GOLD DIGGERS / GOLD DIGGING KABITS

[LeallianFaye]

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[happilytaken2]

Naku sis, trust your gut instincts talaga. It's not about being Tamang Hinala eh. Pero pag sa picture palang or kahit message lang, pag off na dating sayo, something's up. Whether kay girl or kay BF or both.

[LeallianFaye]

Naku sis, trust your gut instincts talaga. It's not about being Tamang Hinala eh. Pero pag sa picture palang or kahit message lang, pag off na dating sayo, something's up. Whether kay girl or kay BF or both.

True sis, iba talaga ang gut instincts ng babae. Di ko talaga inexpect yun kaya nung tama nga yung hinala ko natawa ako kay BF at sinabi ko sakanya yun tumawa rin sya at sinabi nya sakin na na-gain ko na daw ang superpower ng mga babae.

[Girltalker2]

Sis, I am not sure if you will agree with me, pero maraming ganyan (gold digger, mang aagaw o malalandi) sa Pinas.  So once anyone spot your BF, especially he is so open and casual with other girls, di malayo na puede syang maakit.

Sis, napag usapan na ba ninyo how to deal with the opposite sex?  Kasi samin it is clear na we try to avoid lunch/dinners with 1 person na opposite ang gender samin, especially if it has nothing to do naman with work. He had some advances before, when it happened once hinatid sya ng girl, the 2nd time naman nagdinner, I did not like it at sinabi ko sa kanya, I don't feel comfortable about it.  Alam kong walang malisya at sya pa nga mismo nagkwento sakin, at alam ko rin there is nothing going on, pero para sakin, kung palaging ganun, it can be a start.  Diyan lagi nag uumpisa ang mitsa ng mga affairs-affairs.  Nung sakin naman, initially colleague ko kasi yun when I had lunch with. Pero nung niyaya nangako ng colleague ko again and again, parang uncomfy narin ako.  And my Bf also did not like it, so iwas talaga.

2nd is the physical proximity. Feeling ko I can never be comfortable sa ibang working environments where people hug or nakikipag akbayan na hindi mo alam kung mag GF or BF. Or masyadong touchy or malapit sa isa't isa physically. I don't like that. Kaya sabi ni BF he is fine talaga with that, kasi minsan officemates nya dikit daw ng dikit sa kanya, di naman sya sanay eh lawak lawak naman daw ng nilalakaran nila, di nya maintindihan kapag group lunch, may 2 girls kapag nakikipagkwentuhan, eh nagt touch na yung braso sa braso nya when they are walking. So he is likewise uncomfy pag ganun, kelangan umiwas din.

Call it praning, pero for me, I would rather be safe than sorry. It is not na nagiging hermit kami, we still go out with friends. Iba nga lang kung opposite gender na iisa lang or masyadong malapit.  Naalala ko lang yung ex ko before, ganun din nagumpisa yung kabit nya.  Magka officemate sila, nag umpisa sa labas labas, inom inom, hanggang sa nagka affair sila. Umpisa, wala talagang malice.  Pero while they start to share things, kwento kwento, dun na. Dati kasi hindi ako conscious sa mga ganyan, kaya hinahanayaan ko. Pero hindi pala dapat, at least to my mind.  Kahit papano, there should be some distance.

[happilytaken2]

True mga sis! Prevention is really better than cure. At communication lang talaga ang key for both party to understand how the other feels. I like what you have sis Girltalker2 with BF hehe.

[LeallianFaye]

Sis, I am not sure if you will agree with me, pero maraming ganyan (gold digger, mang aagaw o malalandi) sa Pinas.  So once anyone spot your BF, especially he is so open and casual with other girls, di malayo na puede syang maakit.

