Re: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 5)

[fleur_de_liz]

let's continue our discussion here...

[jtansanco]

question: ano ang pinaka-ayaw nyong guys sa ugali ng girl? is it true ba na ayaw na ayaw daw talaga ng guys ang girl na nagger?


If you guys are bf/gf, a clingy girl who will keep on texting/call so she can track where you are.
If you guys re not bf/gf, a girl who takes a freakin' long time to reply.

[fleur_de_liz]

long time to reply talaga? ayaw din ng girls ng ganun.. hehe..

is it true na ayaw din minsan ng guys ng mga girls na nagttantrums?

[fleur_de_liz]

grabe naman yun may "roll on the floor pa talaga ang drama.. bata lang?? lolz

[jhaney]

Just wanna hear the answer from a man. What do you think could be the possible reason bakit si bf biglang nag disappear. As in di na nakipagcommunicate? First, di nakipagcommunicate sa isang linggo tapos bigla nagpakita and the reason was sira daw phone. I know it's a lame excuse. Then after that mag one month ng di na naman nakipag communicate? I know there's a lot of ways para mag reach out si bf, just wanna know your thoughts.

[bonita111809]

Just wanna hear the answer from a man. What do you think could be the possible reason bakit si bf biglang nag disappear. As in di na nakipagcommunicate? First, di nakipagcommunicate sa isang linggo tapos bigla nagpakita and the reason was sira daw phone. I know it's a lame excuse. Then after that mag one month ng di na naman nakipag communicate? I know there's a lot of ways para mag reach out si bf, just wanna know your thoughts.

pwede bang sumagot ang babae?

[whitebishop]

^based on your statement, it seems he has lost interest to you or possibly a third party.

[jhaney]

@bonita111809 - puede naman po sumagot ang girl. 

@whitebishop - Talaga? Ganun lang yun kadali sa kanya? Even if we have plans on getting married na? Without even telling me the truth? Well, wala namang umamin hangga't hindi nahuhuli eh. LOL Yan din kasi iniisip ko baka may third party.

[fleur_de_liz]

same here.. di ko rin na-getz bakit ganun? di man lang magtanong sa family and friends kung ano nangyari?

pero isa lang nakikita ko dyan, mukhang ayaw na nya.. why? based on experience, i had a bf for 5 years, everyday texting, calling then isang araw biglang buong araw walang text at call na hindi naman common sa kanya, then i go to their house to check sabi wala daw doon so tinawagan ko sumagot naman, sabi nasa bahay daw ng barkada ( i was so pissed off dahil hindi nya ginagawa sa akin yun before) he always tell me na aalis sya, na pupunta sya sa kung saan pero that very same time may kakaiba na talaga hanggang sa nagsunod sunod na yung ganung pangyayari so kinausap ko na sya kung bakit sya ganun, kung bakit sya nag-bago then he admitted (good thing he had the ball to tell me the truth) na ayaw na nya sa relationship namin, that he came to a point na kelangan na daw nya ng space.. so there. kasi kung mahal ka pa ng isang tao, hindi ka hahayaan nyan mag-worry..kaya if i were you mag-isip isip ka rin kung karapatdapat pa ba sya for you.

[bonita111809]

Just wanna hear the answer from a man. What do you think could be the possible reason bakit si bf biglang nag disappear. As in di na nakipagcommunicate? First, di nakipagcommunicate sa isang linggo tapos bigla nagpakita and the reason was sira daw phone. I know it's a lame excuse. Then after that mag one month ng di na naman nakipag communicate? I know there's a lot of ways para mag reach out si bf, just wanna know your thoughts.

possible reasons:
1.may kabit
2.ikaw ang kabit at clueless ka
3.hindi ka na gusto
4.wala talagang plano pakasal sa'yo

[jhaney]

^Mejo magulo talaga set up naman since parehas kami busy sa work. Bihira talaga kami magkita but we always keep in touch through text messages and phone calls. Hindi siya ma-techie na tao kaya wala siyang FB or Skype.

Yes, we have plans on getting married pero di ko pa kilala family niya. Pero kilala na siya ng family ko. Usapan namin before we get married na makilala ko muna family niya. He's in a hurry na magsettle down kami ang magka anak but I want to take it one step at a time since di ko pa kilala family niya.

