Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)

[j.adore]

If you're the type who wants a lot of attention from the partner, he's not for you.

It's not going to end kasi studying medicine then he will finish as a doctor right? Then, what if he specializes pa? Could be decades..

Pero bihira ang good guys (if he is one as you say and because he's been liking you for a while) and to think kasama niyo agad family niya sa first date

BTW, continue in the next thread na this might get locked http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,286266.20.html

[p0isonIvy]

^baka kaya ayaw sagutin yung mga tanong mo dahil magseselos ka.

e.g. 
bea31: anong fave position mo?
guy: fave ko yung __________
bea31: talaga? sino ginanun mo etc. etc. magaling ba si ganyan sa ganun etc. etc.

hula ko lang naman yan.

^ lol mejo may pagka psychotic yung line of questioning. scary

[redhead69]

If you're the type who wants a lot of attention from the partner, he's not for you.

It's not going to end kasi studying medicine then he will finish as a doctor right? Then, what if he specializes pa? Could be decades..

Pero bihira ang good guys (if he is one as you say and because he's been liking you for a while) and to think kasama niyo agad family niya sa first date

BTW, continue in the next thread na this might get locked http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,286266.20.html

Yeah i think he has good intentions naman since sa parents agad first date namin. And i think he's a guy that wants to settle down kasi pag naguusap kami. All he ask for me is intindihin siya if busy siya palagi di daw sa iniignore niya ako, pero sobrang busy daw talaga and kahit sleep konti na lang daw. So im trying my best to understand him. im just afraid to get hurt again so i told him na di namin irurush lahat.

[nene1117]

sis redhead69, share ko lang ang experience ko with my future husband..during our college days, si h2b kasi is engineering ang course at super seryoso siya sa pagaaral, we are both scholars but mas serious siya sa pagaaral compared sa akin. sa communication, bihira lang siya magtext pati ang pagkikita namin. Feeling ko dati hindi siya seryoso sa akin at yung tipong hindi talaga siya boyfriend material. Ilang beses kami nagbreak noon at yung latest na breakup namin is nung 4th year na kami.. Tas nung nagwwork na ako, nagkita kami ulit and the we're back for the *th time and mag9years na kami now mula nung latest na balikan namin..
Si h2b nung college kami, ang priority nia is pagaaral over me, which is noon ay di ko maintindihan kung bakit siya ganun kaya madalas ang pagaaway namin. Ngayong may edad na ako(well early 30s lang), narealized ko na super lucky ako kay h2b kasi alam nia yung mga priorities nia sa buhay. Niuna nia lahat na dapat unahin para in the end magiging ok ang kinabukasan namin.. Sa bandang dulo, ako na ang priority nia at yung magiging anak hehe...
Payo ko sayo sis, kung sakaling magkatuluyan kayo ni future doc, you must have a lot of patience and be understanding, suportahan mo siya sa dream nia kasi para din sa'yo yun...

[redhead69]

sis nene1117
Thanks for sharing sis. Well right now di pa kami nagkakausap. Parehas kami na ayaw namin nirurush isa't isa. Pero may ugali kasi ako minsan na gusto ko palagi ko kasama. Pero since shnare mo yung story mo na motivate ako and i can see wala siyang bad intentions sa akin. Gradeschool-Highschool crush ko siya. Di pa niya alam now na nagkacrush ako sa kanya noon. I hope si doc mahaba pasensya. Medyo pasaway kasi ako haha.

What i observed about him is :
-Introvert
-Palaging nasa star section nung highschool
-Varsity player (basketball)
-Palaging involve sa church activities
-Mabait sa lahat. What i mean by mabait is magalang,di judgemental and di namimili ng tinutulungan
-Complete family nila
-I asked him nung nasa highschool pa kami if nagkagirlfriend na ba siya sabi niya "isang kamutual lang pero di pa ako pwede magkagirlfriend"

Di ko naman naisip na gay siya kasi i cant see any signs na bakla siya. Parang perfect masyado for me. What do you think guys?

[simang]

^just enjoy whatever you guys have. Hindi lahat ng makikilala mong lalaki eh yun na ang "the one". It's a trial and error thing. So if it works out for the two of you, eh di good. If it doesn't, move on and enjoy other meeting other people.

Kung gusto mo sya, show him. If he likes you you will know naman one way or another eh. You won't be confused if he does or not. Just take things as they are and don't over analyze.

[ohcmon]

I'm half-hearted kung aawayin ko bf ko. Lol

He'll be out of town for work the whole week kaya sabi niya nung Saturday, punta siya dito dapat kahapon so we can hang out and all.

'Di siya nagpunta. Wala ring explanation sa text or tawag na kahit ano. 'Yun pa isang nakakainis na ugali niya, buti kung nagsabi man lang sana siya na 'di siya makakapunta.

When I woke up this morning, 35 missed calls from him and texts ang nasa phone ko. He was outside the house daw before he left, nagbakasakali lang daw siya na magising at makita niya ako bago siya umalis, sorry daw at 'di siya nakapunta kahapon.

