/7. It's hard for me to say this, but you're one na pang-on the side. It's not rocket science; kabit ka. Masakit 'yan. If you're just f**king tapos wala kang feelings at WALA naman siyang karelasyon, ayos lang. Pero hindi.

Drop him and move on. Sayang ang opportunities to meet new people. Use your brains, mahirap pag puro puso lang.

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[ohcmon]

Speechless ako sa turnaround ng events. Parang MMK lang. Lol

[guia01]

Naku sana TS irespeto mo yung relationship nila.  Wag ka na makiagaw kasi kawawa naman yung gf nya.  Kung iiwan din nya si gf, what makes you think na hindi nya kayang gawin sa'yo yung ginagawa nya sa gf nya ngayon?

[fredprinz]

Just drop the guy, wala kang mapapala sa kanya.

Well, if he's good in bed, medyo may napala ka naman, albeit you just crossed a line (may girlfriend siya). So yeah, drop the guy and move on with your life. Get FUBUs na single at walang complications.

[imyourangel]

Oo nga TS, tigas ng ulo mo. Haha, choice mo na yan kung may mangyari sayo that would break your heart. The GT's did their part.

[TomHansen]

Naaawa ako kay TS patay na patay talaga sa ka-fubu niya.. I feel really bad for the gf, I hope mahuli niya si bf niya cheating so she can move on..

[dismembered]

Wag ka magrereklamo kapag may consequences sayo mga nangyari ha? And please, if ever man ikasal kayo, if ever magloko man sya in the future, tutal natiis mo na din dati na ganyan sya, eh tiisin mo na lang din.

[paper_doll]

Hi TS, you do know you will reap what you sow right???

[dell]

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[Ireneeeeee]

this thread is so funny. nanghihingi ng advice si TS pero wala naman kwenta. I have a friend exactly like her. Lagi lang sya nagrereklamo eh hindi naman mahiwalayan si guy. Sainasabi nun guy hihiwalayan nya si gf pero sa huli kinasal pa sila kasi nabuntis nya. Hay! In short, nasa sayo pa rin kung paano mo tutuldukan misery mo. You must be strong and be ready to move on. Happiness is really a choice. A guy who truly loves you will not have other girls on the side or rather, ikaw lang pala yun "side girl". Malay mo ba kung ano rin sinasabi nya kay gf kapag magkasama sila

Goodluck!