Then this suddenly happened na bigla siyang di nakipag communicate. Plan ko na puntahan siya sa work niya before pero naisip ko, for what pa? Nung first time niyang ginawa yun at pinuntahan niya ko sa bahay, parang wala lang sa kanya na di ko siya macontact for a week at sinabi lang niya na sira ang phone niya. I wasn't satisfied with his answer.

Kaya I don't see the need na puntahan siya sa work or house niya. I'm just wondering what might be the possible reason kung bakit nagkakaganun ang isang lalake. Just wanna know kung anong views/opinion ng isang lalake regarding this matter.

[jhaney]

@fleur_de_liz - thanks, hindi pala ko nag-iisa. At least nagsabi siya sa yo. Sa akin kasi, ni ha ni ho wala.

@bonita111809 - thanks for giving me the possible reasons.

If that's the case, tama nga ang decision ko na just assume na wala na kami at mag move-on and go on with my life. Nung una niyang ginawa sa kin to, mega-cry talaga ako kasi nga sobrang sakit naman ang ginawa niya kasi biglang nang iwan sa ere. Tapos the second time, I told myself by third week at wala pa talaga, kelangan ko na siya talagang kalimutan. I know it's not that easy but at least I'm trying my best to be strong. Such a total waste of time kung iiyakan ko na naman siya ulit.

Siyempre di ko lang maiwasan na ma-curious that's why nag post ako dito. LOL

[bonita111809]

@fleur_de_liz - thanks, hindi pala ko nag-iisa. At least nagsabi siya sa yo. Sa akin kasi, ni ha ni ho wala.

@bonita111809 - thanks for giving me the possible reasons.

If that's the case, tama nga ang decision ko na just assume na wala na kami at mag move-on and go on with my life. Nung una niyang ginawa sa kin to, mega-cry talaga ako kasi nga sobrang sakit naman ang ginawa niya kasi biglang nang iwan sa ere. Tapos the second time, I told myself by third week at wala pa talaga, kelangan ko na siya talagang kalimutan. I know it's not that easy but at least I'm trying my best to be strong. Such a total waste of time kung iiyakan ko na naman siya ulit.

Siyempre di ko lang maiwasan na ma-curious that's why nag post ako dito. LOL

sis, a guy who is sincere in his plans of marrying you will introduce you to his family. may mga lalakeng nangangako para lang makuha ang gusto nila. kung baga sa board game, pinapa-dama ka lang.

matanong ko lang, ilang months na kayo at bakit hindi ka pa pinapakilala sa parents or relatives?

[fleur_de_liz]

nagulat din ako.. magpapakasal na kayo ni hindi ka pa pala nakikilala ng family nya.. im with a very young relationship now, 3 months to be exact. my bf's family is in their province pero yun 2 kapatid nya na nasa manila pinilit nya talaga na ipakilala sa akin. then the family na nasa province pinapakausap nya sa akin sa phone para ng sa ganun eh kahit di ko nakikita eh may communication naman kami..
sis wag ka masyadong paniwala sa bf mo na yan.. ako i can feel na he's not sincere.. kelanagn mong gumising sa katotohanan sis.. he's not worth it, hanap ka na lang ng iba, yung kaya kang pahalagaan as a gf..

[amethyst028]

pag type niyo yung girl do you tend to ignore her. i mean you get shy around her kaya mas kakausapin niyo yung ibang girls na hindi niyo type. and is it ok if the girl is the first one to say "hi" let's say sa office or sa class room where you see each other a lot pero hindi kayo formally magkaka kilala.

also if a pretty girl (your type) is friendly, ma chika, down to earth, accommodating, binibigyan niyo ba yun ng meaning yun? do you automatically assume na type niya kayo?

[whitebishop]

^
1. it may also mean that the guy is not interested in you.  it's okay to say hi, some men won't make a move without getting a hint first.  we don't like rejection so some of us becomes daring if there are hints around.
2. we also analyze but we base more our interpretations on the obvious. if a girl is accommodating, we guys take it as some sort of a chance that she may like us.  we like her and she is open so like in number 1. That may be a hint, a chance. So we'll take that chance if we like the girl.

