Anyone Into Feng Shui (Thread 17)

[Zea88]

Oo nga po Sir Ch, buti at sa tama pa rin kayo at di gumagamit ng dark arts. Kapag nag advise ako sa mga kakilala ko I always say to them to call on angels and specific angel for what they need. Kahit minsan and dating ko sa kanila weirdo I don't mind dun din ako nanggaling na di naniwala and I dont want to be self righteous since we have are own free will. But then one time yung friend ko na skeptic sa mga ganito, received some sort of mytery that led her to believe that angels are true. Sabi ko nga lahat naman tayo may intuition minsan foggy lang dahil di tayo nakaka charge at in tune. Yup tomorrow sana wag umulan I will do the bone marrow washing sa park early in the morning. I'm longing to commune with nature pero madalas tinatamad ako at nag uulan hehhe.

I did rosary kanina to pray for my ancestors. Sisindihan ko posporo kanina nakatatlo ata ko bago sumindi and incense sticks din po nagsindi ako.  I will try to offer candle and fruits tomorrow sa grave nila if maayos na pakiramdam ko. Konti na lang ubo and medications pa ko. Eto lakas na ulan..Happy Sunday po God Bless you

[quennna]

question, pag ba nagoffer ng fruits sa ancestors..
iiwanan din dun? ...
anong significance ng  fruits sa offering?

[Zea88]

Hi sis quenna, nakaugalian na kasi namin yun alay ng fruits na favorite ng mga Lola ko..but prayers would be the best.

[CityHunter]

Hi, quennna.

Sis Zea88 is correct na ideally its what the person likes when he or she was alive ang offering.  Kung iuuwi or not ay it depends sa nakaugalian.  In some Taoist temples I went to iniiwan yun offering - medyo masakit rin sa bulsa as madami requirements.  Sa Buddhist temples naman dapat mo iuwi.  May special areas kasi sa mga such temples where you can give respect to your ancestors.

Yun fruits or any offering is for them to partake in your sacrifice in a way na hindi naman ka maapektuhan ng yin chi nila.  Per what I've shared na experience grabe ang pwedeng mangyari sa iyo if you are directly exposed sa yin chi kahit saglit lang.


Hi, Zea88.

He he.  It was why I was mum on the real stuff I do sa mga first few threads of the Feng Shui topic dahil not a lot of folks are aware of that aspect or accepting it as part of reality.  What more pa when touched up ang likes of connecting to God.  Kaya I try to be as balanced as I could when sharing what I could here.

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis.

Mabalikan lang yun nasabi ko na tao pero hindi siya tao.  That is why I have warned you folks to never ever allow the likes of spirit of the glass o seances done at your place.  Iyong mga nag-subscribe sa mga quacks or mga hindi nga quacks but of questionable source ang power nila ay they may be like that or just a bit less.  That is why I have advised rin sa church kayo lumapit for such needs.

[sweet_cherry]

sir ch

copy ko lang po yung post ko sa prev thread:

sir ch, di ba pwedeng tadtarin na lang namin ng plants yung side na nasa ilalim ng cr? wala kasi kami choice yung room naman ng future anak namin at cr at dining tatamaan ng cr if ever ilipat.

medyo it is one of the wishes po kasi ng nagdonate sa amin ng lupa, na may income generating part siya.. so apartment po sana yung taas ang naiplano (iba naman po ang entrance nila)

[CityHunter]

Hi, sweet cherry.

Do not ever say you have no choice.  That would make you have a bad habit of simply giving in to circumstances.  You must always strive to reach for the better more so you have a special someone to work with you to make that happen.

My professional answer stands.  No.  The future layout will taint your pwesto with much bad energy.  As ano ba ang cactus?  Remedy.  Ano definition ng remedy?  To help mitigate the effects hindi ba.  For a total solution you need to effect major changes.

The reason why I share top-level remedies here is to give the ordinary person a chance to recover and effect changes.  In short, hope.

What you will be doing is to deny yourselves that - hope.  For the least you can experience with such a future setup is frequent hospitalization and loss of income.  May panahon pa to avoid that by either suggesting a better design or save up for a place of your own.

FYI.  No sane engineer will ever agree to design and construct such a layout.  Hindi lang costly and impractical but also will label him stupid.  Engineers and such are bound in responsibility for years on any structure they were involved.  Sasabit sila with their license pati business nila if they approve of that kind of structure dahil sigurado in a few months time ay may mga complaints na.

