successful kabit

[Girltalker2]

Madami din naman atang successful kabit - Angelina Jolie, Mom ni Sharon, Camilla Bowles (prince Charles), etc

[Shadow Angel]

Oo nga Greta, Marian Rivera, Majorie

[TysLolakins]

^ marian rivera was a kabit?  kangino?  wow, makakachismis pa yata 

[Shadow Angel]

^i mean bf/gf ang topic based TS diba? Remember Dingdong-Karylle-Marian love triangle. Nagdeny sila dati hindi sila ni Marian pero diba after the break up naging sila rin ni Marian parang Billy-Nikki-Coleen todo deny after ng break up kuno sila pala. Tayo pang mga babae ramdam din nila may iba hindi lang umamin sino naman lokohin nila na hindi sila naging 3rd party. Mga fantard lang hindi naniniwala.

[Girltalker2]

Sorry if I named names, we are talking about a married person with a kabit. Like prince Charles married lady D but he has a kabit in Camilla. And Camilla is successful kasi pinakasalan sya and they're happy naman. Same w Brad Pitt being married when he and Angelina fell in love. Sharon's dad married her Mom when they were really old na kasi that was the only time the Wife passed away.
So I'm not talking about BF/GF palang.

In any case, does it really matter? Importante siguro, as the legal wife, maka move on at hindi Maging bitter. Like Jennifer Anniston ok na naman now. But sad for Lady D tragedy.

[tomatostellar]

I have a friend who started out as 3rd party. They're now married with a kid.

But same as what they said, ts, best to move forward na lang and not mind them. 

[TysLolakins]

@shadow angel, thanks for the reply, akala ko kasi naging kabit siya ng may asawa kasi ni line up mo ba naman sa mga barretos, kaya I assumed wrong.
old school kasi ako e kaya ang context ng kabit ay married at least one of the parties involved, same as what girltaker2 said.
moving on...

[Shadow Angel]

Ooops sorry for the confusion. Nag focus kasi ako dun sa TS na naagawan ng bf so pinalagay ko na ok lang kahit hindi married.

[grrrlscout]

The dad of my friend mas successful yung relationship niya dun sa kabit. Nangyayari lang siguro talaga minsan you fall in love na may asawa ka na and all.

[Uridessey]

Perfect example for this is Brangelina di ba? Haha.

[young_maiden]

Iyong pinsan ko at kabit niya sila pa rin hanggang ngayon. Before naging sila, 2 years siya married sa wife niya. Balak na niya i-divorce para pakasalan si kabit. Canadian citizens sila so pwede ang divorce.

[junetwentythree]

There are successful kabits I guess, as proven by those posted here.

Makes you wonder if there really is such a thing as karma.

[young_maiden]

^ Kaya nga di ako naniniwala sa karma eh. Para sa akin, kung gusto mo pagsisihan ng kaaway mo ang kasalanan niya sa'yo, ikaw mismo gumawa ng paraan para makarma siya.

Sa mga legal wives dyan, kasuhan ninyo ng concubinage asawa niyo at kabit niya. Tignan natin kung di magsisi iyan.

[graezieylicious]

^There are really cases that a married/committed person really fall in love with someone outside of that relationship. Minsan pa nga na TTL (true love) sila with the kabit. A married guy fall in love with a friend of mine kahit malayo age nila and kahit kaka civil wed lang ng guy after being in a 10 bf/gf/live in relationship. Or it could be a reawakening of a burning desire like in the song "terminal"..since matagal na ang relationship there is no excitement anymore, or it could be that the kabit is really desirable, like in the case of my friend, shes really desirable, strong headed, career oriented, confidentt, attractive and shes happy with or without a love life. Like brangelina's case, it doesnt mean if kabit, malandi, walang pinagaralan, pera lang habol etc.

[young_maiden]

I know. Nakakalungkot na pangyayari. Pero hindi naman ibig sabihin happy forever si cheating spouse at kabit. Dapat may point din na nagsisi sila at pagdusahan nila kasalanan nila. Laging kawawa innocent spouse at mga bata eh.

[Cheesecak3]

For me, naniniwala ako na may mga bagay na mahirap ma explain. Baka may mga nangabit kasi hindi na sila masaya sa current relationship nila at kung ipagpatuloy pa nila mas maging magulo lang at mawala lang ang respeto sa isa't isa. Kung tingin hindi na talaga magkasundo, mas maganda pang maghiwalay na lang keysa ipilit pa. Kung nasubukan ng mag usap at sinubukan ayusin pero wala pa rin eh di let go na lang.

Being successful after someone you love leave you is your choice. Nasa sayo kung ipakita mong lagpak ka pa rin after kang iwanan, pero kung ipakita mo na tanggap mo na hindi talaga kayo ang para sa isa't isa then move on.

[sarsingkit]

Ang principle ko lang in life is keep moving forward. Wag na maghintay ng sorry. If given to you then great, if not just move on. Yes, it hurts pero hindi naman ako yung nagcheat or yung naglie. If I sulk and just think about them all the time then parang ako na din yung nagdala ng burden ng cheating when it shouldn't be.

I know a couple who went through marriage counseling and the counselor was the one who even suggested for them to live at the separate houses. Eventually, they notice that the kids seem to be more at peace at that setup. So

[alice_alice]

Yes there are successful kabits. One which I know in person is the stepmom of my ex bf.

Sila ang unang family based sa kwento ni ex eh his mom caught his dad and his stepmom doing the deed. Then naghiwalay na parents niya.

I guess that's okay, they accepted naman na talagang may second family na dad nila since my then-bf and his siblings live with their father and stepmom together with their half sibs.

In fairness naman though they love their mother very much eh tinanggap pa rin nila ang stepmom nila and my ex naman loves his half sibs din I saw it while we're together.

No ill feelings toward their stepmom who actually is the reason why broken family sila.

Siguro malawak lang ang pagiintindi nilang magkakapatid sa sitwasyon nila but given the chance daw of course ayaw nila maghiwalay parents nila pero alam naman nila na babaero talaga tatay nila so ayun...

[khaleesiCersei]

Asawa ng ex ko. Siya ang pinakasalan so i guess siya ang nagwagi. Pero parang wala naman siyang peace of mind. Kasi kahit siya ang nakisawsaw samin eh parang siya pa ang insecure sa naging relationship namin ng ex ko. Ayaw niya kaming maging friends ng ex ko kahit aeons ago na yun nangyari samin. Sabi ng ex ko sabi daw ng asawa niya mambabae na daw siya kahit sino, wag lang ako. Sabi ko sa ex ko, excuse me hindi ako katulad niya parang mauubusan ng lalaki na kelangan pumatol sa committed na. Natahimik ang ex ko haha. Nakakatawa naman kasi, parang siya pa yun hindi maka move on. Jusko kanyang kanya na! Lol!