Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)

[oshiawase]

^^but nga sayo minutes lang. It happened to me, i liked this guy before and he replies mga 1 or 2 days after.

alam na. haha

[budzwhiz]

Ang mga guys ba talaga matagal bago magreply sa mga text? Nakita na yung message mo, tapos it took 3 or 4 hours bago ka replyan. Tapos Does it mean ba kapag ganun hindi masyado importante sa inyo ang girl kapag ganun katagal magreply.

Baka naman ayaw lang pa obvious. Lol. Siguro kung bawat reply e ganun katagal... Edi alam na.

^ Hahah! Grabe naman yan sis. Sana di nalang sya nagreply. Haha

[queenteaser]

^^but nga sayo minutes lang. It happened to me, i liked this guy before and he replies mga 1 or 2 days after.

alam na. haha

^ haha sis mas malala ako jan, minsan weeks bago sumagot. yung tipong so, ngayon mo lang talaga naisipan sumagot. madalas deadma pa. nakakapagod at sayang sa oras pag ganyan. haha

[fleur_de_liz]

i remember a guy who told me he really likes me.. we texted a lot nung una then bila sya mawawala then magtetext lang kung kelan nya gusto sometime 2 days walang paramdam, then sometimes 1 week.. hanggang sa nawala na.. then nagka-bf ako at nalaman nya so he texted me sana daw hinintay ko sya then i told him na how will i wait for him eh ni hindi nga sya nagpaparamdam and hindi ko nga alam kung gusto nya ba ko or hindi then he told me na he really likes me it's just that nahihiya pa sya manligaw kasi struggling pa daw sya sa buhay nya then now naman na ok na sya at nakahanap na ng new job, may bf naman an daw ako.. so sabi ko hindi ko na kasalanan yun..

[misslovelyjoy]

May isang guy na nagchat sa akin nung nakita picture ko na kita underarm. Fetish niya daw kasi yun. May ganun pala talaga noh?

[slickchick]

^ Mas weird yang underarm fetish sis.. I have an officemate (guy) foot fetish naman.. Kaya pala kapag naka-sandals ako (or any of us girls sa office) tapos may red polish or any bright color polish, talagang hindi nya maiwasan na hindi batiin.. Buti na lang matagal ko na sya kakilala and wala naman syang ginagawang kabastusan sa akin (or sa feet ko) so I really don't take any offense in it.. Hanggang compliment lang naman sya na ok yung feet or yung polish ko.. hehe! 

[lesters_gal]

^We been going out for a year now and consistent sha na ganyan. Nakakainis nga kasi yun lagi ang pinag aawayan namen. Nakita ko na last login niya tapos hindi parin sha nagrereply. Lagi ko sinasabi sa kanya na pag ganun ang ginagawa niya i don't feel that i am important to him.

[VainDoll]

Ano ba work nung mga guys na yan? Kasi kami ng bf ko both nurses. So minsan yun reply namin after shift na unless may sobrang libreng time since sobrang toxic sa area namin. No wiwi at walang inom inom at kain minsan. Maybe take into consideration his work din. Baka busy talaga.

Pero if hindi nyo naman bf yun guy jut casual going out and he is working siguro sa ofis baka nga di siya that interested. Mas interesado sa iba

[Girltalker2]

^We been going out for a year now and consistent sha na ganyan. Nakakainis nga kasi yun lagi ang pinag aawayan namen. Nakita ko na last login niya tapos hindi parin sha nagrereply. Lagi ko sinasabi sa kanya na pag ganun ang ginagawa niya i don't feel that i am important to him.

Deadmahin mo din sya. If it took him 3 hours to reply, pag nag reply, magreply ka ulit after 6 hours. 

[simang]

^We been going out for a year now and consistent sha na ganyan. Nakakainis nga kasi yun lagi ang pinag aawayan namen. Nakita ko na last login niya tapos hindi parin sha nagrereply. Lagi ko sinasabi sa kanya na pag ganun ang ginagawa niya i don't feel that i am important to him.

Either you suck it up or leave kung araw araw nyong pag aawayan. If you continue to argue about it, believe me hindi sya magbabago. Mas lalo yan masstress at mas lalo ka iiwasan.