Having lots of cactus outside your area WILL be of SOME help but it will NOT BE ENOUGH.  I am not going to elaborate what other options can be applied as that would foster a bad habit of simply accepting the situation.  One reason why I am posting professional advise for free is to do away with that Bahala Na and Pwede Na mentality. 

FYI.  Its not also right to opt to use the future structure that would be over where your present dwelling is.  Though that would not taint you with malas sa present ay karma would hound you and all your future generations.

[sweet_cherry]

a ok po sir ch thanks sige will steer the oldies from the idea na lang. ang peg po kasi yata tapat tapat yung mga cr ng 2 floors as much as possible so tatamaan room namin if ever. thanks po ulit

[CityHunter]

Hi muli, sweet cherry.

As always prevention is way better than the cure.  Its like putting yourself in harm's way then realizing tama pala but its too late.  Na na-hurt ka na from that act.

A more practical approach is to set aside a bigger budget so the existing place can be properly renovated.  The problem nga lang with most is that gusto makatipid and hindi na nai-factor yun consequences of simply doing with pwede na with should be properly done instead. 

Present ka ng options rin and not just dissuade them from that idea.  Isa sa mga major worries ng lahat is indeed preparation for our retirement.  As you all know naman sobrang corrupt ng government natin to the point na pati retirement funds and health care ay unreliable.  On the radio kanina how grabe ang pork barrel ng Quezon City officials.

May growth naman ang economy natin yun nga lang majority ng Pinoy ay hindi alam how to take advantage of it.  Not so versed nga lang sa investments but it should be something good to at least find time to study on dahil may potential for growth nga ang region natin - ma-control lang yun sobrang greed ng China and some bad people from coveting what is not theirs.

[myjourney88]

Hi sir CH,

Good day!!

Kagabi I had a bad dream, ang weird parang continuos dream sya, I don't know na start, pero something na kasama ako sa isang group, then hindi ko alam if what crime nagawa, then sabi daw ng nanay ko, wag ako mag alala kasi may kilala sya makaka help sa akin, pero parang hindi naman ako kasali sa actual crime, tapos may puntahan kami lugar, may kasama ako, parang may kain kami. Then may isa scene kasama ko ofcmate ko, parang naka sakay kami sa side car na wala bubong, naulan daw po, pero ako daw gawa ko may unan sa ulo, sabi ko daw sa ofcmate ko, ok na to kesa payong lilipadin. Then iba scene na naman parang may mga action stars pa ako naalala na itsura, then may isang room, may mga wood door na parang sa sira na may mga siwang siwang. parang layered sya na pinto, andun daw old friend ko na babae, sabi wag ko daw pagbuksan pinto yon. pakikingan ko lang daw sabihin, hayaaan ko lang sya magsalita, kasi sya naka commit ng crime, parang ganun. Then may 2 bangka ata, hindi ko na tanda yung isa, then bgla parang nakikita ko na lang image na may malakas na alon and ako parang watching from above ang dating.


Last Friday naman, napana ginipan ko yung mother ng kasamahan ko din sa work. Actually sir patay na sya, nakita ko daw ale na yon from crowd and nakilala ko sya, ay mother siya ni somebody. Then may sinabi sya somewhat oo kanya yon and need nya yon. Pero she is not talking to me, parang sa lahat na andun sa place, basta nasa isip ko lang na ay dead na sya, and may sabi sya para kay ate beng.

Nagtext ako dun kay ofcmate, I told her na napanaginipan ko mother nya, sagot nga nya. Sa kanila daw sa bahay hindi nagpapa naginip si mother nya, kako ang weird nga nakita ko sya sa dream. To think, nakita ko lang po mother nya during the wake, sa photos pa.

Salamat uli and God bless!!

[myjourney88]

Hi, myjourney88.

Noting those observations.  Just have that seed planted before the end of 3 months starting when you've removed the tree.

Yes, promises must be kept but a lot break it.  In a way those kind of people are leeches of the worst sort as they suck the very future of those who've given them that bright future.  I can't say it was not like that in the old days but medyo mas dumami ngayong modern times.  In fact kahit pumirma na and everything you still can't be sure na susunod sa napagkasunduan.

Ha ha.  Now you know why my mga moments ako na so wanting to be Anakin Skywalker.  Ang sarap patikimin ang mga iyan what real power is. 