Sis, napag usapan na ba ninyo how to deal with the opposite sex?  Kasi samin it is clear na we try to avoid lunch/dinners with 1 person na opposite ang gender samin, especially if it has nothing to do naman with work. He had some advances before, when it happened once hinatid sya ng girl, the 2nd time naman nagdinner, I did not like it at sinabi ko sa kanya, I don't feel comfortable about it.  Alam kong walang malisya at sya pa nga mismo nagkwento sakin, at alam ko rin there is nothing going on, pero para sakin, kung palaging ganun, it can be a start.  Diyan lagi nag uumpisa ang mitsa ng mga affairs-affairs.  Nung sakin naman, initially colleague ko kasi yun when I had lunch with. Pero nung niyaya nangako ng colleague ko again and again, parang uncomfy narin ako.  And my Bf also did not like it, so iwas talaga.

2nd is the physical proximity. Feeling ko I can never be comfortable sa ibang working environments where people hug or nakikipag akbayan na hindi mo alam kung mag GF or BF. Or masyadong touchy or malapit sa isa't isa physically. I don't like that. Kaya sabi ni BF he is fine talaga with that, kasi minsan officemates nya dikit daw ng dikit sa kanya, di naman sya sanay eh lawak lawak naman daw ng nilalakaran nila, di nya maintindihan kapag group lunch, may 2 girls kapag nakikipagkwentuhan, eh nagt touch na yung braso sa braso nya when they are walking. So he is likewise uncomfy pag ganun, kelangan umiwas din.

Call it praning, pero for me, I would rather be safe than sorry. It is not na nagiging hermit kami, we still go out with friends. Iba nga lang kung opposite gender na iisa lang or masyadong malapit.  Naalala ko lang yung ex ko before, ganun din nagumpisa yung kabit nya.  Magka officemate sila, nag umpisa sa labas labas, inom inom, hanggang sa nagka affair sila. Umpisa, wala talagang malice.  Pero while they start to share things, kwento kwento, dun na. Dati kasi hindi ako conscious sa mga ganyan, kaya hinahanayaan ko. Pero hindi pala dapat, at least to my mind.  Kahit papano, there should be some distance.

Hi Sis! Thank you sa time sa pagbasa sa mahaba kong post.  Oo sis, napag-usapan na namin yun, yun nga lang after the incident pa. Hindi man sila natuloy lumabas at naputol din ang friendship nila, uncomfortable talaga sa feeling hanggang ngayon para sakin, first time ko talaga maka-encounter ng ganyan. Sobrang close-to-comfort na kasi ako kay BF na hindi naman sya magsisinungaling sakin or hindi nya ako ibebetray kaya hindi ko naisip na pwede yung mangyaring ganyan, nasabi naman nya sakin yung reason nya bakit gusto nya sana maging friend yung girl, ever since kasi umuwi siya dito wala kasi siyang friend lahat ng friends nya nasa Paris so ang gawain nya is pasok-uwi-tulog, naiintindihan ko naman sya pero yun nga since may gusto si girl sa sakanya parang off talaga ang start ng friendship nila pag pinabayaan ko diba. Okay naman sis yung mga kaworkmates nya wala akong problem towards them, I've met them before and their nice talaga walang off na feeling dun lang talaga sa sister ng ka-officemate ni BF. Ayaw din ni BF ng physical contact sa iba kasi medyo reserved talaga sya at hindi sya mahilig makipag-social sa ibang tao, yung case ni girl si girl ang unang lumapit sa BF ko at sya nag tanong tanong about him, he never asked anything about her puro lang sya sagot.

Alam ni BF na magagalit ako if lumabas sila so sinabi nya yun sa girl kahit hindi pa nya sinasabi sakin mismo ang reply nung girl kay BF "Basta let's enjoy that day nalang" Hello! Hindi na nga ako pumayag sige ka parin. 

Haaay mga sis, feeling ko talaga na-insulto ako sa mga sinasabi nung girl na yun kay BF parang walang respect na meron nang relationship. Kahit sabihin pa nya na ayaw nyang mag come in between us, ganun na nga yung ginagawa nya pero pa demure lang. Kunyari pa sya na ayaw nya pero mga sinasabi nya kay BF so obvious na flirt. Niyayaya pa mag out of town si BF, Nicole is that you?!

[Girltalker2]

^ welcome to the real world sis. At natumpak mo - "walang respect". Maraming ganyan. At di ko alam bakit. Gaano kakapal ang mukha nila kahit na reject na, sige parin ang paramdam.