While I appreciate his gesture, naiinis pa rin ako sa kanya. Lol. Enough grounds ba 'yun para awayin ko siya despite the fact na pinuntahan niya naman ako kaninang umaga kahit 'di ako nagising?

Feeling ko kasi if I let him get away with this, ganito lang din mga gagawin niya sa mga susunod pang panahon.

[redhead69]

^just enjoy whatever you guys have. Hindi lahat ng makikilala mong lalaki eh yun na ang "the one". It's a trial and error thing. So if it works out for the two of you, eh di good. If it doesn't, move on and enjoy other meeting other people.

Kung gusto mo sya, show him. If he likes you you will know naman one way or another eh. You won't be confused if he does or not. Just take things as they are and don't over analyze.

Hi sis! Its you again! Yeah i should enjoy it muna. Im not saying na ''he's the one'' pero I'll give it a try since pinapakita niya (for now idk) na good intentions niya. If it doesnt work. Forgive,Forget and Move on.

[simang]

^haha yes it's me again! kaya wag muna seryosohin, enjoy mo lang. if he's the right person, you will know. he will prove it to you

[p0isonIvy]

I'm half-hearted kung aawayin ko bf ko. Lol

He'll be out of town for work the whole week kaya sabi niya nung Saturday, punta siya dito dapat kahapon so we can hang out and all.

'Di siya nagpunta. Wala ring explanation sa text or tawag na kahit ano. 'Yun pa isang nakakainis na ugali niya, buti kung nagsabi man lang sana siya na 'di siya makakapunta.

^ scary yang mga ganyang "disappearing acts" ng bf. yung mga inexplicable absences nila, ang dami kasing pwedeng mangyari. ano daw explanation nya sis? if it was me, i will really probe into his reason.

[ohcmon]

^ Umuwi kasi siya sa house nila for the weekend (about two hours from where we both work), ginabi na raw nang nakabalik dahil nalibang sa DoTA grrr. 'Di ko raw kasi pinaalala sa kanya na may lakad nga pala kami.

In fairness to him, makakalimutin nga siya. Recently nagtampo sa kanya 'yung childhood friend niya dahil hindi siya nakaattend sa binyag nung anak dahil nakalimutan niya.

[WarChe]

Guys, what if yung guy may gusto sa akin. And recently lang niya sinabi pero matagal ka na niya kilala like gradeschool highschool days pa. Pero di niya sinabi agad na gusto ka niya, gumawa muna siya ng topic etc. then he's asking you out. Busy siyang tao kasi he's studying medicine na. So pag maguusap kami parang snail mail sa sobrang tagal magreply. I know he's a good guy kasi since gradeschool kami focused lang siya sa school. Nung highschool kami flings lang. Should i entertain him? Di ba niya ako gagawing past time? Pero parang di naman kasi gusto niya dinner with his family. What should i do? Takot na kasi ako masaktan.

He probably a good guy, how will you know his real attitude and intentions kung di mo sya ientertain? nagliligawan pa naman kayo eh.. kung nakitaan mo na sya ng early signs na di mo gusto then huwag mo ituloy para walang masyadong masaktan sa inyo.

[jtansanco]

^ I agree. So, redhead, just go... See how he is and then re-think everything after the first date.

[redhead69]

WarChe di naman siguro bad thing sa akin yung busy siya sa studies niya since he's taking up medicine. Yun nga lang i guess ako may problem minsan may pagkaclingy ako e. Like i want to be with my partner if nagttrigger pagiging clingy ko haha. After ng finals niya maybe will try to go out. Di pa sure since we're both have a busy schedule.

jtsanco im just worried na i might get hurt. Is it possible to go on a date kahit you recently cut your connection with your previous partner (2 weeks ago) but i can say totally na cut na connections namin ng previous partner ko kasi nababastos na niya ako. Di ba makakaapekto dito kay Mr.Goodguy? Thanks!

*what i mean by "partner" im referring to my previous ex na tntry namin if magwowork out ulit samin, pero di na nagwork.

[jtansanco]

^ Of course, it's going to be good for you. It'll make you forget the ex even faster since you will create new memories with the new guy. But problem is, good guy might be a rebound so you better make sure what you feel about him.

[redhead69]

^Mr.Goodguy is my crush way back when we were gradeschool and highschool. Pero di ko sinasabi of course. I think di ko naman gagawing rebound si Mr.Goodguy kasi i can see the good qualities na gusto ko sa kanya. Before anything else and before we decide to start a new relationship. I'll just make sure that everything is okay na. Im just a little bit worried about getting hurt lang.

[ziontrec]

^
getting hurt is part of the deal, whenever we start loving another, we allow/give that person the ability to hurt us.

“The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.”
sabi nga ni bob marley ata to



live laugh love

update mo kami how it goes ha

[redhead69]

Sige sis i will update soon! Thank you for the advices and powerful qoutes! Im at the moment pa kasi thinking if i'll go on a date with him or stay as friends lang haha! Well lets see! Thank you guys!