As with everything kasi one has to first purge all the negative energy within oneself before even venturing on anything new.  After doing that ay you need to focus your energies towards what can solve the situation.  Right now enlightening your bosses ay beyond your powers - nor do I offer any services that can do that as kahit alam ko how ay forbidden arts iyon.  What you can do is to make them realize your worth first.  Residual chi mo is weak - and there is a reason why it took me this long to reply on this even if I read it days ago.  Its one reason why you feel this level of frustration. 

Check mo rin NW area ng place at room mo as well as that of your office o at least your work station.  You are absorbing a lot of negative chi from somewhere and not just sa office mo kasi. 

Hi Sir,

Back reading ako

Regarding on the plant, naglagay na po si partner ng replacement, Guyabano plant mo nilagay, okey lang po ba yon?

Regarding also sa sinabi mo NW area ko where nag absorb ako negative energy, what can I do dito? Hindi ko po makita pa post nyo sa akin na may mention kay, red cloth po ba ata yon?

May maikwento ko din sa inyo Sir, plan namin ni partner magpa civil wed this June 28 sana, may na book na ako reception na dun na din gagawin civil ceremony.  June 28 also was death anniversary of my father. Sa akin parang Ok lang date na yon, i don't see na dapat ako matakot kasi death anniv ng father ko.  Pero dahil nga sa limited budget ako, bigla sister ko na nag help sa akin dun sa judge, sinabi na asking price na hung judge is 8k, budget ko lang po talag 4k.  2013 kasi sya nag officiate sa sister ko sa san pedro laguna, charge lang nya was 2.5k plus 1k na traspo.  Ngayon po ako sa alabang yung reception na pili ko, she is charging me now 8k. So hold ko muna civil wed namin.  This week or Next week na lang check ko dun  sa municipyo namin bilang baka mas mura sya.  What can you say about this?

Thanks po uli!

God bless!!

[CityHunter]

Hi, myjourney88.

Yun dreams mo connected to your past.  Something there is keeping you from moving forward or achieving your goals.  Some may indeed by simply requesting that they be remembered tulad yun sa dream mo ng mother ng friend mo.  You could've simply advised them to visit or pray to their deceased mom. 

Yun alon and such sa dream mo are trials that you are facing.  Most likely with you almost alone in tackling those or reflecting more on wisdom shared before making any decisions - yun simply hearing what will be said but not opening the door.

I checked yun guyabano plant photos and it shows na nasa between siya ng long thin leaves and fat broad ones.  As fruit bearing plant pa ay nice iyan. 

You can opt to place in the NW area of your place another potted plant though one that should be able to do well despite the rains of late.  Mukhang lalakas pa ang mga susunod na ulan as how climate change affected everything.  So much the better if the morning sun reaches that area that way you can water it before you leave for work or run errands.

If that is not an option simply place a red paper cut ng 2x7 inch sa NW area of your house.  Draw a black dot na kasing laki ng piso.  Ideally yun kanin na glue ang pandikit but tape will suffice if using kanin may invite insects to feed on it.

Tricky.  Celebrating a yang event on a yin event too with some is okay pero yun nangyari sa kaibigan ko almost nauwi sa splitsville.  Almost kasi my friend, the husband, was able to forgive his wife despite her trespasses.  I can't divulge the details pero what I can say ay 98 percent would likely settle for a divorce or annulment.

Hindi ako familiar with the fees for civil weddings nowadays though kung pupunta pa to a place to do it ay indeed you do have to add transportation costs.  Sister-in-law ko kasi civil wedding but they went sa courthouse mismo then next door lang yun reception place.

No issue with me kung civil wedding but the difference is the same naman kung sa church. Kaya lang nagmamahal sa church dahil sa borloloy.  Well, correct ka to keep things simple and budget more sa reception dahil doon ka talaga matatandaan than what you wore.  Hanggang ngayon hindi ko pa rin makalimutan yun wedding reception na nagutom kami sa kahihintay at hindi rin nabusog when it came.  If I only knew me and wifey would've left and ate na lang sa labas.

Malas rin naman for weddings ang June 28 so opt for another date like the 29th. 