[lesters_gal]

He's an engineer. Well after a year of being bf/gf im getting used to it na nga ng konti. Pero minsan talaga naiinis ako.... ginagantihan ko sha pero hindi ko rin minsan matiis, nag rereply din agad ako.

[ann08]

What is your thought about a girl who doesn't do much house chores? Like she grew up with kasambahay?

[simang]

He's an engineer. Well after a year of being bf/gf im getting used to it na nga ng konti. Pero minsan talaga naiinis ako.... ginagantihan ko sha pero hindi ko rin minsan matiis, nag rereply din agad ako.

pero accepting him as he is is way different than settling for less ha. isipin mo na lang ganito, if nasanay ka na at hindi mo na isusumbat sa kanya your issues, pero mega kwento ka naman to your friends (or whoever) how him not texting you right away is unacceptable, he will still feel na you haven't fully accepted that behavior. men want to be appreciated for how they are, and they will never respond positively to what they're forced to do.

What is your thought about a girl who doesn't do much house chores? Like she grew up with kasambahay?

most of my guy friends would say okay lang, but i believe it's a man's nature to be more connected to someone who's more domestic, more motherly. sabi ng isang guy friend ko before, the perfect girl for him is someone as nurturing as his mom, only pwede nya isex.

[nixiquita]

^a nurturing mom with a bangin body na pwedeng isex anytime. Ohhh men. Haha

[Girltalker2]

What is your thought about a girl who doesn't do much house chores? Like she grew up with kasambahay?

Sakin ok lang. (Kasi isa ako dyan).   

Pero ang pagkakaiba is, hindi sya dapat brat, at marunong mabuhay mag isa.  Madiskarte kung baga and not just someone who looks for a rich husband para may magsustento sa kanya.

I always believe na kahit hindi ka marunong ng chores, gawan mo ng paraan. Hindi yun say maiwan ka mag isa hindi mo alam where to start. 

At the same time, ganun din ang tingin ko sa lalaki. Hindi puede sakin na ine-expect nila na ang babae eh marunong sa gawaing bahay pero sila naman hindi din marunong. That's not fair.  Kasi in terms of earning naman, kaya ba nya na sya lang mag-earn?  These days, karamihan hindi na, karamihan kelangan dalawa na kayo nagt-trabaho. So bakit hindi puede kayong dalawa dapat gumawa ng gawaing bahay?

[argento]

Women are expected to do house chores.

[jtansanco]

What is your thought about a girl who doesn't do much house chores? Like she grew up with kasambahay?

That's okay..... as long as you're earning more money than I am! If not, I can help you with the dishes while you can do the rest. You can act like a queen if you can afford maids. If not, you gotta do what you gotta do.

[Girltalker2]

Women are expected to do house chores.

Then marry a household helper then, sigurado plantsado na maayos mga damit mo.

That's okay..... as long as you're earning more money than I am! If not, I can help you with the dishes while you can do the rest. You can act like a queen if you can afford maids. If not, you gotta do what you gotta do.

The problem is men want their wives to have smooth silky skin but expect the house to be spic and span. Duh!? pano mangyari yun.
Hindi ba kung malaki talaga kinikita ng guy, dapat maghire din sya ng household help para ma maintain ni wife ang beauty nya for her guy? At dapat kasama na sa budget ng lalaki (kung earning talaga sya ha) ang maid. It is part of the household expenses.

On the other hand, if the girl indeed earns more than you, are you willing to take responsibility on ALL the household chores kahit na may work ka rin?

You don't marry a woman para may gumawa ng household chores ninyo. 

Household chores - bakit sa babae bumabagsak ito?  Paano mo i-explain yung breadwinners na wives and yet hands on parin sila sa kids and sa house?

[Jaguar.Paw]

anong gagawin mo kung ang first born son mo e hindi sunod sa surname mo? mas pinili ni gf to be under her name. tho ilang taon na din kayo mag bf/gf tapos kilala na both parties. kumbaga, everything all right.

[langley]

Women are expected to do house chores.

I agree.