Once my BF had an officemate talagang niyayaya sya.  My BF said the same - I am not interested and my GF won't like it. The girl said, it's ok, friends lang naman tayo. Parang ganun.  Tapos nung lumipat si BF ng work, guess what, nitrace talaga nung girl yung trunkline nung company to call him!  Kaya sinabi na ng BF ko that time, kung hindi sya magstop magstalk, he will report her.

Pero sabi nga ng BF ko, sinasabi na nya sakin agad kasi later, ayaw nya ma accuse ng something, mamaya baliktarin pa sya ng girl. Hindi nanga nya pinapansin, panay papansin.  Tinatanong nga nya sakin, bakit daw ganun ang mga Pinay. Hindi kasi sya Pinoy.  Sabi nya bakit wala daw kahihiyan sa katawan. Kapag sya daw kasi na reject, stop na dapat. Or kapag sinabi may GF na, tigil na dapat ang panghahabol. Sabi ko, hindi naman lahat. Pero marami nga ganyan.

[LeallianFaye]

Oo sis, yan din sabi ng girl wala naman daw mali since na establish na nila na friends nalang sila. Friends pero may ibang motive. Nako sis, malala na yang sayo kahit iba na company ng BF mo nahanap padin ng girl. Baka obsessed na yan sa BF mo. Totoo sis, mas maganda sabihin na ng guy agad kasi kung hindi baka matulad ka sakin kahit sobrang sincere ng sinasabi nya at ramdam mo naman talaga babalik talaga sayo yung question na "bakit hindi mo sinabi ng una palang, ayaw mo bang malaman ko? Bakit ayaw mo malaman ko" hehe. Pero okay naman na kami ngayon wala na si girl, hopefully huminto na sya ng tuluyan.


Tama ka sis, di naman lahat meron pa naman matitinong Pinay like you and me!    Pero like here meron din sa ibang bansa na ganyan, kaworkmate din ni BF yun talaga sinabi sakanya na she wants to be with my BF at gagawin nya lahat, straight to the point sya kaya si BF na nag set ng line for her at sinabi nya na hindi pwede kasi commited na sya sakin. Kaso itong pinay medyo flirty pa lang and subtle hints ang binibigay na hindi naman nababasa ni BF so hindi sya nakapag set ng line until nung huli na talaga.

[aquacharly]

Once upon a time, a brother was married to a CGD (certified gold digger).   After 10 years, the marriage hit the rocks coz she wanted more more more &'kung puede lang araw araw, gusto naka plaster mukha nya sa society pages.  Eventually, our brother got fed up, he filed for annulment & promised her half of everything so she will not contest it.  So, after 6 months, ayon milyonarya sya.   She left their children with our brother.

After our father died, eh como sa family namin, only the sons inherit -- Eto na si CGD, bumalik!   Naka amoy  ng more millions.   Our brother allowed her to live in his home kasi daw the children want it so. But they occupy separate rooms.

Well, since then, she has been planning overseas trips every 2 months for their family to go on.  The entire family, kasama sya.   I think medj  grrr na brother namin coz well, ang lakas ng gastos for not just the traveling.   The kids are always racking up bills in the high end stores. Parang nag bago mga wants nila , maluho na.  Konting atching, Eto na  mga caterer, including a quartet.  Susko. Level up the spending.. Hahaha

I told my mom & siblings, don't get grrrr with CGD. It's our brother at fault. Why is he being a sucker?  Sabi ng Atchi namin: hahaha, baka True Love?   Susko. 

[LeallianFaye]

Sis Aquacharly, grabe naman yang ex-wife ng brother mo. Certified nga! Tama ka naman sis no one's at fault kung hindi ang brother mo, naging enabler kasi sya lalo po sa mga kids nila. Nakausap nyo na ba yung brother nyo about dun at ilang taon na mga kids nila? Pagtapos nya iwanan ang kids nya sa brother mo tapos babalik sya kasi naka-amoy ng mana, parang nakaka-disrespect na talaga yun sis. hehe. Sana matauhan na si brother and ipashoo na ng tuluyan ang CGD.