My daughter committed suicide..

[cruxito]

Im sorry to hear that sis... Please be strong... I'm so tearry I hope I can help you sis 

[donya_dyosa]

Our hugs and condolences wont bring mikee back pero bear in my mind marami kaming nakikiiyak saiyo... isa nako doon at lagi kita iniisip... napakasakit ng nangyari na sana isang panaginip lang ang lahat ng iyan.... sa totoo lang, they say its just a test... oh my.. napakasakit na test naman niyan.... kung ako nasa kalagayan mo baka naloka nako.. so i believe na youre a strong woman, reading your replies.. ang tatag mo.. ang strong mo.... kung ako yan,. Walang matinong sagot at puro hatred lang ang irereply ko... sa tingin ko, the surviving twin at ikaw talaga ang destined to live the so called life on earth... and after this... isipin mo nalang reunion nakayo ng lahat ng kids mo... at wag mo iblame ang self mo.... its all your ex husbands fault....

[kvandenhaak]

Actually, your daughter probably have an undiagnosed depression. Kids that young don't commit suicide just because they are sad.

[littlekinselle]

My deepest condolences sissy, be strong yun lang  masasabi ko.  Mejo naka relate ako kasi my cousin ako nag suicide din. But after all ng pain na ngyari gradually na mawawala ang sakit na nararamdaman mo di madali pero dapat kayanin mo. At alam ko kaya mo yan!.. lahat ng sakit ipaubaya mo sakanya kay God, Siya na bahala sa lahat. God bless sis.. xoxo

[ejxtwo]

Many many thanks again, sissies. I'm overwhelmed by your replies and I feel better kahit papano whenever I read them. God bless everyone!

But I guess hindi talaga ako titigilan ng mga problema, lalo na with my son's father. Nagkita kami kanina sa cemetery and he wants to bring my daughter's urn (she's cremated) with him sa US since mas close naman daw sila ng daughter ko. Sobrang kapal ng mukha. No words. On going pa din yung petition ko para ma-void na yung marriage namin and now he gave me a reason to file bigamy na din. He's just too much. Grabe.

[quennna]

grrrr .. over yang husband mo sis..
kung ako sa iyo sis..
kailangan mo nang ipaglaban sarili mo..
samantalang yung buhay anak nyo..
natiis kayong di makita ng ilang buwan..
kakahigh blood ganyang tao..

[killbill]

Dapat yan kasuhan violence against women and children. Sobra nakaka init ng ulo.

[juni]

My heart goes out to you sis, I'm so sorry for your loss, I wish you didn't have to go through this.  I admire your strength and the love that you have for your family sis, kasi kahit na napakasakit and hirap ng pinagdadaanan mo e kinakaya mo pa rin.  It's a difficult thing to go through, and there may be times when you feel overwhelmed and tired.  Kapit ka lang, nandito kami, nandiyan ang family and friends mo, and nandiyan din si God.  You are NOT alone in this, there are a lot of people who care about you and love you.  Just breathe and take things one day at a time, moment to moment if need be.

Ilabas mo sis ang saloobin mo, umiyak ka kung gusto mo, wag mo itago sa loob mo, mahirap if you bottle it up.  You don't have to apologize for how you're feeling, just let it all out, tao ka lang sis, normal yang nararamdaman mo.  Grieving is a part of healing, and while it may not seem like it e someday things will be better.

Alagaan mo sarili mo and your baby, magpalakas kayo sis.  Ipaglaban mo sarili mo and kids mo, sobra yang husband mo, grabe talaga.  Puro sarili lang ang iniisip niya, hindi na nahiya, scum talaga.  I hope he gets his payback really soon. 

Please let us know how we can help you.  Take care of yourself sis.  *Hugs*

[nixiquita]

aww Sis! I dont know what to say but keep your faith and be strong. I cannot imagine the pain youre feeling now, blaming yourself wont change anything.

[polar_bear]

di ko mapigilan sarili ko.. naiyak talaga ako..   I admire you sis ejxtwo for being so strong! May God bless you a hundredfold. 

[Nhetskii]

May God bless you sis.. May He give you more strength sis..

[airwaterfire]

na high blood ako sa ex mo ejxtwo. 

go, fight in court. Kapal mukha oi.

[ejxtwo]

I will never get tired of thanking everyone here! Thank you so much, sissies. I love reading your replies.

One number source of stress ko talaga yung "husband" ko. He filed a petition na din for my son's custody. I will fight until the end. Yung son ko nalang meron ako right now, kukunin nya pa? Sobrang kapal na talaga ng mukha!

[kvandenhaak]

^WHAAAT? Are you serious? What a Dbag! After all what he put you through, he still has the gall to do that? What part of hell did he come from? I surely hope that you get a fair judgement regarding custody. This is unbelievable!

[Nhetskii]

hayy naku! idemanda mo na talaga yang ex husband mo! o kaya dalhin mo samin papakuyog ko sa mga tambay samin nang mawalan ka na ng problema.. (joke lang.. hahaha!) Kakaloka sya ha! Kumukulot ang bangs ko sa kakapalan ng mukha nya!

[ysa.belle]

eh anak pala ng isang tupa yang ex husband mo eh. ang kapal ng mukha para magfile ng kung ano ano eh he is the reason bat nagkaganyan yung situation mo. if not for what he did, hindi ka masstrestress ng ganyan at hindi mawawala si Mikee. he just wants to hurt you.

walang ginagawang tama yang lalaking yan. he does not have any right para makasama ang baby mo or ang urn ng baby girl mo. teka bibigyan ko ng common sense yan para maisip niya na siya ang puno't dulo ng lahat ng pain na nararanasan mo.

on a lighter note, please be strong for your baby. your angels in heaven are watching over the both of you. god bless you and you baby sis...

[gab54]

So sad to read this thread. I pray that u find comfort, strength & faith in the Lord. Maybe if u can join any support group, who can be ur friends/prayer partners, that will be great. Also try to consult a lawyer to know how to handle ur *censored* ex.

[momentum]

Sarap ipakulam or ipaligpit ex mo sis!! Nakaka highblood!!

Please be strong sis. Hindi siya makakatakas sa KARMA believe me.

[juni]

Grabe, ang kapal ng mukha ng ex mo ha, sarap sampalin and kaladkarin sa putik

Your son is a minor, and a newborn at that.  Minors are automatically put in the custody of their mothers unless the mother is deemed unfit by the court.  Anong linagay niyang reasons sa lawsuit kung bakit he's seeking custody?

[ejxtwo]

Your son is a minor, and a newborn at that.  Minors are automatically put in the custody of their mothers unless the mother is deemed unfit by the court.  Anong linagay niyang reasons sa lawsuit kung bakit he's seeking custody?

His reason was I'm not financially capable to support my son. Kaka-resign ko lang 2 months ago (I think) because of what happened but now I have a new job and I'm still adjusting.