FYI.  Some nga lang are focused sa phases of the moon.  Many would opt for those dates wherein palaki pa lang o full moon na ang buwan.  Its interpreted as palago ang biyaya.  Kapag lumiliit na yun buwan o wala na they interpret it as pawala ang swerte.  You'll get to hear such as comments when you start picking dates not just for weddings but for most of everything else.

[myjourney88]

Hi Sir CH.

Salamat sa mabilis na reply

I did not know na may ganun nga yin yang na dapat observe so its a blessing in disguise na hindi sya natuloy. Salamat din sa magandang advice about the moon phase

Sa Civil rites mahal din bayad hung friend ko dati sa Manila City Hall, kasi sya na lakad ng lahat kasi nasa Singapore sila couple.  So aatend na lang kami on the day itself.  Ako nga lang ninang nun secret namin lang yon, buntis ako that time Kaya sila nagpa civil kasi mahirap sa Singapore na wala pa stable job yung guy, mesa balik balik dito sa Manila.


Sir, can I ask for more detail explanation for this


Yun alon and such sa dream mo are trials that you are facing.  Most likely with you almost alone in tackling those or reflecting more on wisdom shared before making any decisions - yun simply hearing what will be said but not opening the door.


Salamat uli

[CityHunter]

Hi muli, myjourney88.

First scene ng dream mo ay yun with a group na may questionable plans of action.  That may speak of the crowd you are with at present.  Dreams are a way of releasing stress and equally telling us what is reality but have chose to ignore during our reality moments.  In short ay subconsciousness mo is reminding you of the danger of associating with people na may hidden o questionable agendas.

Yun naman sa sumunod about sa sasakyan and a door na dapat hindi buksan for someone ay emphasizing that.  Your security is at question by those whom you associate pa rin.  Crowd, sasakyan and dwelling/structure speaks of group.

Yun 2 bangka but you watching over it can mean mga dependents mo o future.  Na stormy weather is up if you fail to pay heed to the warnings.  I would advise that you reflect on your situation and see what you may have missed or simply chosen to ignore thinking it won't affect you.  Especially when about your finances o financial security o investments.  Hindi rin malayo pati name mo aka reputation is at stake here.  Be careful on whom you share your secrets to.

[myjourney88]

Hi sir,

Good day!

Salamat po muli sa explanation. Naiisip ko nga work related nga kasi syempre hindi maiiwasan sa kwentuhan or sabihan ng mga nega about sa bosses. Diba nakwento ko sa inyo na yon nga may mga hinaing kami sa ofc. So dapat careful din sa mga tao nakaka usap ko kasi baka nga labas ako ng bad mouth lang. Kasi ako vocal minsan sa mga complaints etc etc  i will try to control myself na further mag comment pa about nega things sa ofc.

Yon kwento ko civil wed ko hindi po natuloy ng June 28 bec of judge na mahal singil. Last nite sister ko nagtext na nagbgay daw ng discount judge instead of 8k ginawa na 6k.  Kako papa sched ko na lang next week July 5. I will choose 11am ceremony. Naalala ko advice nyo dati na if possible morning gagawin wedding or blessing ng house. Check ko din moon phase na pa half moon na kasi full moon July 12. Ok naman po ba ang aking mga plans?

Maraming salamat po uli sir. God bless!!!!!!!

[myjourney88]

Sir isa pa pahabol question. Sa NW area na hanapin ko. Kasama ba yung entire lot area or sa loob lang mismo ng house? Kasi po may space ako sa harapan bago mismo loob ng house.

2x7 is 2 width and 7 length?

Salamat po uli. Pasensya na makulit sa pag hanap ng direction. Sobra slow ako talaga dun hehe

[nettai]

Hi Sir CH, it's me again.

Thanks a lot for your advices. I'd like to update you on what happened so far.

Sa current company ko, andami nang nagresign, there are even top honchos in our team that did! I did tree-hugging, ground-touching, rice pouch stuff, salt bathing -- but I guess it's my current employer that is not helping themselves. Ayan tuloy; hirap na sila maghanap ng tao and andaming problems ang kinakaharap ng company nila ngayon (you can actually see the news about that, haha). Good luck na lang sa kanila kung pati kami sa team namin eh lahat magresign.

As for the house, I actually bought some warm LED bulbs, but my Dad changed it immediately back to the bright lights nung nilagay ko. Nadidiliman daw sya. Hahaha! Pero one thing I noticed, mas napapasarap ang kain namin when we do.

Thanks a lot po ulit!