[sacred cow]

pag type niyo yung girl do you tend to ignore her. i mean you get shy around her kaya mas kakausapin niyo yung ibang girls na hindi niyo type. and is it ok if the girl is the first one to say "hi" let's say sa office or sa class room where you see each other a lot pero hindi kayo formally magkaka kilala.

sometimes, so as not to show the girl na gustong gusto ko sya. siyempre ok lang naman na siya unang mag-hi. though these days if I like a girl and we've not been formally introduced, I go and approach her to introduce myself...why should I leave my fate in the hands of others. kung ayaw, e di ayaw...at least those who liked me also like my confidence (na unang nakipagkilala)

also if a pretty girl (your type) is friendly, ma chika, down to earth, accommodating, binibigyan niyo ba yun ng meaning yun? do you automatically assume na type niya kayo?

unless she goes out with me, makes out with me or I see her naked hindi ako magaassume na gusto niya ako. though yung mga sinabi mo, can be indicators of interest pero hindi rin yan certain...siguro mas may chance lang ako compared dun sa hindi niya kinakausap, pero it still doesn't mean shvt.

[jtansanco]

pag type niyo yung girl do you tend to ignore her. i mean you get shy around her kaya mas kakausapin niyo yung ibang girls na hindi niyo type. and is it ok if the girl is the first one to say "hi" let's say sa office or sa class room where you see each other a lot pero hindi kayo formally magkaka kilala.

also if a pretty girl (your type) is friendly, ma chika, down to earth, accommodating, binibigyan niyo ba yun ng meaning yun? do you automatically assume na type niya kayo?

If I like a girl, I tend to be definitely shy around her. I can't make eye contact and I can't think properly because I'm too mesmerized by just looking at her. But definitely, it's okay for you girls to say "hi" to break the ice. It gives us guys glimmer of hope that you also "like" us. For the ignore part, I don't think so. You'll see us often within your eyesight but you'll just find it weird why we're there since we will do random stuff to be near you but not talk to you. We enjoy looking at you.

Sometimes, we assume but we'd rather not. If you're my type and you're like that to me, I'll definitely cherish the moment but we'll know if you like us or not based on some circumstances (like for example, if we ask you out and you said yes, AYOS MAY CHANCE! But if you said no, OUCH FRIENDZONED! - oh the pain and suffering!). Haha

[Girltalker2]

long time to reply talaga? ayaw din ng girls ng ganun.. hehe..

is it true na ayaw din minsan ng guys ng mga girls na nagttantrums?

I don't think anyone wants to be with a friend, BF/GF, parent, sibling, child, officemate na nag-t-tantrums. 

Just wanna hear the answer from a man. What do you think could be the possible reason bakit si bf biglang nag disappear. As in di na nakipagcommunicate? First, di nakipagcommunicate sa isang linggo tapos bigla nagpakita and the reason was sira daw phone. I know it's a lame excuse. Then after that mag one month ng di na naman nakipag communicate? I know there's a lot of ways para mag reach out si bf, just wanna know your thoughts.

He is just simply playing you out.  May ibang diversion. Pero kapag nawala na, babalik ulit sayo, kasi andyan ka naman lagi nag-aantay.

@bonita111809 - puede naman po sumagot ang girl. 

@whitebishop - Talaga? Ganun lang yun kadali sa kanya? Even if we have plans on getting married na? Without even telling me the truth? Well, wala namang umamin hangga't hindi nahuhuli eh. LOL Yan din kasi iniisip ko baka may third party.

Oo, kaya nga may mga t*rant*ado sa mundo. Isa na sya dun.  Ayaw lang humarap sayo kasi di nya alam paano sya mag a-apologize. Nad-duwag or nab-bakla, whatever you call it.

Kaya I don't see the need na puntahan siya sa work or house niya. I'm just wondering what might be the possible reason kung bakit nagkakaganun ang isang lalake. Just wanna know kung anong views/opinion ng isang lalake regarding this matter.

That's why, in meeting guys, once you spot someone like this (and they are common by the way), run away as far as you can kasi, di talaga sila worth ng time mo, unless gusto mo lang din maglaro.

[fleur_de_liz]

very well said Girltalker2