[Zea88]

Oo nga po Sir Ch, Baka pag may new lurker dito eh magtaka kung [textspeak!] ano pinag uusapan na kakaiba at May sarili tayo mundo dito heheh.

Kahapon while nasa cemetery Kami naramdaman ko may slight pressure sa noo ko habang nasa harap ako ng grave ng mga Lola, same sensation din pag nagmeditate ako yung sa noo. Pero continues pa rin pray ko at dinamay ko na rin yung iba souls na Baka umaaligid dun..Then Di muna ako umuwi nag stay ako sa mall..

[candygrenade]

^ Agree! I can only imagine the shock among newbies na wala pang backread na nag-search ng info for feng shui tapos ang chikahan natin ay umiikot sa mga laman lupa atbp ha-ha! I hope they understand soon why things like these are connected to feng shui...



Sir @CityHunter, naku super pasok sa banga sa akin yung Prodigal Son! I was an angst-ridden anti-theist for almost 10 years until the Universe decided to put me through some soul-crushing experiences in my life, as well as a miracle, that led to my spiritual awakening. It really struck me na I cannot do it on my own, kaya I sought the Divine and re-acquainted myself with God. My lifestyle before really mirrored the Prodigal Son’s kaya even if I don’t read the Bible that much due to certain verses I cannot agree with, that parable hits home for me.

I cannot say I am “religious,” or that I am “Catholic” kasi yung spirituality ko ngayon is pre-dominantly influenced by Buddhist teachings and New Age concepts. And for some reason parang mas attuned ako with the Divine Feminine rather than yung traditional Patriarchal God as taught by the Church and organized religion. Kahit noon pa man, mas may fear and reverence ako for Mama Mary and other prominent women in the Bible than Jesus Christ Himself. Tapos ngayon na exposed ako to Buddhism may growing devotion ako to Kuan Yin. Super relate ako sa kanya kasi I see her as Mama Mary na singkit, ha-ha but with the Divine Masculine/Feminine Duality kasi diba She was originally MALE as Avalokiteshvara. Pareho po kami ng life story if you know what I mean. Sa fundamentalist Church teachings kasi hindi maganda yung sinasaad tungkol sa mga kagaya ko kaya hindi ako maka-relate even now na nagbalik-loob na ako kay God. Unlike in Buddhism, feel na feel ko to look at myself and others on a soul level, genderless and all EQUALLY worthy of loving and being loved. I still attend mass and pray the Christian way kasi tingin ko iisa lang naman talaga ang Creator, iba-iba lang interpretation and methodology of worship natin human beings. But at the same time I also study and integrate Buddhist teachings and try to be more like Kuan Yin each day: as loving and compassionate as I can be

Yung sabi niyo po about succumbing to the dark side, well there were times in my life nga na sa sobrang disillusionment ko sa mundo I wanted to be one of the “villains” na nga lang. In fact, sa sobrang egoistic ko noon parang proud pa ako na marami akong tendencies from the Machiavellian personality scale. I had one past incarnation related to me via the akashic record na ang main lesson was “Would you rather be feared than loved?” kasi I enjoyed material wealth and power during that lifetime but I was cruel and heartless and died miserably unloved. When I look back at my immediate past may phase din ako na ganon, kaya ngayon I work hard each day to love and be loved, deadma na fame or material gain and goodbye to my prima donna/dominatrix complex ha-ha. Maganda naman po ang Luck/Karma ko in terms of finances (not rich but my necessities seem to just fall on my lap, sometimes chasing me pa nga), but with love and relationships parang doon yata ako unstable or lacking. Due to unresolved past life dilemmas, sablay na feng shui sa bahay (LOL), may bitter na sumumpa sa akin, or siguro insufficient pa ang “funds” ko in my karmic bank account to be granted true-blue, longer-lasting love. Kaya eto ako ngayon doing everything I can to tip the scales and raise my luck in love...

[Zea88]

Yup ako din sis candygrenade challenging din nga ang karmic lesson ko and Im working on my courage rin.. Ipon muna ng good deeds at focus well. 

Sir Ch tanong ko lang po kung pwede po ba yung broad leaves yung nasa paso pero bato lang nakalagay ( yung nabibili sa mall) ilalagay po sa entrance ng pinto namin sa bahay kasi nandun yung mga footwear namin pero may takip naman para di pangit tignan. Thank you po